@Morpheus Thanks for the dinner suggestion. 🥪 🥛
@jack62 Good luck finding a female enthusiast. Whole reason there are so many pros is that getting an enthusiast to cuddle with is exceedingly rare.
@g_w_t_w has nothing at all to be jealous of trust me. Folks should be listening and learning from her, not the other way around .
To a dearest and wisest friend @pmvines 😊🤗🙏🏻 honestly, so many of you have taught me a lot, and provided great humor and enjoyment (ok sometimes for the wrong reasons) lol I’m sure I’ve done the same for many of you! I read all the different POVs and sometimes learn what not to do, how to be kinder to people, try to accept them as they are and recognize that I can’t change anyone except myself. ✌🏻❤️ 🎵
I don’t think any of my ladies ever asked for the payment. I usually offer after and they’re so greatful. Maybe I’m lucky
I've had in-person sessions with 8 different pros and I've never once been asked for payment at the beginning. However, I usually try to remember and offer it at the beginning before they ask because my mind isn't usually in a place to remember stuff like that by the time we are done. (Of course, due to my ADHD, I have forgotten to pay upfront a few times. Still wasn't asked, though.)
I have had nothing but positive experiences so far, but I also haven't done longer than an hour for any first meet with someone new. Generally, I see that first hour as a trial and if it doesn't go well, then I won't see them again. Also, if I don't get a good vibe from their profile and our communication ahead of time, I don't book with them in the first place. Trust goes both ways and each person is taking a risk. I prefer to enter a session trusting the pro by default.
Waiiittt happened to my dear friend autumn bottom? I promise I had nothing to do with this. I don’t have that kind of power
Damn that’s a bad bunch of cuddlers you got. I think they make anyone a pro
Nothing on this site is linear. I had a pic with a tank top and I was blocked until I put a new pic…and now looking at this comment I can see the first profile that replied the girl is wearing the same exact top I was…and a few comments below that the girl is not wearing a shirt at all…?? Like do you pick and choose this rule?
If you mean weed, eyedrops usually hides any evidence of that lol
@Notacat1 Lol!😁 Okay maybe the eyes can be fooled, but not that dead skunk smell...Ugh!😣😖
"No Sir/Ma'am, you are not coming into my house stanking of roadkill skunk! Goodbye!"
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@jessabb 🤔 if you are referring to me, I am wearing a tank top? And what does that have to do at all with this post?
My other policy is to enthusiastically not pay enthusiasts.
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@FunCartel_ That's a great policy!😁
As an Enthusiast, I enthusiastically DO NOT charge anyone to cuddle with me. 😁👍
@Morpheus 🎶DO THE PEANUT BUTTER JELLY WITH A BASEBALL BAT!🎶
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I wonder why a baseball bat though?🤔
Why not a tennis racket?🙂🙃
The topic of tank tops is interesting. I have seen very well-known popular longtime high-karma Pros here say they wear tank tops for cuddling. I mean the VERY famous Pros, I won’t name names. In two of my first early photos, I had on a tank top and no one said a word, no problems at all. Eventually, I changed them because I didn’t want to look provocative. So maybe it’s the amount of skin/cleavage showing or even the pose that could cause other women to flag you. I don’t think the men flag someone wearing a tank top lol. Pretty sure men like tank tops, more skin the better. just my opinion.. 😁 There are a few people active on the forum who make it a pastime to go through women’s profiles and report them if they see something they don’t like about it FYI not me ever. I don’t have time for that, I leave it to the Mods. But I agree with those of you above that it should be consistent
There’s nothing in the CSA that says tank tops aren’t allowed.
@Morpheus @ShaneSchrute @panda619
Seems you’re all unaware of the CSA payment policy.
“The Cuddler will ask for payment from the Client for the Full Session Price as previously agreed between the Cuddler and Client on the website. Payment for each session is due before the session or at the very start of one.”
Cool if the pro doesn’t feel like collecting at the start, but if anyone out here is claiming they simply refuse to pay at the start of session, they are in direct violation of the policies that they agreed to in using this site. Especially if a pro ever asks you for such payment and you refuse to give it.
The more you know 🌈
@bobadevotee I’ve been an active member of cuddlecomfort for 9 years which is much longer than most. I am aware of the policy. Thank you but I don’t need for you to educate me on this topic.
Some here might need a reminder.
@g_w_t_w
Yes
I've gotten payment before and after. Sometimes I specifically ask before but my repeat clients it's before or after.
I always pay at the start of a session but I’ve had pros walk in the door and grab and are like cuddle me now!!! 🤣🤣🤣
@bobadevotee at the beginning of a session is fine and when I happily pay. But not days or weeks before since that’s how to get ripped off. Again, that’s happened to me before but hasn’t happened since because I’m not just giving out money randomly to people who can and likely will disappear.
When I have paid for a pro's time, I paid without being asked as soon as she walked in the door.