I recently became a Pro Cuddler. What are some suggestions I need to do to increase attention or make their profile more attractive as a Pro Cuddler?
I will leave the answer to your question to people more expert than I, but part of your problem may be there is very little demand for male pros who only cuddle women. Female enthusiasts are buried in offers from day one, they generally don't need to pay for it.
One thing that seems to draw viewers is posting in the forums. When I do, and have conversations with people, I often see them visiting my profile.
From looking at your profile, it seems very well written. And you have a great photo.
Also, there are some great tips here.
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/13409/12-top-tips-to-get-more-enquiries#latest
Being on the site moves your profile to the front of the line, more viability. The above advice is right on Best of luck here. Hope you can find some cuddlers.
Your profile is good. It's as good as the female pros I've seen who do very well here. You put a lot of effort into it.
But in general, women don't pay for this.
Maybe if you think outside the box and do something to really standout. I don't know what that would be.
But don't take it personally and best of luck to you.
Maybe if you did like, a home cooked meal and a cuddle, lol. Or I'll change your bed clothes, do your laundry, and then we'll cuddle in it.
@RenaissanceEQ welcome! I agree that your profile looks very well written and inviting! I also agree that it seems there is more demand for female pro cuddlers but do know of a couple male cuddlers who have done well. Being active in the community here and through meet ups and gatherings when able to can definitely help you meet people and bring attention to your profile. Logging in frequently is always a good way to be found in searches or possibly featured in the 'Recently online,' banner. Wishing you all the luck and the best experiences 💖
Well congrats this posting probably did the trick, eh? That doesn't change the male professional cuddler prospects in general, though. Even with cooking or housecleaning included! Best of luck figuring it all out. There are some really exceptionally kind people in the cuddle world!! 🤗🫂😇😻
a home cooked meal and a cuddle, lol.
@billiam HA! I did cook for one cuddle buddy, he enjoyed it (and lived to leave out the next day too😄). So far, he has been the only cuddle buddy that I actually put in effort to cook for.😄😉
I agree, your profile looks great. Logging in frequently and reaching out to those who view your profile is helpful. Participating in the forum may be helpful. Happy Cuddling!
To add to @Nature_Lover_ great advice, you could maybe host a cuddle workshop.
Based on my experience long profiles are not attractive. I heard it from many women in the past. People like to get a general idea form your profile then discover more as you chat. my two cents.
The profile bio is pretty long, it's just daunting to begin reading. Breaking it up with big sub-titles might help, or just reducing it by half. As others have said, economically there's near 0 demand and high supply for male cuddlers. But, if you're determined, you could reach out to female enthusiasts maybe. Just a simple greeting would work Oh and lowering your price way down, that would help
Read the sticky topics at the top of the Professional Cuddling board, starting with the first post in each case.
@OverTheMooon "But, if you're determined, you could reach out to female enthusiasts maybe. Just a simple greeting would work"
I'm not 100% sure about this but for female pro cuddlers they can be banned if they message anyone unless the potential client has shown interest by viewing your profile or by sending you a message first. The same rule might apply for male pro cuddlers.
@WolfeHugs
Yes, it goes for all Pro's. Their agreement says:
"26. You agree to not initiate communication with our members unless you have reason to believe they will be interested in your services. Our membership includes enthusiasts (free) and clients. The website is designed for clients to reach out to professional cuddlers."
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/terms/pro-cuddler-contract
Though I'm quite sure those breaking this rule would merely get a warning. It takes more than that to get banned.
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Realistically the main issue is that you’re a male. You probably have a 1% chance a woman will pay you to cuddle. Women don’t really need to pay.