Why does NO ONE take this seriously!?

I don't understand how people are going to hit me up talking about wanting to meet up and they're serious about it YET THEY ACT LIKE THEY DONT UNDERSTAND THE CONCEPT OF PROFESSIONAL CUDDLING!?!? like uh hello it has a spot where it says schedule a time to meet up, and how much they'd have to pay?! And yet here they wanna play games thinking us professional cuddlers are going to go do all that for free and get mad when you tell them how much it's going to be etc... they expect pix and vids for free and it's like uh no dude this is a serious thing so why the hell are you going to keep hitting people up and just waste time on playing games and getting things set up to not fallow threw and see what they can scam you out of for free!? God people go find someone on the street to be your friend or something if your just looking for a hang out and not expecting anything serious my word.... I'm so annoyed that I've been getting all ready for the night and everyone that's hit me up hasnt been serious about anything not to mention have wasted my time I'm so over these little boys trying to get things to happen for free cuz they're cheap asses. Find another site if your not here for the professionals little boys

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  • edited July 2024

    um... you're not even a tagged professional. If you're trying to charge without having the pro tag, that is against the rules. Enthusiasts can't charge. I think that's what your problem is. You have to apply to be a pro.

    (that's assuming that you didn't create another account just to complain anonymously which is also against the rules)

  • I took care of it, @Mike403. 😜 Oh, the irony...

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  • glad she's paused already.
    I hate to waste my time too but this attitude was a bit much.

  • Little girls like this need to learn how to read it would seem. Geez.

  • Haha nice immediate shutdown. It's so funny that the first comment was "uh... You're not even a pro".

  • edited July 2024

    Ok, just one hilarious misspell I'll point out from THE OP... fallow threw instead of follow through 🤣

  • Lol, ya I was messaging her when I asked when she'd want to meet up for cuddles, she came out and said she's a "professional cuddler" and gets paid because it's obviously more than just cuddling 🤣

    I figured she'd say that considering her name has 6***9 spaced out and sure enough she proved it in only a few messages. 🤣

  • @OverTheMooon my first though when I heard that was “she doesn’t even go here” from mean girls

  • @Auroradream haha!! I would listen to 10 minutes of an ironic podcast called, “ fallow threw.” (My phone just tried to autocorrect that. Tee hee hee!)

  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)

    Paused? Seems like she ought to be banned.

  • Did she at least have a pro pending tag?

  • @WriterGF agreed, banned for this kind of energy is definitely justified.

  • edited July 2024

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  • @KamikaziNinja86 oh WOW
    I wonder why you don't take her seriously.
    She was getting ready all night. lol
    SMH
    I swear. There are other sites to be gross. blehhh :s

  • I wonder, if we know who this person is interacting with and know she's selling a different kind of comfort , do those suspected buyers get banned? I'm wondering she obviously made some connection, and maybe the guys that don't take the bait get a gold star on their profile.

    I doubt those that are banned or paused have all there interactions inspected because i suspect more men would be banned.

  • She could have been born on June 9th

  • The overall most upsetting, frustrating, annoying thing we have now is awareness of the kind of awful people there are - in the world? US, UK? How pervasive it is, the lack of ability to control their sexual needs. The lack of higher-level thinking, The entitlement, the aggression.
    This has been the most shocking part of being on this site, is what I’ve learned about people.
    Especially for me because it’s all happened in the last few years, but I had a lifetime of what I would call “normalcy” thank goodness.
    I have to worry about young people now growing up in this environment, and this depraved behavior is normal to them?
    Of course There have always been dangerous people, but they didn’t have a worldwide access to harm others like they do now .
    It’s like the lowest element of society and they are searching for a website and people to use for their needs. What the f Has happened to our culture?
    I am so honestly happy to leave this country for a while and that’s pretty sad because it’s my home. The political environment, the horrible rhetoric the hate and then what we specifically see here when it’s just supposed to be a place for good people to meet and get hugs.
    I still always hope that those people are in the minority, but I don’t know.
    There seem to be just a lot of mentally unstable, selfish people and they gravitate to this website thinking they can get whatever they want.

  • I don’t mean to say that looking for sexual outlets is depraved obviously it isn’t. Sexuality is natural and part of our biology. But it’s the fact that some people CHOOSE ( ??? ) to use no self-control and want to use it to harm others. That’s what is so frustrating to me. It’s a mentality and lack of self-control, immaturity.

  • [Deleted User]MaverickLegend (deleted user)

    @g_w_t_w Sometimes you just gotta realize we’re not in Kansas anymore

  • lol I literally grew up in Leawood, Kansas.
    (BYW now home to Travis Kelce and Taylor Swift, Maybe I’ll see them at the grocery store when I go home later in the month)

  • [Deleted User]MaverickLegend (deleted user)

    @g_w_t_w My telepathic powers never fail me that’s why I made the Kansas reference Just like how I knew what @achetocuddle Was talking about when she said three thumbs up I’m wisdomous

  • @lonelytauros
    I could use some of your predicting, then. Thanks for providing this Resource.
    How are you with lottery numbers?

  • @g_w_t_w
    I guess you were lucky. This behavior isn't new at all. It just used to happen behind closed doors more. And people were more private and ashamed of their behavior.

    I used to co-lead an adult survivors of child abuse and the things I heard (and experienced) were 1000 degrees of awful. Way worse than anything I've read about here. Not that I'm excusing anything here. I would ban more people than the mods do. And I hate that anyone is ever made to feel unsafe let alone abused.

  • I really want this forum is be taken down OP’s energy was trash lol

  • @billiam
    Yes, it’s true of course, that these kind of people have always existed since the beginning of time, I don’t mean to sound naïve. I was actually abused as a child (about 8 yo) by a neighbor and that was in the 1950s. I remember my thoughts at the time were, OK this man is mentally ill. I put it on him, and it was his problem, not mine. I’ve always been a little bit pragmatic or objective or logically thinking and I was able to just not internalize it. I have had other instances in the 50s and 60s of men exposing themselves in public in the weirdest situations. And I was raped at age 19, By a stranger who broke into my parents’ house when they were gone. There is a coldness and disgust in me from these experiences
    So yes, it’s always been there, but there’s an element that’s different now and I don’t know how to explain it. It’s the comfort level they have to now take action to get what they want, Almost seems accepted now & that we expect it.
    and I guess that’s what you were describing.

  • @g_w_t_w

    I'm sorry all that happened to you! :( it sounds like you were able to not let it ruin your life. I know so many people for whom it has.

    I think I agree with you. I was kind of getting at what you said, in that people aren't as private or ashamed of things they do anymore. People put their whole lives online for the world to see. And the more outlandish they are, the more attention they get.

    So the bad apples just run with it over here to CC. There's much less fear these days of being ostracized from the tribe for acting badly. In fact, you are often rewarded for it. And you're rarely if ever rewarded by anyone outside yourself for doing the right thing.

    I agree with you. It's a mess. I don't know if more harm is being done now than then though. It's just in our faces more. And if it's in the open, there's a chance it can get cleaned up.

    Eventually.

    Maybe.

    I hope.

  • edited July 2024

    @billiam
    You explain it so well and that helps me understand how our culture has changed so much. When a negative behavior becomes normalized by being openly talked about, that can be good because it exposes the perpetrators. Then people openly get to express the bad experiences they’ve had. But also I find it interesting that behavior that used to be a taboo is now quite accepted. I guess that’s OK. As long as it doesn’t hurt others .
    But then the people with no self-control become bolder, more visible.

    Anyway, when you say that I personally found a way to keep traumatic experiences from defining my life, it took a conscious effort, and it took hearing advice from a well-known radio host, Dr. Laura Schlessinger. She recently passed away. But she had such a big impact on me, made me realize the strength I had just from listening to her. Anyone could relate to her books - I highly recommend them.
    I wish all people who have suffered trauma and abuse, could somehow compartmentalize it or put it away somewhere, face it, analyze the event and put it on the person who did it and make a decision not to let that person destroy you.
    During my almost 75 years, I have been through a huge ton of sh*t. And honestly, it only made me stronger, smarter, extremely aware of dangerous situations And how to try to prevent them.

  • Well that escalated quickly..
    On a serious note, no wonder so many people complain about these enthusiasts, when you have ones like her trying to pull a fast one, if you want to be a pro, you gotta pay the toll

  • @TeddyCuddle45 You gotta pay the troll toll to get into this boys hole IYKYK🤣

  • @lonelytauros Sometimes I think we are not worthy of your wisdomous, lol.

    @Auroradream That misspelling was hilarious.

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