Lonely CC Members: A Potential Solution!

Almost daily I see messages where A CC Members are experiencing loneliness trying to meet other members and/or just having a rough time! tIn response, I would like to propose a potential solution that not only impacts the life of a lonely member, it has the potential to bring happiness to the lives of many more. I briefly lived in Johnstown, PA whose claim to fame was the “great flood”—and “notoriety” as the loneliest place in the country for women.” to live. I arrived in late December quickly noting a number of dogs tied up in the cold. I later learned from Habitat for Hounds, an organization that builds dog houses for dogs without shelter delivering them for free all Winter that a lot of people just leave dogs out over the Winter and if they freeze to death–oh well–they would just get a new dog for the following year. It was a wonderful organization that still exists today. Therefore my suggestion is,why not volunteer your time at an animal rescue group like the one I mentioned == or some other group while maintaining your ongoing CC search. I can not even begin to describe the happiness it brings to your life and the dogs/animals you're saving. Please feel free to suggest other wonderful animal rescue groups—I am sure they would all welcome the help and who Knows—-maybe it will expedite your own search!

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  • This is a good idea. Similarily, my sister and I talked about the elderly - some in nursing homes, or like my mom who is older. There's no way she'd pay for cuddles, but an enthusiast who could come to her would be welcome.

    I also think that part of the problem is that people don't know this community exists. When I think of the years we spent joking about such a "service," had I known this was a thing, I wonder how my life would've been different. If I would've made better decisions and my self-esteem would've been higher because of it. That's why I'm not afraid or ashamed to spread the word. But I'm only 1 person. How do we get the word out there so that more women join?

  • I think I wrote a post about self esteem that maybe of interest......to answer your question..I assume by you sharing the sites existence with your friend..social posts on other forums
    ..love to get more people out to help the danimals.......

  • @dennis22554
    Yes, volunteering is an excellent way to look outside our own struggles and focus on others for awhile. As a vegan, I love that you suggested animal rescues. 🐕🐈‍⬛🐎🫏🐀🐇🐓🕊🦎

    Volunteering also brings about social interaction, which is frequently another aspect many users here are lacking in their lives.

    So it would be a triple win...healthy eye-opening distraction, helping animals in need, and expanding one's social circle. Bravo!

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

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  • [Deleted User]GordonBrody (deleted user)

    I recently just rescued a doggy. I did it the proper way and contacted an animal police person. The doggy was outside all of the time.

  • [Deleted User]donhulio (deleted user)

    When I first started reading that I thought maybe you were going to suggest moving there since there might be a lot of lonely women there 😂

  • Just thought it was an odd fact the year I lived there..but understood once living there...it allowed me to focus all my time on a imals in need..including a flock of ducks living at a local pond who I built a haystack shelter for in the middle of a blizzard after receiving a distress call

  • When you are feeling down, give your time to someone who needs help. Always

  • The post is intended to share rescue resources..especially for CC members that are struggling to connect who may want to volunteer at an animal or human rescue group that could use the help

  • For anyone in or near Utah, Underdog Animal Rescue & Rehab is one of my favorites. They rescue dogs off the reservations here, and I hope to adopt one, someday.

    https://underdogrescuemoab.org/

    My boyfriend highly recommends Best Friends Animal Sanctuary, also in Utah, where he and his family volunteered when he was a kid.

    https://bestfriends.org/sanctuary

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

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  • I love both recommendations...wow 500,000 dogs...and who can not love a place that fosters pigs and birds ..as well as the others

  • @sunset...infatuation to pet pictures...why. don't we start weekly thread dedicated to animal rescue groups ?

  • That's my dream if I were to win a lottery..large animal open to all somewhere in az

  • [Deleted User]cuddlesformestl (deleted user)

    We have pet fostering services in St.Louis and it truly keeps my mind of negative feelings. You can drop of supplies if you aren't able to foster a pet or adopt. The social circle has widened and ran into co workers at the agency.

    https://www.icarestl.org/foster

  • I would imagine CC has a large base and am surprised I've never seen any mention of animal rescue groups

  • @cuddles..thank you for the link

  • Nevada has a large population of wild horses that are a legacy of its Wild West. When I was in Reno I learned that in reasonable years they do well, but in dry years (pretty much every year now) they have three outcomes: they starve to death, they get collected and slaughtered, or they get rescued.

    If you know anyone who rescues wild horses and donkeys there are many options from BLM direct to private refuges. Believe many of the refuges welcome volunteers too.

    Since moving to Arizona I’ve learned of similar issues here (and likely many other western states).

  • @dennis22554 posted: "@sunset...infatuation to pet pictures...why. don't we start weekly thread dedicated to animal rescue groups ?"

    I believe you're suggesting a thread that would show pictures and links to adoptable pets at rescues or shelters? One mega thread for that would be fun.

    I'm not sure it would result in any actual pet adoptions through cuddlers, given we had someone posting quite a bit about a few dogs she was trying to get adopted and I don't believe there were any takers, but if a new city/shelter were highlighted in the thread each week, perhaps it might catch someone's eye.

    Adopting an animal is a years-long, or sometimes decades-long commitment though, and should not be made lightly, or just because an animal is cute or little, at the time.

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

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  • @SunsetSnuggles ...hi..im willing to work with you on this endeavor
    ..I can research the shelter back ground each month..if you can go the online messaging part...truthfully..im disappointed by lack of interest but would do it all alone if I had more time...appreciate your assistance and support..steve

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