Pet peeve: when people use this site as a sexual or romantic thing

BerrySweetBerrySweet
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If I had a dollar for every time a guy made disgusting sexual remarks towards me or unsolicitedly called me “babe”, I would be able to pay off my car loan. I can’t believe, but at the same time I’m not surprised that some people are stupid enough to see this site as something sexual.

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  • Mike403Mike403

    You're reporting all of them, right?

  • GuyverGordonGuyverGordon

    some people are stupid enough to see this site as something sexual.

    They'll probably never see this but:

  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)

    Report them. Getting them banned is the only way the site gets cleaned up.

  • glen2004glen2004

    There's quite a few women that make profiles for this too lol.

  • SoosonSooson
    edited March 2025

    They should not have taken down Craigslist and Backpage.
    Just like you dont shut down a highway for good because there were accidents.
    Just like you don't shut down cellphone networks and email services because people fell victim to fraud.

  • AuroradreamAuroradream

    Seriously
    I am a very reputable cuddle provider and recent messages I've gotten have asked me for spankings followed by cuddles and also someone who wanted to wear a onesie (baby pajamas) at a cuddle session. The best part is their manipulative entitled reasoning.
    It's like their goal is to get banned.
    Yes, I report.

  • [Deleted User]heartfelthugs11 (deleted user)
    edited March 2025

    They need to be banned. Report them all.

  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)

    @glen2004 Then report them.

  • supadupasupadupa
    edited March 2025

    Yes report these creeps but I’ve looked at some profiles and the pictures they show and there are suggestive photos in bras or sexy lingerie or shouldn’t get gross messages but they may be getting wrong idea from said photos. Still they shouldn’t be sending these messages but I think people should remove suggestive photos. I’ve reported some suggestive photos before but since some of the people do post in these forums a bunch they should remove it themselves

  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)

    @supadupa Do what you've been doing. Report. Let the mods decide if the photo needs to be removed or not.

  • supadupasupadupa

    Okay will do

  • wilderdudewilderdude

    That's honestly disgusting. I wonder what the thought process is.

  • AuroradreamAuroradream

    Excuse me @supadupa but none of my profile pics are bras and lingerie/ suggestive/wrong idea or deserving gross messages as you're (clearly) implying.

  • pmvinespmvines

    Yeah @BerrySweet doesn't have any of the types of pics you're what abouting about @supadupa

  • AuroradreamAuroradream

    @pmvines you're a good egg

  • pmvinespmvines

    Prices going up on eggs yo

  • AuroradreamAuroradream

    Cracking me up dude 🤣

  • colinsc31colinsc31

    While I bet there are alot of men on here using this site to try and do exactly what you said OP, based on some of the profiles ive seen pop up for women I'd bet you'd be surprised at how many women on here are using it to meet men that OP is describing. Maybe not but I'd be shocked if not.

  • 1984joe1984joe

    No surprise. Many people on ig have creepy messages. In general guys are hypersexual and less boundaries.

  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)

    @colinsc31 Are you reporting them? Does no good to complain about it in the forums. You need to alert the mods.

  • colinsc31colinsc31

    @WriterGF I mean what is there to report? Nothing in their profiles are against the rules or anything like that. And id have no proof. Im just saying that when you search through profiles you can kinda notice the type sometimes. Platinum blonde, lots of cleavage showing in pics, etc. Its a stereotype and not all are "advertising" and I'd hate to accuse someone of doing so when they arent. Idk, you never look at a girls profile and your spidey sense just goes off and you have a pretty good idea shes probably more than a cuddler?

  • Mr_Cuddle_BearMr_Cuddle_Bear
    edited March 2025

    @Auroradream , I don't think @supadupa was referring to you, and I'm not sure why you would assume they were. Same comment for @pmvines , not sure why you think Supadupa was referring to the OP.

    They were just making a general statement that there are females with suggestive photos. We all know this to be true. As to their intentions... possibly nefarious, or possibly just good marketing skills... who knows... B)

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    I took my bikini pic down. The polka dots were not flattering.

  • CharlieBearCharlieBear Mod

    If I had a nickel for every time a forum user posted about sex workers/gropey clients yet never reported anything, I’d have a s**tload of nickels.

  • pmvinespmvines

    I would have about 6 dozen eggs at these prices

  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)

    @colinsc31 If the pictures are inappropriate for this site, then you can report those and a mod will decide if it should be removed or not. This is a self-policing site - if members don't report, mods won't report. If there's "nothing to see there," then the mods will leave it alone. Otherwise, frankly, claiming there all these inappropriate women on here and doing nothing to potentially ban them is harming the site, since these forums can be read by non-members.

  • supadupasupadupa
    edited March 2025

    @Mr_Cuddle_Bear I was saying no one should get sexual messages which are inappropriate and people don’t deserve them because while pictures posted may be innocent. To some come hither photos showing cleavage may give them the wrong impression. And it makes the lizard part of their brain kick into overdrive and think something more may be available.
    Because even people posting in a tee shirt and gets inappropriate messages let alone cleavage exposed.
    So removing said photos would reduce those terrible messages

  • FWCuddlesFWCuddles
    edited March 2025

    I have reported inappropriate profiles before but as nothing happened I have little confidence in doing so and as such I do not do so anymore.

    I guess inappropriate is subjective...

  • Mare_BearMare_Bear

    I'm running a business here, please don't call me:

    sweetie
    babe
    honey
    beautiful

    Is that how you address your dentist?

  • RedFox16RedFox16
    edited March 2025

    Yep! Can confirm that it doesn't matter what pics a woman's profile has....there's still gross messages no matter what. 😒🙄

    We literally cannot blame the person receiving the messages....the blame lies with those actually doing the action of sending icky messages. If it's women sending them (or have inappropriate pics), then they should be reported as well. 📣📣

    Easy peasy lemon squeezy! 🍋

    TLDR:

    • People are responsible for their own actual actions. (ie. the actions of writing out & sending icky messages) ✉️

    • People are not responsible for the actions of others that are thrust upon them....no matter how pretty they are in their profile pics 😻📸

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