Speaking from personal experience...I think the being respectful..having a warm personality..demonstating genuine interest and positivity..are powerful tools that can can cover up a lot of physical flaws.........im fairly sure being a jerk isn't desirable no matter how physically attractive the client...I am especially thankful of all those that have ignored my flaws
I’m an age and point in life to where looks are secondary. I’m more about having a connection on a personal level with someone. Good connection, good conversation, just all-around good feeling because when you have that type of connection with someone there is an attraction for their looks.
Absolutely yes! People who say no are blatantly lying or getting paid for cuddling.
Yes looks do matter for me, especially if I am paying for a pro to have a session and even if a fellow enthusiast there must be something appealing to me about the person. If looks didn’t matter then all professionals should have similar amounts of karma all things being equal in terms of location and length of time being in the site.
I cuddle “everyone” regardless of looks positive connection and energy mean the most too me!
People who say no are blatantly lying getting paid for cuddling.
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@roni56 Speak for yourself and not for others!
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Nope! Looks don't matter here 😎 As long as their energy isn't scary or overly negative....I'm down to snuggle up with anyone 😁🦊🫂
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@roni - Your opinion would be saying "Yes. looks matter to me" and leave it at that. You said that anyone who says no are lying. You don't know how anyone else thinks.
Do you think that some people will not be able to get hugs/ cuddles with any enthusiast/ pro cuddler ? Do you think that they will be rejected by them all ?
Of course, the cover is the first impression. Appearance tells a large part of the story. Style choices, neatness, sloppiness, things that indicate odor in my mind. Like it or not appearance matters. What makes a person attractive to me is how they put on and what they put on.
@Mike403 good morning, i said either lying or getting paid, pretty sure that covers all scenarios.
@roni56 So any enthusiast who says looks don't matter is lying? This is false.
@roni56 - Again you're speaking for other people.
Im pretty sure that when I say something is true for me that it is indeed true. I'm capable like that
@pmvines love anyone with that trait.
@Mike403 maybe i should start adding "imo" at the end of every sentence to make it more obvious to people.
As far as looks go.... I know you absolutely can not judge a book by it's cover. When it comes to meeting strangers from the Internet, unless you have some pretty good back up safely nets... your gut is your first line of defense. I always follow my gut🤷🏼♀️ it's not personal. It's not a attractiveness thing at all... I feel like the first instinct split second feeling you get when you see a face is an evolutionary gift.
I don't think looks should matter. It's all about the personality and cuddles! But I agree on the fact that hygiene is a must!
If I'm paying looks definitely matter. Some are saying that attitude and personality matter more than looks . To me they both matter the same.
Never judge a book by its cover. I was a secretary for a company that was frequented by an older gentleman that when you look at him, his facial expressions made you believe he was mad at the world. When I tell you that when I got to know him, he was the kindest, gentlest soul I had met in a long time. It wasn’t even his appearance, it was his facial expression, that if I had just said, well he clearly is mad, so I won’t even talk to him, I would have missed out on getting to know someone that was a very gentle man. I learned a great lesson.
I would also like to add that given a choice between one who is very attractive with no personable qualities versus one who is average on the looks but a real sweetheart when it comes to making you feel comfortable with conversation and laughter while cuddling, I have to believe most will go with the latter.
@easylike -- I believe you're right. The problem is, you won't know about the "conversation and laughter while cuddling" until you book a session with that person. Yes, you can go by karma (if available) but that's only so useful.
I still think the "attractive" cuddler will get more bookings than the "average on the looks" cuddler. At least more first bookings.
Threads like this make it all the more clear that a lot of men see women on here as products instead of people
@pmvines I get that impression a lot when someone says ”if I’m paying “ they want their $$ to go to the fantasy top of the line product, (who they likely couldn’t get to date irl). I know that sounds harsh but it’s reality and some women feel they have to compete for that attention. Eventually we outgrow that need and sometimes want a little more depth than just looks. But definitely seems even more driven by social media than ever before.
Looks absolutely matter when I cuddle I want to be comfortable and I want the person I'm with to be comfortable I don't want it to just be a cute smile I want the person to be warm Kai and an inviting and good looks says a lot about how you take care of your self so if we happen to be cuddling in bed I don't experience the Grinch with long toe nails and a really hairy chest not my cup of tea
Yes it matters. Im shallow like that.
Looks absolutely matter. Whoever says otherwise are liars and they know it
Umm I'm not a liar. When I cuddle people from the site I'm not that concerned with how they look. You can have your truth but dont expect that everyone who doesn't share yours is a liar
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@BbyCraig26 Whatever, Dude. 🙄
When I cuddle people from the site I'm not that concerned with how they look. You can have your truth but dont expect that everyone who doesn't share yours is a liar
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Exactly, I reckon we're just a couple of "LIARS" friend. We've been called worst, right? 😆
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