I'm asking because I'm still fairly new at this. Thanks
@WendyGino69 What do you mean engage?
Thr sticky topics at the top of the Professional cuddling board will help. A lot.
As an ice breaker at the beginning of a cuddle visit, I sometimes offer a brief massage of the clients hands. That's a good time to ask a few open ended questions and Listen. Use eye contact and then give the client the opportunity to rub your hands too, if they like. Good luck ☺️
Start with a nice warm hug when you first meet . Most of my cuddlers always book a nice Hotel which is easy for me to get in the comforting mood . Ask how was your day and be affectionate and cozy🤗.
The same way countries engage in modern warfare, just with comfy clothes
Another idea is to choose a name that suggests what you are looking for/offering. It makes it easier for both parties to be on the same page.
I usually sit with the person and ask if they have any particular boundaries or off-limits zones besides the bikini zones. For example, some people don't like their head or hair touched.
Before srarting I like to play The Star Spangled Banner.
@Sooson I noticed that also, regarding the username. And maybe they hope others notice? IDK hopefully we’re wrong.
@g_w_t_w how dare you you creepy perry old man??🤣🤣🤣🤣
@g_w_t_w and no we are not wrong. Unlike others, our outrage is not selective.
I usually begin with 2 shots of Don Julio anejo which seems to balance any nerves
Age 55 so if 69 refers to birth year it tracks
Stop it Paul. You are WAY SMARTER than that.
@gem7 Standing or kneeling?
Username will need to be changed. It doesn’t matter if 69 is meant to be a year. (Warning already issued.)
Change it to 96, the sign of dyslexic lovers.
@pmvines i thought hopefully birth year but honestly if that was in my case I still wouldn’t use it here. But that’s just me.
@Sooson Should I be a creepy old man for Halloween? Now searching Coupang for a costume.
@pmvines No reason to use any number when the name is available without it. It's overkill at best, and as others have pointed out because of using THAT number on a platonic site, possibly alluding to more, since there was at least 1 lingerie photo already removed.
I wish my birth year were 1965 so I could call myself @Thunderkiss65. All hail Rob Zombie !