Would a meal be a nice addition to a cuddle.

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Hey, So I noticed I cuddle with a lot of individuals that either travel, single bachelors that live alone, ppl getting off of work who go home, shower, come for a cuddle and either grab fast food on the way, or heading home, some who even work 16 hour days. Being that I cook, and hardly eat out. I feel bad knowing people dont get home cooked meals. I couldn't imagine living off of fast food. I think It would be a nice addition to include a home cooked meal with a cuddle. Food brings comfort, and its the way to anyones heart. What do you think?

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  • TxTomTxTom

    Yes, I've had a combined Cooking & Cuddles session. I highly recommend them.

  • dennis22554dennis22554

    i think your suggestion n reflects what a generous soul you have and illustrates compassion---there are a few that do--but not many---just dont serve beets--beets are evil

  • TeddyCuddle45TeddyCuddle45

    I love cooking :) I would definitely love to have a nice meal ready before a cuddle session, but than I feel like I'm crossing into bf/gf territory, so I'll stick with keeping it simple.

  • a_LightNtheDarka_LightNtheDark

    A home cooked meal plus cuddles would be amazing. I think it would enhance the experience, especially since a lot of the talking could be done during the cooking or eating. And then you can focus a little less on conversation and more on being in the moment with the cuddles. It would also make watching something easier while cuddling since there is less need to talk.

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod

    Yes some people do that. Can work very well. Be thoughtful, careful and clear about boundaries.

  • SunsetSnugglesSunsetSnuggles

    @huggaboo_baby
    Yes, I've come across a handful of Pro's who offer or include homemade meals, typically with their overnights. 🥘

    One would have to be mindful to ask about and carefully work around any allergies, gluten or dairy sensitivities, religious or moral beliefs around certain food items (such as pork), etc. 🐖

    Personally, it wouldn't be something I would partake in, if I were a client. We women are constantly cautioned against accepting food or beverages that are not in factory-sealed containers - why should it be different for men?

    If I were a guy who wanted this sort of experience, I would wait until I had seen the Pro enough times to feel comfortable. 😊

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

    🫂 Enthusiast 🌄 Travel Fiend 🐄 Animal Lover

  • [Deleted User]casualcomfortjo (deleted user)

    Yes, it's nice to also go out and share a meal and have a conversation getting to know each other in a different atmosphere. Sometimes we like to get a light dinner or order pickup and eat at the hotel before/after cuddles.

  • UREverythingUREverything

    That is a good idea if you are building a niche brand of cuddle which is smart considering being a pro is expensive and the site may be saturated in certain areas.

    First thing is to consider are you cooking whatever the client wants? Are you providing a menu? Is the menu like a room service menu or like Ihop?

    Second thing is to think about food allergies.

    Besides that having a meal would probably open the door for a deposit and a hour minimum without it becoming controversy.

    I believe everyone has certain gifts that set them apart from others. This site could allow people to share thier gifts as well as conversation and cuddles to create unique experiences.

    The last thing this site would want, I hope, is for cuddles to become like a drive thru experience as opposed to a home cooked meal experience. To use your posted idea as analogy if you dont mind. Quality should be the goal of the site and not quantity. But who knows. If you do end up doing this, im visiting just to eat a meal. And if the food is not good im putting in the karma and telling everybody how you burned the rice 😂.
    Or how I booked more time because I asked you too cook even more!

    Seriuosly though it would be good to work out a sound business model for that service.

  • jwb321jwb321

    Working the hours that I work, 10,12+ a day, a meal would be a nice gesture and since I have no known allergies or picky at all about what I eat, it would be nice to have something home cooked.

  • Jack62Jack62

    I have on a couple of occasions, after a great cuddle and a personality clique, asked if they would like to go out for dinner, just down the street and both times it was wonderful. BUT, there is an awkward moment where the question must be asked / or stated...."this would be off CC time, right? " OMG so awkward....both times the answer was of course.

  • achetocuddleachetocuddle

    @huggaboo_baby You are so sweet. I also feel bad about people who never get a home-cooked meal, especially if they work long hours. But I don't cook much for myself and don't trust my cooking skills enough to cook for a cuddler. I cook for my family but they know the results will be mixed, lol.

  • [Deleted User]Kimset (deleted user)

    I love to cook, and hope to incorporate this idea in the near future. 😊

  • KnightlyCuddlesKnightlyCuddles

    I've been known to cuddle a martini and those 3 olives do not count as a meal for most.

  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)

    The one time I did this, I made a very nice Tuscan chicken stew for her for lunch.

  • waynewvwaynewv

    I have taken a few cuddliers out for ice cream and even dinner before a cuddle. Of course it was my treat and the Pro’s did not charge untill the start of the cuddle, which I think it very fair. On an overnight with a Pro we did dinner and breakfast the next morning.

  • MorpheusMorpheus

    I’d rather spend my time cuddling

  • TenderEmbracesTenderEmbraces

    @Morpheus me 2

  • HollydollhugsHollydollhugs

    I think it’s a great idea. I’ve met for dinner a few times before cuddling, not fast food, and it was very nice. No grumbly tummies when cuddling, which has happened before. I think it is a kind gesture. 😊

  • TeddyCuddle45TeddyCuddle45

    Gotta agree with @Morpheus I cook everyday anyways

  • [Deleted User]mbrannon6541 (deleted user)

    It's a wonderful offer some would love. Not for me though. I'm just too used to my own cooking.

  • starrynitecudsstarrynitecuds

    That sounds nice, but are you counting meal prep and dining toward the cuddle time?

    Not to be a killjoy, but do you know the laws about selling food in your state and county? Because that's what you're doing. Do you have business insurance that could cover if someone got sick and accused you of food poisoning? In this litigious country, you have to be well prepared. After all, you're running a business.

    On another note, when cooking, remember that garlic and onions aren't friendly to cuddling.* And run ALL spices and ingredients by the person. Sensitivities are annoying and miserable, although not deadly, like allergies.

    * Have extra toothbrushes, mouthwash and breath fresheners just in case.

  • CuddleHrVCuddleHrV

    I have some sessions with one long time cuddler where we do dinner and a cuddle. There's plenty of time for both and I enjoy cooking. Occasionally we do potluck. To make it easy, one time I did a charcuterie board.

  • Erin_Elle_Erin_Elle_

    @Morpheus I’d rather spend my time cuddling, too.

  • Vintage_EmbraceVintage_Embrace

    If I am hosting and in process of roasting, air frying, baking, brewing or BBQing, the offer is there.

    Pour over coffee or iced tea and 🍵 matcha or golden turmeric lattes are available.
    Helps to make it fresh in front of a client while we get to know one another and settle into our session. I am a bit paranoid about accepting food or drink that I am not aware of how it was made,ect.

    We are giving each other the gift of time and respect why not be a proper hostess? Imoe

    Many do decline but I prefer to be a gracious hostess. I offer cold/room temp water or spa water with cut lemons, oranges and cucumbers as well.

    Sometimes, food is part of the cuddle or adventure of companionship like at a concert or movie theater. More focus is on the companionship and cuddling than the food.

  • TeddyCuddle45TeddyCuddle45

    @SunshineHug you wouldn't happen to have a recipe for those golden turmeric lattes. I love turmeric. Put it in dsmn near everything, very good for you.

  • Vintage_EmbraceVintage_Embrace
    edited August 2024

    @TeddyCuddle45 Turmeric is so good for us.

    Haldi Doodh or Golden Turmeric Latte
    Ingredients Organic:
    • 2 cups of coconut milk powder* or plant milk powder of choice
    • 1 cup of coconut palm sugar
    • ½ cup of turmeric powder
    • ¼ cup of ginger powder
    • 2 teaspoons of black pepper
    • 1 teaspoon of Himalayan/pink salt
    • Optional for a punch of spice: ½ teaspoon of cayenne spice
    • Optional: 1 6-inch vanilla bean pod, split and scooped out or 1 tsp of vanilla bean powder
    How to Make
    1. Place all the dry ingredients in a deep bowl and mix them well.
    2. Store in a tightly sealed mason jar and don't fill the bottle to the top, leaving room to shake it before you use it.

    TO MAKE 1 CUP OF TURMERIC LATTE USING THE MIX:
    2. Blend 1 Tbsp. of my Turmeric Latte Mix with 1 cup of hot water and 1 Tbsp. of organic coconut butter* in a blender on high speed for 1 minute.
    3. Recipe Notes: If don't have plant milk powder - no worries, simply repeat step 1 and mix
    1/2 cup of water and 1/2 cup of any fresh plant milk (coconut, hemp, almond, cashew milk, etc.) If you'd like to enjoy this beverage sweeter - after following step 1 simply taste it and add maple syrup or sweetener of choice.
    If you'd like to drink it cold - after following step I simply add ice and blend and then pop it into the freezer to chill for 10 minutes.

    TO MAKE 1 SERVING ONLY OF THE TURMERIC LATTE MIX:
    1. In a bowl mix 2 tablespoon of coconut milk powder, 1 tablespoon of coconut palm sugar, 1 teaspoon of turmeric powder, 1/2 teaspoon of ginger powder, 1/8 teaspoon of black pepper, a pinch of pink salt and a pinch of cayenne spice.
    2. Repeat steps above from how "To Make 1 Cup of Turmeric Latte Using The Mix'

    NOTES
    • If you're new to this blend and find that it has a strong turmeric (curry-like) taste, I recommend you use 1/4 cup of turmeric powder instead of 1/2 cup (which is what my recipe calls for).
    • The recipe I share calls for coconut butter, but you can also use shea butter or vegan collagen blends for the same results.
    Or another plant milk powder - almond, cashew, hemp.
    • If you can't find any plant milk powder where you are simply leave it out of the mix and everytime you make the latte add 1/2 a cup of warm water and 1/2 cup of plant milk of choice.
    • *The coconut milk powder I used is by Native Forest, it's organic and acts like a thick Creamer.

  • Nature_Lover_Nature_Lover_

    @huggaboo_baby A home cooked meal and cuddle with you would warm anyone's heart! You are definitely bringing great energy and intention even in your thought process! Some other options are cooking a meal together ( love this! ) and also playing kitchen companion while a meal is prepared for you. This can be a great ice breaker for first time cuddles as you get to enjoy each others' company and connection before actually diving into cuddling. A favorite of mine is creating charcuterie boards and snacks for movies and longer cuddles. I'd love to know what your favorite meal to cook for others is!

    @WriterGF Can you send me the recipe or post here? Tuscan chicken stew is calling my name!
    @SunshineHug the recipe you shared sounds divine ! 💗

  • KatotaKatota

    Would a meal be a nice addition to a cuddle.

    It sure would!😁👍

  • UREverythingUREverything

    @SunshineHug Turmeric and flaxseed does the body good. Thank you for the recipe. That type of thing is right up my alley of what is enjoyable!

  • Vintage_EmbraceVintage_Embrace

    @Nature_Lover_ you’re welcome.☺️

    My fav public cuddles 🥰 involve picnic 🧺 type foods but sometimes just an easy Whole Foods sandwich to split ect.

    @ScroogeMcducky
    Bethany-Lilsipper is my favorite 🤩 healthy recipe advocate.
    Have yet to try/make these all 🥰😊
    https://www.lilsipper.com/category/recipes/drinks/

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