The big deal is that our safety is paramount and we have to take any sign we can get to figure out if someone's expectations are compatible with our services we are willing to provide. Or just basic compatibility in the type of clients we want to provide service to. I wear tank tops with people I have cuddled with and trust, if I think it would improve their experience (some you can tell really don't care), sometimes sooner. But if someone requires certain clothes to want to cuddle with me, then maybe they're not my ideal client. Not that they're necessarily a bad client, just not my preferred type of client. I will still cuddle others as long as they are respectful, but I do this to provide comfort and connection to those who need it. Specific items of clothing are simply never essential to my ideal client type. Every pro should do whatever they want in order to feel safe. It's the client's choice whether they continue with the booking request or not. If they're not happy with their requirements, then go to another pro...
@Morpheus - well said. 35 cuddlers? That makes you the Sultan of Snuggling.
As already mentioned and what I learned from my own experience, clients who ask for "less" clothing are most likely a boundary pushers. I don't mind if the client ask me if I can wear shorts and tank top but I am more careful now and investigate the real reason behind it. It's good to ask the client why it is so important for them what I wear and if I feel there's something's off, I would challenge the client with more questions. And I always follow my instinct.
After seeing a 40+ people over the years. Majority of them didnt request clothing and think they had a wonderful time reguardless. Its about the connection not about the clothes lol. As long as there are clothes and they are appropriate, thats all that matters.
@Brandi completely agree