It’s not so much to positions to avoid. It’s the boundaries you both agree upon. Whoever you cuddle with first, make sure you talk beforehand in regards to their boundaries and what they are comfortable with. It will go much smoother.
The thing that makes me the most comfortable is having clearly defined boundries.
For me I’m ok with about any position I really enjoy dozing off and having my cuddler partner doze off also and then waking up while still in a tight embrace. I like to do a minimum of 2 hours, my longest so far was 14 hours, did stop for snacks and drinks a few times
I'm big on communication, respect and consent. Personal boundaries are incredibly important. If you touch my toes, it freaks me out. A LOT. I'm not sure when a professional relationship (me and pro) becomes something different. If I'm a regular do I have use the site to book?
Some providers talk about dinner. If we are doing dinner we are not cuddling. I don't need a therapist. So the idea of this sounds more like a date. I'm okay with that (consent) but wonder if we have dinner a few times, cuddle do a movie out. At what point does the relationship move outside of the website, such as bookings directly with them. If they become my friend, is it okay just to hang out? (maybe I still pay for their time, I don't know)
Sorry, being new not sure what I'm saying is appropriate. I imagine many, myself include are looking for touch and even companionship.
Positions, I trust myself with and believe two can consent. Dinner out, and friendship…. I trust myself, but don't trust myself on expectations the site has over me and what is expected, assumed, implied.
Rambling over…
My favorite dinner position is us sitting down in front of each other.
My go to cuddle is either the cradle or the half spoon.
For me is feeling at ease and helping my person relax feel comfortable. Boundaries are important. Clearly voicing what your expectations are helps … what you like and don’t want to do. It can be such an amazing release of tension, anxiety and frustration… when both people are on the same page. And to always remember it is a platonic relationship no wiggle room at all. And have fun!!! laugh, share stories … the more you’re open to letting go the better the energy will flow