Ok, question for woman:
How do you avoid developing feelings for the men you cuddle with (I suspect it's easier for women, but I may be wrong)
@JKit 2 words: Vegas Rules
I recently had a cuddler who got way too emotionally involved IMHO, I literally don't have the headspace to deal with someone else's emotional issues. I explained all that as politely as I could and wished them well and told them we wouldn't be meeting up again. 🤷
@DavidJH Well... I care for people I meet and the friends I make but in regards for romantic feelings...
Edited: not sure my comments added value when other posts covered the issue. Deleted!
My 2 cents..That's a fine line we have to tread.Cuddling is intimate,in some ways way more intimate than sex.And if you're not careful it's easy to get lost in the moment.Personally I treat this like I would treat dating a co-worker,it's not going to happen.For every person that dated a co-worker and made it work,there's way more that did that same thing and crashed and burned.I'm positive that pro's and clients have developed feelings,hooked up or wound up in a relationship but the majority that did that wound up with way more drama than they bargained for.How many have developed feelings and acted on them? Who knows,if both of them keep it to themselves that question will never be answered. Personally I only cuddle every few months,so I've never really crossed that road,but like I said before it's a road we have to tread lightly.
Feelings are easy to fix. You simply invite the client over to hang with you and your twelve kids.