I wish gym classes taught things like self-defense instead of useless things like football and basketball.
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@IronLemon What?! 😯 Doncha know, we wimminz are meant to be deh damzels inz detrezzz that the deh menz defendz and rescuuz. Lol Why if we were to fight off deh menz like menz, we would never getz marriedz and have deh babbezz ... Again, doncha know! Lol 😆😜
@Katota And as you know by now, there are more possible answers than the ones you referenced above.
Reporting, self-defense and calling cops are all good but the problem is they are more of cure than prevention. It is going to leave a big scar mentally (few days to years for some). Unfortunately looks like there is no good way to completely avoid this situation, its a risk associated with not just here but everywhere else ( massage, bars, etc). Few things could be done which might reduce the risk
I know these might not be exhaustive or plausible for many but unfortunately is needed for this profession. One bad client can affect mentally for a long time.
if you implement the last 2 ideas referenced above , odds are you won't need to ever worry about making security arrangements 🤣🤣.
Again, just me being practical.
@Sooson Oh sure there are, but that's been the main one that's been concrete in my memories ever since childhood.😊
Women who are badass at physically defending themselves are seen (by both gender viewpoints) as "un-ladylike" and will never "get a man". 🙄
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Fortunately for Myself, I no longer am interested in a human Man "for romantic purposes". Nope! 😔 I am holding out for a Werewolf, wolves are all for strong, tough fighting bitches to defend themselves and to defend the pack too! 😜🐺
@Sooson you are right, its not practical, especially for those whose primary income is this. But then again, depends on how much risk do you want to take in earning money.
@roni56 Great comment! id verification and LinkedIn verification are very common in the industry. Just not yet the norm on cuddle comfort. New providers don’t know they CAN ask for that info. I think it will eventually be the norm if we can Increase awareness. I’m glad you mentioned it in your post. Some of us already do ID verification and are successful on cc. I don’t think they’re impractical at al. I personally wouldn’t ask for ID on cc but off site It just needs to be done via encrypted chat. Typically I ask for ID, after our initial consultation call.
And talking about being practical, it took ages to create a relatively safe environment at corporate workplaces. Even then there are reports of sexual harassment every now and then, do you think its going to be easy over here, nope.
@roni56 Tho i agree 100% with the first one. And have strongly reccomrnded that in person to pros ive been seeing at their place.
While the last 3 @roni56 suggested may be impractical because they won't get the traffic, it would deter all/ a lot of the criminal activity. Maybe there could be one available for use for those who'd like to try and have more security. I mean i wouldn't do it, but people who really are in need and are in this for "touch therapy" there may be a few. Those ladies probably will have to keep their day job, and thus might pay a few subscriptions but they'd be safe.
@Sooson Is there a reason you keep being dismissive of various ideas (other than what you yourself advocate) under the guise of "being practical"?
I don't think he's being dismissive i think he's adding things that haven't been discussed or are being dismissed All together. I don't think it's useful for everyone to say the same thing differently there has got to be more ways to approach it rather than look for support for what's already been said.
I get the impression of "ignore these, look at those" and "these will never work". Pretty on-brand for him, really.
@Katota If a Warewolf showed up in sheep's clothing, would you consider that a fetish?
@ReltvlyCanshes The silent majority understands and agrees.
@Sooson Eww, werewolves don't dress as sheep...Lol! They don't need to with Me.😁🐺
It's easy to be right when you put words in other people's mouths.
@Katota Werewolves are known for offering red roses on hot summer nights.
Also be aware of the various types of wolves.
@roni56 your list very helpful !
I’m not surprised that that may be going on within this website or other like websites. I myself I know would never be interested in such a deal. I don’t even pay to cuddle. I’m just an enthusiast looking for another enthusiast. I have never saw anything of the like on this website, but I could imagine it may happen.
Words are just words until you give them meaning. We use them loosely, often, in the wrong setting and then spark a war. Some of us enjoy the battle, some of us are just use to it, while all of us suffer from the PTSD of forum argumentative discourse.
@brownglucose people are going to do what people are going to do. I really don't see how the example you lurked is any different than two pros for instance discussing which guys are the easiest to upcharge and squeeze money out of. Not sure why these forum groups always seem to turn to man bashing posts as if most or even all men; no women are bad actors.
@CuddyBuddy14 genuine pros would not do what you are mentioning. Because it takes a compassionate person to be able to embrace strangers indiscriminately.
No true Scotsman has been detected.
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@Cuddlebuddy14 Probably because this is a topic about client behavior. Most pros are female, most clients are male, so it ends up focusing on male behavior. You always have the option of starting a topic on the evils of female pros, if you like.
@Katota One day that will be my profile picture somewhere.
Facts we know. 1)Not all the men are out here sexually assaulting women … 2) not all pros are innocent and many engage in sex work.
I don’t think anyone is saying these two things are not true even if they aren’t acknowledging it.
Also facts we know 3) many women who are innocent and do not engage in SW are being sexually assaulted. 4) many men are doing the assaulting and even after woman says no are continuing to assault.
But the problem of these posts lies in arguing any of the above 4 facts, does not help anyone. The boy as will be boys & some of the women will be women theory does not cut it. The sw pros aren’t going anywhere. You can ban as many as you want there will be more tomorrow. The owners obviously don’t care unless it puts them at risk so they put up a show to go ahead and report and warn them. The issue of sw on this site & those looking for it is mute and not going anywhere.
The issue is how do we make it safe for those that do not wish to engage in anything more than platonic cuddling? Who want to over all feel safe and that it’s not normal for men to grope them (get frisky) without permission or verbal consent.
All of this “it’s not every man talk” is irrelevant. It doesn’t discourage those who do act that way. The only helpful things I’ve seen in this discussion is pointers for safety. Have a check in person, don’t host at home to new clients, etc … instead of arguing how about we just list the things to discourage these actions from happening in the first place.
Don't forget the Where Wolf and There Wolf
Why can't a post be deleted? Well, this is the result. An "edit". LOL