My entire Area has gone Pro!

Black_DecadentBlack_Decadent
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I realize that that the increase of pros within the area is a great thing! This means that those looking for truly professional help and cuddling will get an even greater experience. I love that, I have been a professional cuddler(not on this site)/massage therapist for over 5+ years. So I am delighted in the increase. However I bring up this conversation to see how others are feeling? I have cuddled both men and women and found theres some odd feelings on the Pro vs Nonpro ratios.

How are others feeling? Do you feel happy about the increase?

Side Note:

  • I was in conversations with other licensed massaged therapist/pro cuddlers (mostly men) who are now wondering if its feasible or possible to cuddle professionally on this site. My area is scarce on pro men cuddlers, so I am posing that question here.
  1. Are you a Pro, and find the increase of pros positive?43 votes
    1. Are you a non pro, and find the increase of pros positive?
      32.56%
    2. Are you a Pro, and find the increase of pros negative?
      18.60%
    3. Are you a Nonpro, and find the increase of pros negative?
      48.84%

Comments

  • TxTomTxTom

    As I have little time to devote to the apparent requisite, pre-cuddling relationship-building with enthusiast cuddlers, I find Pros extremely beneficial.

    And the more the merrier. An ever increasing number of Pros is a good thing.

  • MonkeyNeedsAHugMonkeyNeedsAHug

    Poll is faulty.

  • ShaneSchruteShaneSchrute

    I’m in the more the merrier camp.

    Also you didn’t make, “Are you a Pro, and find the increase of pros positive” an option in the poll.

  • Black_DecadentBlack_Decadent

    Thank you all for the heads up, the poll went awry and I am trying to fix that now lol! Thanks!

  • Muggle_MikeMuggle_Mike

    You're also going to get misleading results if you don't include a "don't care" option. Personally I have gone to a pro once and decided I don't really like it but it doesn't effect me that they are there.

  • OhioMikeOhioMike

    It really depends also where you live. I live in the boonies out in eastern Ohio and have had many awesome CC peeps visit me when commuting thru. In almost 8 years on this site, I think I have seen 2 profiles within 5 miles of me!

    Yes, we need more pros!

    When I set my search profile out 20 miles there are a few older inactive profiles. Where I really get better results, is setting the search at 50 miles radius!

    Yes, we need more pros!

    So how does Ol' OhioMike meet peeps here then? Fortunately, I get to travel often and actually enjoy meeting the folks here.

    Yes, we need more pros!

    I am actually envious of you big city folk. All your opportunities to meet CC folks close to you is something I would cherish,

    Yes. we need more pros!👍

  • [Deleted User]jimmylee (deleted user)
    edited November 2024

    @OhioMike "Yes, we need more pros!" Interesting. I live in the greater SF/Oakland Bay Area in California. Seems we get a half dozen or so new "pros" weekly. Here, the market is saturated, if not over-saturated. That said, the free market pretty much takes care of that. Those that are skilled at the whole cuddling thing (including the business end of it) and stick with it do well. Those who like the idea of an "easy/quick" $100/hour but haven't really thought it completely through don't seem to last. (Full disclosure - I have rarely cuddled with a pro. A vast majority of my cuddling over the years here on CC have been, and continue to be, with enthusiasts.)

  • pmvinespmvines

    Many folks seem to be under the false impression that the reason they can't find cuddle friends is due to the number of pros on here, as though this is the reason nobody wants to cuddle with them and that it has nothing to do with their own lack of contributions to the non pro cuddlers here.

  • AuroradreamAuroradream

    OP profile is listed as woman and not professional. I'm confused 🤔

  • [Deleted User]MaverickLegend (deleted user)

    Never go full-pro 🤷🏻‍♂️😂

  • JoyfulHeartJoyfulHeart

    @lonelytauros Or as Mr Spooner said:

    You can never fool a GoPro. 🤓

  • GuyverGordonGuyverGordon

  • [Deleted User]hoosierdan76 (deleted user)

    At least pros will answer messages. I feel like I’ve reached out to 20 non -pros and only got one response ever. Tried different tactics, long, short, picture included, funny, straight to the point, different cities, nothing ever works. Kind of sucks to think that money is the only motivation to answer a message but I guess that’s how capitalism works.

  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)

    @hoosierdan76 In fairness, enthusiasts get buried in messages. Even if they are still active on the site, your message could be #201 of 201 and never get seen. It's like applying for a job ... no matter how much work you put into the application, odds are still good you won't hear back. Add to that a lot of pros are looking for multiple clients, an enthusiast might find one person and be happy with that.

  • dave31415dave31415

    Time to call the Antitrust Division and break up this dangerous monopoly.

  • OhioMikeOhioMike
    edited November 2024

    @hoosierdan76 I think you are in a cuddle desert like me. That part of Indiana is literally Hicksville USA 🤣 jk I mean isn't the Hick from French Lick from near there?😁

    anyways your second city listed, Denver is a magnet for cuddling both pro and enthusiast. In fact an enthusiast has organized another meet & greet there in Jan! ( There's a thread somewhere around here with details)👍

  • Rocket_ManRocket_Man

    I don't know of any area that isnt

  • OhioMikeOhioMike

    @Rocket_Man I always thought the Phoenix areas (weather permitting) would be a great place for a community meet & greet. It seems in the search there's a lot of members / activity going on and we have some superstar members there! I'm gonna have to nudge someone there on that idea.... 🤔

  • Rocket_ManRocket_Man

    Ok thanks.ill have it at my place

  • KittyPukkaKittyPukka

    @pmvines yes!

  • BrionCBrionC

    The economy will soon flood this site with newbies (females) thinking its easy money

  • mellowmellow

    I did a quick check on my area and out of the first 50 profiles listed within 80 miles of my zip code, 46 were pros and only 4 were enthusiasts. The site has become mostly a Pro cuddler website with little to none enthusiasts. Whether or not this is a good thing depends on what people are looking for.

  • JubalJubal

    I'm indifferent to the increase of pros, as I've only met a couple enthusiasts from the site. But I am a bit sensitive to price - there does come a price level which is more than I can afford, and so when more pros in my area go above that price, it reduces the number of cuddler partners available to me. Note that I'm not bashing any particular pro or price point (I'm not saying what MY personal price level is)

    Thankfully I've met a few delightful cuddle partners who I'm able to see from time to time, so the above is mostly a non-issue for me.

  • Black_DecadentBlack_Decadent

    Just a quick update:

    • Thanks to everyone who commented on this post!

    This question was just that, a query to get people talking as it just a good conversation to think about. So thank you all for your time, truly.

    • Side Note:

    • I am not a pro, thus this was just a good conversation

    • Thank you to the select few who sent me update on my profile mislabeled gender. Apologies this wasn't known to me. Thanks again all!
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