“If it sounds too good to be true, it is.”
If you send a deposit to a 20-year-old bi-sexual cuddle enthusiast barbie who works as a dancer and her preferred age range is 45-70, you deserve to lose your money.
@Sooson darn you that’s my type!
@Sooson but what about the ones who love to share healing with therapeutic compassionate touch and will be nonjudgmental?
@ReltvlyCanshes LOL yes!!! those as well are also on @lonelytauros 's radar
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@ReltvlyCanshes Ohh, you mean the over 40 yr old women Enthusiasts, with double digit waist lines such as Myself...😁😜 Who don't to do nothing but cuddle and enjoy one's company in a strictly platonic fashion?
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HA! 😆
Forget it, those Enthusiasts DON'T EXIST! 😌
@Katota i don't think I'm talking about that kind, unless their sexuality is fluid.
@lonelytauros 😆
@ReltvlyCanshes They still don't exist! 😆
My inbox just got flooded with them they are around... "hey friend, your profile looks great! Wanna book a session" is on repeat in here
I've noticed lately people who book through the site never ever show up. Its basically gotten to the point if you book a session and I accept, I know you arent showing up anyway lol
People are flaky AF here. as I said before, unless you see them at the door assume there is no session.
Just so we're all on the same page...those "therapeutic touch" girls who have flowery things to say about healing and compassion have also turned out to be sex workers. They're just the smart ones. 😒
Bottom line is, communicate with people and pay attention to vibe and undertones...and if anyone is trying to go off-site, especially early on, especially a Pro...well, if you're here for the right reasons, you just found out she's not.
~ Sunset Snuggles
🫂 Enthusiast 🌄 Travel Junkie 📸 Shutter Bug
This is precisely why I require phone/video calls before meeting. No one's ever complained because it proves to you and me you're real. Simple as that.
These scam tactics are nothing new and easily avoided by simply verifying, how people are still getting catfished in this day and age is beyond me.
I’ve been on the site for 9 years and have had multiple sessions as well as sessions from other cuddle sites. I have never once been scammed or flaked on. Am I just lucky or are other people not so bright?
My rules are
I never cuddle unless she has multiple karmas. I also look at her karmas and look for familiar screen names. I look at who has left her karma and check on their join date and how many karmas they have. Also, if they charge more than $150 an hour, just stay away, don’t be stupid. I also copy their screen name and plug it into my search bar to see if anything pops up on them such as social media sites etc Lastly, my secret weapon, reverse image searches sometimes yield interesting results. I don’t think it’s hard to spot a fake or a scammer. Just my opinion.
@SleepySheep1
These scam tactics are nothing new and easily avoided... how people are still getting catfished in this day and age is beyond me.
I completely agree. 'Tis quite the head scratcher.
@Morpheus Yeeshkabob, and they say women have to watch their backs. That's a lot of work, I'm sorry you have to do all that, but clearly it's been working well for you! ✨️
For me, it's very simple... Converse on the site and see if a genuine friendship forms.
Is he asking to meet on the first or second message? Not answering friendly questions? Asking me to wear boots to the friggin' coffee shop? Making constant references to my body? Asking if my boyfriend "satisfies" me? Step off, bitch. 😝
Is he asking about my interests, and sharing his? Do our short messages turn into paragraphs? Does he open up when I ask about his life, and show compassion when I reciprocate? Are discussion topics varied and engaging? These are signs of friendship and I've never had anyone I got to know this way flake on a scheduled cuddle or sexually harass me.
I don't understand the boots part .....
As to the other question if it was remotely directed to me, I'm going to say 8/10
@SunsetSnuggles
@ReltvlyCanshes @lonelytauros's GIF nailed the request in question.
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@Morpheus we have similar screening protocols and have had similar positive experiences here and on other cuddle sites over several years.
@SunsetSnuggles Well, there's a difference between trying to make friends and trying to make money. I can see how Pros could be more lenient when accepting booking requests.
@SleepySheep1 I totally agree. I spot them right away! @Janelle19 has that been going on a lot where you're at? Luckily I haven't experienced that yet. I had one the other day try to book me multiple times but I could tell in how responses that something wasn't right. He finally sent a pic, which I knew was fake, even did a search for it lol. But I played along to see what he was going to say. He says "ok find a room over here and I'll meet you there." My response was "This sounds like a bad experience I already had, so I'm gonna pass. Happy cuddling!" His response was Projecting, reflecting, or you need healing" then deleted his account. 🤣😂 I personally think it was that same person that I had a bad experience with but just set up a new profile. 😡😤 ugh there's gotta be a way for them to verify better!
These days, unfortunately, it requires diligence to prevent a hugging from becoming a mugging.
@Briiyan posted: "there's a difference between trying to make friends and trying to make money. I can see how Pros could be more lenient when accepting booking requests."
Absolutely there's a difference. And unfortunately, the leniency you speak of is likely the difference between so many Pro's reporting sexual harassment and sexual assault, versus the safe experiences that @Morpheus, @warm_embrace, and I have had.
Whether male, female, Pro, or enthusiast, we can never be too careful when meeting strangers off the internet to wrap up in bed with. It is sad and shocking, how many choose to do this without safety first in their mind...be that physical, sexual, financial, or personal.
This is the reason I always verify with video calls before anything else, lots of people trying to take advantage these days, especially with AI 😵💫 Stay safe everyone!
I'm still amazed at the pro male who tried to arrange an overnight cuddle with me and didn't like my suggestion of meeting at a coffee shop first. And got mad when I said his refusal made me suspect his intentions.