@GuyverGordon
I notice you did not answer the question I asked you.
I am divorced so I don't argue any longer-but if it makes you feel better to see this as an argument -Have at it.
Let me rather ask your opinion? and also @jimmylee since you and he are not arguing
Do you think most women cuddlers crosscheck photos on the internet?
A sincere question.
@BrianOcean I'm not discussing anything else to someone who can't even admit he is in an argument. I mean, come on ... it isn't worth it. You aren't going to listen anyway. And I've already say everything that needed to be said anyway.
@BrianOcean I do, now and when I was a Pro. And I’m definitely not a tech geek, I’ve just seen too many scammers in all sorts of social media. But only if I’m planning to meet someone in person. Otherwise I don’t care. When I’ve talked to other Pros, they almost always say they do, and I’ve seen them talk about it in the pro forum. And if they’ve ever admitted they don’t, they start once they think about the possible problems. Guess what, we’re trying to weed out the creeps. @pmvines & @Rezz Are both trying to explain this to you guys in a way that you can understand. But it seems like the paranoia here runs deep. Why? If you’re not doing anything wrong, you don’t have to worry. Period. And for once, please people use some common sense.
Be mad at the problem , not at the reaction someone might have to the problem
Well I see your point but this has also been used by serial killers to justify what they do.
My paranoia is based on category definition growth. Starts out great ...in the wrong hands, becomes a problem. You don't have to worry if you're doing nothing wrong sounds great on paper, in real life you may belong to the wrong category. Color, gender, whatever and that alone without due process puts you on their "list." Wrong opinion will do it. Wrong affiliations will do it.
So, pretending like if I do nothing, won't be nothing, is just ignoring what people with that power always ultimately will do.
It's a healthy fear that people who remember history have.
@Rezz thank you for sharing the article. That really is scary. The thing was enjoying that interview and attention too much. Heart goes to the survivors.
It's weird to me how hung up some people who hold different views about requiring photos double down, despite all the vast information/ explanations offered.
Glad to read more of the steps used to keep people as safe as possible on here.
@TheFunCartel Those rascally serial killers and their wildly ways
@g_w_t_w i don't want to say there shouldn't be some form of method pros can help each other protect themselves, i think it's necessary. I am just surprised i hadn't known about and concerned how it may be populated. I'm also concerned to hear there might be discussions out side of here about pro that may be easily preyed upon. Sometimes i have better expectations of people and sometimes i don't give enough credit. It's all rather disappointing that it's how it is. But i guess im better off not knowing and doing things
Please refer to @pmvines comment about the men going to other sites to rate women in an effort to victimize them. Women are finally getting more vocal about their own safety and you don’t get to control that. I really don’t know why you’re so worried about it or maybe from your own life experience, you just can’t relate to it and that’s OK too. Honestly, no one is really entitled to know private conversations that don’t involve them. Well, that’s my opinion
I'm not sure who you are referring to, but I'm not worried about anything. Well except what stated and yes that is from experience. If we use the word worry and concern to mean the same thing.
If I were a woman I would demand body cavity searches for safety but it breaks TOS. How misogynistic of the site.
Not if you contract a 3rd party
@g_w_t_w I appreciate the info and I stand corrected if Most Female Cuddlers are cross checking the photos of potential clients on the internet. I did not think that many Pros were doing that so I will take your word for it.
As far as being Paranoid and people trying to explain things to me in a way I can understand-I am not really sure what you are referring to -I must have missed something.
I don't know where the "if you're not doing anything wrong discussing got started-but I was not a participant in that.
His lawyer argued that he has Autism Spectrum Disorder. I have autism and would never even think about doing what he did. The symptom of autism is struggles with social interaction. It doesn't make you commit crimes.
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@Mike403 Thank you Mike, after reading that part of the article I felt compelled to throw my phone across this break room! 😡 And NO Autism doesn't "make you commit crimes", I have cousins and my son is also Autistic and neither of them have sexually assaulted (nor committed any kind of crime against) anyone.
And I'm doing my damnedest to raise him to be better than that, cuz I ain't putting my house up for NO BAIL MONEY! Nope.😐
By the way, I am at work hence why I mentioned break room. Lol 😋
@Rezz Thanks for sharing the article ☺️ and yes his face is VERY PUNCHABLE! 🥊😡
@GuyverGordon Lol! You're getting real good with the gif posting. Keep it up!😆👍
It’s all good, I was speaking more to an overall mood in the thread - my own impression and hoping for some people to see another POV. Sometimes it doesn’t work out very well here though. Anyway, I wasn’t speaking to you specifically, Brian. Haven’t there been times we’ve agreed? I’m actually enjoying the drama on House of Cards right now, Soon i will go outside to enjoy this beautiful day.
@Katota
By the way, I am at work hence why I mentioned break room.
Jealous. I'm still jobless after over 450 applications and 40 interviews. Nobody will hire me.
I don’t require seeing someone’s face unless they have great skin. Then we can talk skin care routines.
@Mike403 Hang in there. It will happen. It may require a shift in focus. In the meantime, dreaming of brighter things (the most important part of your day) and understanding and mastering these new digital tools may help usher you in.
Master the tokenizer from the ground up. Few will do it, you appear to have that mind. Everybodys doing agents but do they know how they work? Ai maintenance is going to be huge, when the AI bubble bursts. IMO
@TheFunCartel I highly recommend Dr. G Snail Mucin. You can buy it on Amazon. You would be amazed what it does for your skin. Not joking.
This thread had a lot of interesting information primarily pointing out the dark side of people.
Whats the good reasons for making photos readily available?
Only asking because I tend not to make decisions based on fear mongering and more so on how it can help society. Any positives?
Well the positives are that it reduces potential for the negatives, but it's also just nice to know who you're talking to and who you're going to meet. Personally it helps me feel more connected.
This is such a ridiculous question and topic to have in here. Safety is number one for all parties involved. Ppl who think they don’t need to share a picture or any personal identifying information are so entitled to think they should be able to have cuddles without any of this info/detail.
@Mike403 😔
Aww, well I would advise you to apply where I work. They're always hiring here, but I would understand Gainesville, GA being TOO FAR of a commute for you. 😜☺️
Require - yes but indifferent to how received. Photos/video call/public meet. I'd offer the latter 2 myself as much as needed with either party free to walk away at any point before a session is organised.
@Katota @Dance_Culture - I've even applied at places such as Walmart and Costco. If you can't even get a minimum wage job, something is wrong.
@Mike403 have you tried goodwills community employment center and places like Kelly's temp service?
https://goodwillcolorado.org/goodwill-jobs/career-development-services/?gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjwmaO4BhAhEiwA5p4YL_6JER17wwYveCNuNG3jb5QTChdN31cg23j7mPqSxYbYd3OZCXQh9RoC0sgQAvD_BwE