Non pro pros

[Deleted User]hughunter (deleted user)
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Is it like against the rules or anything to charge people money without being a pro? Several times now I'll message a girl who isn't listed as a pro, make plans to meetup and cuddle. Then last minute before we meet I get a message saying "oh btw I charge x amount of money per hour". Doesn't really seem right to make plans with someone to cuddle presumably for free then turn it around and charge money last minute. Anyone else encounter this?

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  • Mike403Mike403

    Report them. They'll either be suspended until approved to be a pro or banned.

  • [Deleted User]hughunter (deleted user)

    @Mike403 oh, thanks. Right on! I just found the report button under messages. That's probably why they ask for phone number and text instead lol.

  • [Deleted User]Turtle530 (deleted user)

    Yes, It is against the rules. There are so few enthusiast cuddlers in my area that I mostly am contacting Professionals, So I have not had that problem. Consider reporting it.

  • SunsetSnugglesSunsetSnuggles

    Yes, absolutely against the rules. Absolutely report each and every one of them.

    Everyone talks about how creepy men are, but women can be real slimeballs. Not only is it against the rules, but it's just despicable behavior to mislead people like that.

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

    🦄 Enthusiast 🏞 Travel Fiend 🐘 Animal Lover

  • [Deleted User]MaverickLegend (deleted user)


    @SunsetSnuggles

  • [Deleted User]hughunter (deleted user)

    Oh ok, thanks everyone, didn't even know how to report until today lol. Definitely will now though.

  • TxTomTxTom

    They're called Faux Pros.

  • SunsetSnugglesSunsetSnuggles

    @hughunter No worries, mate. I'm sorry you've encountered duplicitous women, here. If I ever make it back to Arizona, I'd be happy to get to know you and meet up. 😊

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

    🦄 Enthusiast 🏞 Travel Fiend 🐘 Animal Lover

  • starrynitecudsstarrynitecuds
    edited April 2024

    @TxTom I remember @Sooson calling them "wallet enthusiasts."
    "Faux Pros" is going on the Best Of list.

  • TxTomTxTom
    edited April 2024

    My term sounds more inclusive and less triggering.

  • SunsetSnugglesSunsetSnuggles

    @TxTom: "Faux Pros"

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

    🦄 Enthusiast 🏞 Travel Fiend 🐘 Animal Lover

  • [Deleted User]hughunter (deleted user)

    @SunsetSnuggles sounds good! Let me know if your in town!

  • [Deleted User]FriendlyFemale (deleted user)
    edited April 2024

    @FriendlyFemale A reminder to limit advertising as a Pro to the appropriate section of the forums [netrunner]

  • Connecticut1977Connecticut1977

    If they do not have a PRO sticker on the profile, DO NOT give them a PENNY.

  • waynewvwaynewv

    I have not had that happen to me.
    I did have a cuddle all set up with a non Pro once and about 1 hour before the cuddle she canceled, no reason listed. The next day she contacted me as a Pro and wanted me to request a cuddle with her, of course I did not .

  • TxTomTxTom

    @waynewv Same.

  • [Deleted User]hughunter (deleted user)

    @waynewv lol that same thing happened to me except the girl was new to the site and about an hour after she made plans with me she told me that another guy offered her money. She then immediately changed her profile to pro and said "I know I made plans already to cuddle with you already but now that i am a pro I have learned that i must charge for my services" i just said ok goodbye then, take care.

  • [Deleted User]hughunter (deleted user)

    @FriendlyFemale I appreciate your offer and I have nothing against pros and understand you provide a much needed service. I have tried cuddling with pros in the past and I personally just don't really enjoy it much. I just can't shake the thought that this person doesn't really want to cuddle with me. Again that's my own personal issue, no judgement to those who are pros or use their services.

  • KatotaKatota

    I did have a cuddle all set up with a non Pro once and about 1 hour before the cuddle she canceled, no reason listed. The next day she contacted me as a Pro and wanted me to request a cuddle with her,
    of course I did not .

    @waynewv Wow, that really sucks...😳

  • TR23TR23

    Twice I’ve begun exchanging messages with someone then later they become pro. One had an appointment setup as an enthusiast, she no showed and didn’t communicate. Next day asked if I wanted to reschedule as a pro. Not cool and no thanks.

  • pmvinespmvines

    There is no non pro pro . Only pro or pro not.

  • KatotaKatota

    @pmvines Pro be or not Pro be...🤔😊

  • pmvinespmvines

    Cuddle Yoda has spoken

  • [Deleted User]FriendlyFemale (deleted user)

    @hughunter Understood. 🙂 I hope you find your enthisiast.

  • hey_nikkyhey_nikky

    @hughunter there are some pros who genuinely enjoy cuddling with everyone. But I completely get where you're coming from.

  • quincyq03quincyq03

    Report them. Not sure about other experiences, but similar things happen to me often. Most of the new local members I start chats with in my area tell me they charge, but their profile is not a pro one.

    Sometimes I think it’s just people who want to make a quick buck and haven’t gotten the pro tag yet. It’s not mal-intentioned, but it’s misleading to enthusiasts.

    I assume they just don’t know how this works and they expect to start making bank the day they sign up. I recently started talking to a new member and I initiated what I thought was meaningful small talk. She quickly dismissed me and said she’s only here to make money, except she wasn’t even a tagged pro yet…

    Maybe some people just want to circumvent the cut they have to give away?

  • OriginalirishOriginalirish

    I arrived at a cuddle session once where the woman immediately stripped upon my entering her home and then demanded $500. It's been a hot minute, she's no longer on the site, lol.

  • skhanskhan

    I too have encountered a few non professionals who at the end were requesting money to cuddle

  • TxTomTxTom

    the woman immediately stripped upon my entering her home and then demanded $500.

    So she wasn't a Pro, a Faux Pro, or an enthusiast.

    Sounds like an ecdysiast.

    ➵ TxTom
    ☣️ toxically positive
    🐄💨 pro-cow farting
    🤓 cuddle nerd

  • [Deleted User]1_teddybear (deleted user)

    Thanks @TxTom, I didn't know anyone else knew that word. Thanks for the laugh. You made my day.

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