I read the profiles that I come across. I also checked to see if they have age restrictions or stuff like that. For the professionals I make sure that they don't have any issues like allergies or such.
I usually pass on profiles that don't have an about me section filled in, because they don't give me much to start a conversation off of.
Longer profiles, I'll sometimes skim initially if I just curiosity browsed the profile from, say, the forums here or one of the home page feeds. But if I decide to contact I'll make sure to have read first.
I read profiles and even Karmas too! I love reading how their sessions went with other cuddlers it makes me feel a bit more comfortable!
I always read through everything and usually check out karmas too.
Hardly worth messaging those without anything in their profile as they never respond anyway.
@healingsystem to answer your question yesterday, no you weren't missing something important. i tend to laugh anytime I hear the phrase or see that particular lady. She went viral because of her funny tone.
(I'll be more mindful next time to describe my responses).
@CuddleHugs01234 thanks 4 answering sooner.
Guys profiles are usually a simple read. Karma is interesting to scan and follow back. There's a language between some clients here.
@starrynitecuds do you think there is a language or most people say the same thing. Karma is usually glowing reviews and most time i think they use the same 45 words just arranged differently.
Like I said, there's a special language btwn some of the clients here.
I do read through profiles, yes, but I am still currently too shy to have much on mine so I can understand why some people might not have much information listed.
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@starrynitecuds I'm curious about your response. First, what do you mean by "special language"? Second, I find the use of the words "clients" interesting. I can see why a pro using that term, but you don't appear to be a pro. My question stem from curiosity and nothing more.
It is annoying OP, but there are a lot of people here that think it's ridiculous? or wrong? that they are asked some of these things and even worse in their minds, it's built into the system. Go figure, SMH.
@JimmyLee 1. Like I said, "there's a special language btwn some of the clients here." That leads into: 2. Someone who pays for a cuddle is a client. When I'm reading a Pro's karma, they're almost always from their clients. (Of course, sometimes karma is from meet and greets, but they usually mention that tidbit.) Hence, I used the word, "client."
Words touch people in a different way than cuddling. These profiles are just another way for us to share ourselves, be vulnerable and expressive. I demonstrate my earnestness and gratitude for cuddling in my profile. I trust it will attract the same.
I read profiles with an appreciation that that person is attempting to attract the right partner too. They may say a lot in order to set the proper context and reduce misunderstandings. They may say a little to encourage a more open dialog before meeting.
Words are our best approximation for real interactions so reading someone's profile is no less impactful than meeting in person. I don't discount what's said or unsaid and find it intriguing as people watching and am glad for the longer ones.
I always read the entire profile.
I always read the entire profile in the post office. Never know when you are dealing with a wanted desperado.
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I do! And I pass on the blank ones
@starrynitecuds I was thinking of both when I wrote the word. Funny how certain words become linked with cultural touchstones. Kind of like the dog in “Up” with the word squirrel.
(sorry ... I couldn't resist)
I would.