Hi! So I've never cuddled before, have very little experience with intimacy, and just created an account today. I thought that I should probably keep it within five years of my age group (and said so on my profile), since I'm a 20 year old woman and feel a bit strange about cuddling with someone much older than me, but I've been mostly getting messages from guys in their mid 30s and 40s who didn't read my profile or something. One of them said to me, after I told him that I'd like to keep to it in my age range, that younger guys will be more likely to take things in a more intimate direction--something I absolutely don't want, btw. Which does make sense...but I feel a little worried about cuddling with someone ten, twenty years older than me. Like, I'm a (small) 20 year old woman.
I was hoping I could get a wider opinion from you guys--what do you think of the situation? Should I try older after or all, or should I state more than once in my profile that I'm looking for younger partners?