Honest Concern

StayAmazingStayAmazing
in General

Hey, so I’m new to this type of thing, I didn’t even know you can have cuddles as a service! But before I try this for the first time I have a kinda awkward and embarrassing question. What happens if you’re cuddling and the guy gets an accidentally erection? Would that be considered inappropriate and ruin the mood? Do we acknowledge it or ignore it? I’m honestly just curious lol

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  • KatotaKatota

  • Carrie_AnneCarrie_Anne

    It happens but you ignore it. This is 💯 platonic cuddling only so please don’t react. It will ruin the experience, if you try to get sexual, you will be banned. That can be very stressful for women.
    Keep in mind that this site is considered a safe place, especially for people who have been assaulted.
    Appreciate you asking though. Take care of things before you arrive at your session, that can help.
    Anyway, welcome to the site and I hope you have a great experiences. 😊🤗

  • 4bearhugs4bearhugs

    If you click the "view all discussions" tab under the discussion tabs on the home page, your will get a list of topics. At the bottom of that page, you can search threads by topic or keyword. There are plenty of threads on the topic. It "comes up" a lot.

  • BearBear
    edited March 2025

    The best I could do.

    It happens sometimes. It’s perfectly normal when we are close to people, especially if we don’t have much chance to enjoy touch that is not about sex.
    Do not act on it. It’s normal, it’s natural. Since this is a non sexual situation , It’s really that easy.

    You can always switch positions so you are not behind the person.

  • KatotaKatota

    There are plenty of threads on the topic. It "comes up" a lot.

    It does come up alot indeed. 👍
    @4bearhugs

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    Do we acknowledge it

    How would you do that?

    “I googled penis and apparently that is an erection. Big guy even has his own wiki page called erection. Well the more you know.”

  • pmvinespmvines

    Just don't draw attention to it and don't be a creepy weirdo about it

  • Carrie_AnneCarrie_Anne

    Furthermore, and not suggesting this is your intent at all, OP because you seem sincere
    but you know how some guys can’t stop obsessing about it 24/7 and they just want everyone to talk about their
    Little Best Friend. 🙄 🥱

  • pmvinespmvines

    I HAVE A PENIS

  • [Deleted User]gem7 (deleted user)

    Immediately arise and take a cold shower.

  • HappyHikesHappyHikes

    The very first thread in the General forum is Frequently Asked Questions. Shouldn't that be the first place you look to see if your questions has already been answered? Jesus people.

  • pmvinespmvines

    Can't expect a new member to automatically know how to navigate the forums.

  • CharlieBearCharlieBear Mod
    edited March 2025

    This is a question that has asked a lot…usually by the same person fishing for extras in every message they send out. They’ll eventually stumble across a pro that will tell them that they will take care of it for them. Both will be banned from the site.

  • KatotaKatota
    edited March 2025

    I HAVE A PENIS

    😆😆😆😆

    @pmvines 😆😆😆 Me too! We're both friends with penises-esess.😜😄

    Reported, reviewed, removed adult content. [-Sid]

  • pmvinespmvines

    Uh, I can pee out if it ?

  • StayAmazingStayAmazing

    @CharlieBear just discovered this site yesterday so I’m definitely not fishing for anything. I didn’t even know you can search forums for certain stuff already asked. But now I know.

  • KatotaKatota

    Uh, I can pee out if it ?

    Whoa! 😲

    @pmvines My penis can't pee, Dang! 😞

    Your penis is better than mine.👍

    😄😄😄😄😄

  • IronicMaidenIronicMaiden

    sings I don't care if it rains or freezes, as long as I've got my plastic penis

  • KatotaKatota

    @IronLemon 😄😄😄😄

  • Janelle19Janelle19

    Usually ignore it , or take a break, I've had men excuse themselves to the bathroom as well

  • BearBear

    You could also think of @pmvines and his poop stories. I’m sure that will take care of it right away.

  • mauvefoxmauvefox

    I guess the general consensus is that everyone has their own penis(es) in some shape/color/material. Yes some of them pee and some of them don't.

    But what we can conclude is, that no one needs yours as an extra (and I say "yours" meaning everyone not just the OP 😉)

    @pmvines luv ya!
    @Katota never met or talked to you directly but you might be one of my new favorite people that i've never met or talked to.
    @IronLemon same for you!!!

  • pmvinespmvines

    My poops are nothing to fear @Bear . They are here to make the world a better place 💓

  • pmvinespmvines

    Aw @mauvefox lurves you too 🤗

  • KatotaKatota
    edited March 2025

    You could also think of @pmvines and his poop stories.

    👍👍👍👍

    @Bear I agree, his Poop Stories are legendary and way better than Penthouse Forum stuff. 😁💩

    😆💩

  • AdragayleAdragayle

    This is by far the best "omg what do I do/how do I control my penis" thread yet. 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
    Thank you all for some much needed deep down belly laughs!!

  • KatotaKatota

    @Katota never met or talked to you directly but you might be one of my new favorite people that i've never met or talked to.

    🫂🫂🫂🫂

    @mauvefox Why thank you, feel free to message me whenever you want.😁🫂

  • KatotaKatota

    This is a question that has asked a lot…usually by the same person fishing for extras in every message they send out. They’ll eventually stumble across a pro that will tell them that they will take care of it for them. Both will be banned from the site.

    @CharlieBear

    I agree, it usually is...😁👍

  • cuudledragoncuudledragon

    I think the same way almost anything can be a service, almost anything can be a sport. Google it and you might be surprised with what you find. Theres a website called friendpc, you can sign up to be someone’s virtual friend and thats a service. Theres also rentafriend, where people pay you to be their friend. Lots of weird occupations out there.

  • cuudledragoncuudledragon
    edited March 2025

    Anyway! First, I want to thank you for bringing this up, I think this is a really important topic! It takes courage to be vulnerable and I think thats what cuddling is for! Most pros ignore it, I have a different approach though....To answer your question!!! There are times I bring up the topic during my phone interview. Particularly I communicate that I am not one to shame others for how they feel, it’s about alchemizing the energy and redirecting the mind. I remind people that touch was introduced when we were kids from our mothers and our friends, when touch wasn’t complicated and we felt less lonely. When approaching things from that framework and we understand the purpose of why we are here, it helps people focus their energy from the beginning. So actually erections have not been a problem for me, and if it has, someone feels comfortable enough to communicate their feelings, and I usually bring down the vibe back to focus with a grandma joke. Distractions are key!
    Someone feeling excitement does not always mean non-platonic intimacy happens or will happen, but it’s important to focus so that the benefits of touch can trigger rather than hoping for something else. Hoping for something else is unfair for everyone involved, and I remind people of this, and this helps people internalize and accept their feelings while avoiding guilt. Eliminating guilt and facilitating acceptance of the moment for what it is and not dwelling on how your body is reacting, usually results in someone being able to control themselves, and the breathe their way back in ease and embracing platonic cuddles...🤗Sometimes a breathing exercise, a quick meditation, or a joke about a grandma does the trick lol. I think its all about sustaining innocence. If I notice someone is getting excited I bring it up only if they seem influenced or disturbed by it. Most people have self control and redirect their mind on their independently, so there is not need for me to intervene. If they can’t redirect, I will usually say “hey you seem to be getting a little over excited or nervous, do you want to have a quick break to redirect your mind?”. Acting on arousal and increasing arousal i think is in the category of non-platonic. The goal shouldn’t be to shame people for how they feel, and reactions they cannot help, but rather to focus on how we are human. I think we are only allowed to become assertive and reject someone if they are violating the terms of the session and acting on their arousal. Violating boundaries is never okay, whether you be a pro, non pro, enthusiast, or a friend. So I don't 100% ignore actually, I have my strategies without sacrificing the platonic connection and moment. 😌🥰

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