Different “fee structure” for male and female professionals

Interesting discovery on this site; if a male wants to be a pro cuddler he keeps all his earnings with just a flat rate of $19.95 per month. A female cuddler has to give 15% of each session. Now tell me, how is that fair?

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  • Male pros are less likely to generate booking revenue for the platform so a monthly fee is set for them .

  • When I was a pro, my name was Prolex.
    I was quite successful.

  • edited March 2025

    I've always wondered what fee structure nonbinary people have here

  • Yes, it is fair. Just different. This is due to the differing experiences of men and women professionals on this site. Most men who become professionals attract no clients at all.

    The system has been the same for many years and has been discussed here many times.

    The site is based in the UK where discrimination on the basis of nine protected characteristics is unlawful in most circumstances. Sex is one of those characteristics. If the system was unfair to one sex or the other, it would be unlawful and the site wouldn't do it.

    Equality Act 2010 protects against discrimination on the basis of:

    age
    gender reassignment
    being married or in a civil partnership
    being pregnant or on maternity leave
    disability
    race including colour, nationality, ethnic or national origin
    religion or belief
    sex
    sexual orientation
    
  • edited March 2025

    Reported, reviewed, and removed for baiting the non-binary community. @Sooson - worry about your own identity and leave others alone. [-Sid]

  • Male pros lose money monthly because they don't get clients. Women pay 15 percent of their fees but it'd only deducted once money is made. On paper if seems unfair but would you rather pay 20 on a zero revenue or 15 percent on a 100 to 600 dollar revenue?

  • I think since all non binary are either male or female

    This is very self-evidently wrong.

  • [Deleted User]Thick_Chest (deleted user)

    If you think you have been wronged, it is always a good idea to do a free consult with an attorney. I know a lot of California Bars were getting sued and losing because they had "ladies night" offering only women that specific price and not the men. Once you do a deep dive you learn a lot of biz owners do not know the laws of the biz they are running.

  • I know a lot of California Bars were getting sued and losing because they had "ladies night" offering only women that specific price and not the men.

    Oh my. How much did Kool and the Gang have to pay out?

  • @CuddleDuncan There is no such thing as fair but different. Different is unfair. Reminds me of “separate but equal” which was used to defend segregation in the US. This is almost certainly a lawsuit waiting to happen in the UK, US and other places. It also has an easy fix. Just add the $19.95 fixed fee to everyone and change them all 15%. Now you make some money from everyone regardless of whether they can find customers. It’s not your job to determine what the demand should be for anyone’s time.

  • edited March 2025

    @craM Oh please...You can do better than that! 😜 🍿

    If you're gonna bring popcorn, then REALLY BRING IT! 😁

    Thx@TxTom 🍿😁🍿😁🍿😁

  • edited March 2025

    @Thick_Chest @dave31415

    Just add the $19.95 fixed fee to everyone and change them all 15%. Now you make some money from everyone regardless of whether they can find customers.

    I was actually about to suggest something similar: The above, but having it go towards house booking revenue. So the pro is charged at least the $19.95 per month but effectively not paying it if CC booking revenue exceeds it.
    It may incentivize pros to be/stay more active . and maybe an option can be added to avoid the fee while in Deactivated status

  • Or just make it 15% for everyone. What is the difference from a male pro who gets no clients and a male enthusiast to the site in terms of revenue?

    @Sooson The fact that scientifically sex is not binary means that treating it as binary is not accurate. And for those whose sex is not easily placed into one of the two main buckets, it's literally in the name... "non-binary".

  • Id be willing to barter salmon and berries for my cuddles if I went pro

  • edited March 2025

    @Sooson intersex people? I guess maybe there just isn't an option to sign up that way

    https://scienceline.org/2020/10/beyond-x-y-chromosomes-and-sex-organs/

  • edited March 2025

    @btc13 The comment was a response to an inquiry regarding fee structure for non binary and I assume , correctly I beleive, that sex rather than gender determines it on CC. Let's stay on topic and not get another thread locked over gender debate.

    Unless you want to make the case for a seperate fee structure for every gender., i dont understand thec point of your comment. Are you gonna pay the coders?

  • edited March 2025

    Or just make it 15% for everyone. What is the difference from a male pro who gets no clients and a male enthusiast to the site in terms of revenue?

    That's a good point imo @btc13

  • @RadiantHugs There was an intersex pro in my area. They moved. I honestly don't know if it's available as an option. I think CC lists approx 20 different ways to identify yourself as.
    But again, when it comes to fee structure, where do you draw the line?
    The CC pro i referenced above identified as a woman and CC was ok with that (how would they even know? ) Ialso think the rarity of such instences here makes it a non issue.

  • If you don't understand what non-binary is, you shouldn't be commenting on it.

  • [Deleted User]CharlesGrove (deleted user)
    edited March 2025

    The utter hubris of the constant stream of men that sign up to be a professional, without doing a bit of research, or even reading the FAQ, pay the professional fee for 3-6 months, and then drop out bitterly when they get no clients basically keeps the lights on here.

    I presume that the total income from the percentage charged to actual professionals who have actual clients amounts to less monthly revenue than the super confident, doomed to failure new male professionals.

  • @Sideon for the record, my edited comment above was not an attempt to bate anyone
    It's was a response to an inquiry regarding fees.

  • Or just make it 15% for everyone. What is the difference from a male pro who gets no clients and a male enthusiast to the site in terms of revenue?

    I’d actually really like an answer to this. Is what I’d like to say, but…

    The utter hubris of the constant stream of men that sign up to be a professional, without doing a bit of research, or even reading the FAQ, pay the professional fee for 3-6 months, and then drop out bitterly when they get no clients basically keeps the lights on here.

    I’m sure this is the actual answer.

    Anything to the contrary is almost certainly a false pretense. Allowing men to be Pros is a scam to generate some extra money.

  • @Katota
    May I have some popcorn ? I forgot to bring some

  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)

    Don't like the system? Take it up with the site owners. No one else can change it.

  • edited March 2025

    I've tried out pro for almost a week now but not even any real views. As said paying 20 a month for a while and potentially zero income from it is tough to stick with long term, maybe just lower the percentage taken for men since their rates much lower as well.

  • edited March 2025

    As I understand if you want to make money as a male pro on here, it helps if one is willing to platonically cuddle other men.

    If not, then in your marketing you have to ask what do you offer, that can effectively be communicated to women on here, which would cause them to want to spend money on a platonic session with a male pro when they can meet a male enthusiast for free?

    As for the fee structure, I suspect like others have said, there is an assumption that most men here aren't going to have many or any clients, especially if they only cuddle women, and perhaps the monthly fee is a way for the site to make a few bucks while new pros test the waters?

  • edited March 2025

    @Bear
    Honestly, I didn't see words at the bottom of this gif...Lol! I can't even read what it says, hope it's appropriate for CC. 😁🤣

    And my apologies if it isn't. 🙏

  • I'd like to think that the fee a male pro pays to the site is pretty much free money to the site. A male pro that gets bookings would have to be a unicorn. There is a plethora of gentlemen that are looking to cuddle for free in every city.

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