Well cuddling hugging and very close intimate contact in wet bathing suits in a hot tub which I think was in one of those hotels that had the hot tub in the hotel room (?? The Pro lived in DC area). I don’t know the details. but she offered it in her profile and she was banned. I mean it doesn’t take a rocket scientist lol. Waiting for mods to confirm.
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/13643/hot-tub-cuddling
Thanks @sage91436 ! I tried a search but couldn’t find anything.
@lovingspoonfull There are several forums conversations about hot tubs and none that I have read has it said it’s against the rules. I don’t know if the rules have changed. It also in the past was said swimsuits are allowed for cuddles at the beach and swimming pools. Again maybe that changed. If you search the forums for hot tub there are several there.
I mentioned aquatic cuddling once and my comment was actioned by a mod. I think it is against TOS.
As soon as the TX meet and greet was created I was like, umn, this is a no. Smh lol
That’s weird to me… I have had plenty of platonic hot tub cuddles with friends over my lifetime. I mean a bed (edit just saw @FunCartel_ mention of ned being used as an argument) is more “non platonic” than a pool or hot tub. So yeah I guess we need a #mod to come clarify.
I think some things are a generational thing as well. Have you been to a high school lately? In general they’re wearing sports bras as shirts and cheeks hanging out of shorts. When some people use the whole - her cleavage is showing in her photos… people that are “blessed” in that way can’t really hide it unless they were a turtle neck. But that’s a different post all together. Someone can just as easily wear leggings and a long sleeve tshirt to a cuddle and still offer xtras as someone wearing shorts and a tank top and only cuddle sitting next to someone on a couch. It’s all about intentions.
@sage91436 i wasn’t really saying a bed was more non-platonic than a hot tub, just that if you know what platonic means then the place doesn’t matter with the exception of a sauna or steam room for obvious reasons. But both a bed and a hot tub offer opportunities for platonic activity or non-platonic activity. It is up to the individuals to tranquilize the lizard portion of their brains. It boils down to impulse control.
@FunCartel_ oh I understood what you meant I’m agreeing … it’s all about intention.
@TheFunCartel thank you, you are very much appreciated. I didn't want to get into the whole "if you give a mouse a cookie" debate.
When I was a pro I offered hot tub cuddles but with no water in the tub.
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@Sooson Lol! You should start a discussion thread titled "When I Was A Pro..."
Where you can share ALL of your TALL TALES of "being a Pro". Lol
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@Katota I agree, those should all be in their own thread.
@IronLemon Lol! 😆 They really should, hell I'll toss in my own tall tales "as a pro"...
Ahem
"Ya know when I was a "pro" back in the "ancient times of pros", we did our booking with two empty soup cans held together by yarn string...None of this here fangle dangle, app booking bidness!"
"We worked fer a-living back then!"
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@Katota At least your entries will be worthy of popcorn.
@IronLemon Yep, that's another thing...Lol! 🤣
Pros were allowed to wear dresses made of popcorn. 🍿😁
One of my pro besties had the best popcorn dress there ever was, her name was "Butters".😁
Here is a pic of her from back in the day...
Butters had style! 😆
@Katota im pretty sure edible clothing is against the … ahem… spirit at least of the TOS. 😇
So please tell me this paragon of cuddling virtue Butters only wore that tasty ensemble as Sunday go-to-meetin clothes…
I do hate it when the great ones fall from their pedestals.
im pretty sure edible clothing is against the … ahem… spirit at least of the TOS. 😇
@lovingspoonfull Yes, I know this. 😊
Read my previous responses to @IronLemon as I am being humourous as well as lying. There was no "Butters wearing a popcorn dress", okay?😜
My apologies if you didn't see where I was coming from in my comment.😁🫂
@katota i did know that you were joking; I guess my joking response fell flat. My apologies.
No apologies needed from you at all.
@lovingspoonfull I got you were joking 😉; it's very similar to the way you were joking about one of my gifs I'm the past. I'm pretty sure you have the same "got to spike the set ball" reaction/impulse I do 😄
@cloud9er
Hi all, I was curious if there were any suggestions for meeting places in public, that are 1) still fairly private/secluded and 2) offer an area that is conducive to cuddling?
You joined over a year ago, if you look through the older forum threads, you will see a plethora of threads with recommendations because this question gets asked often. I guess it would be difficult to give options about what MIGHT be a good idea for you unless you tell us what you don't like about these most referred places?
I'm aware of parks and movie theaters, but I'm honestly not a huge fan of either of those.
I have had AMAZING public cuddles but it feels strange to give ideas without more clarity on this.
@Cuddlesofcuddle
I mentioned aquatic cuddling once and my comment was actioned by a mod. I think it is against TOS. As soon as the TX meet and greet was created I was like, umn, this is a no. Smh lol
AND - A Meet & Greet is NOT about cuddling. This is NOT a cuddle party. And we are NOT promoting that people go against TOS because that's not who we are. 🤨😳😶
As far as swimming or hot tubs or cuddling in water, I think there is a BIG difference between what is happening between a Professional and Client as opposed to enthusiasts cuddling together.
All of the issues with bathing suits and water and swimming have FAR more to do with the INTENT to move out of the realm of platonic cuddles. I feel like that is why it winds up being such a big discussion. I would never have a swimsuit/pool/hot tub meet with a cuddler who I have just connected with until I know if they are the type of person I can trust to not push boundaries.
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/terms/general TERMS AND CONDITIONS
You agree to never use this Website for the intent of meeting another member for sex. You also agree to never attempt to progress a meeting, organised via this website, to a sexual nature. When communicating with another member, you agree to never indicate a desire to cuddle while doing any of the following: (1) being nude, (2) wearing only underwear, (3) kissing, (4) groping, (5) satisfying a fetish or kink, and (6) anything of a non-platonic nature.
And then there's the CLIENT AGREEMENT
CuddleComfort.com Client Service Agreement I (“Client”) understand and agree to all of the following: Session Rules 1. No sexual activity is permitted. If a Client tries to force themselves sexually onto a Cuddler, the Cuddler has the right to end the session immediately. 2. Both parties will remain clothed the entire session. Undergarments do not constitute as sufficient clothing. If either party needs to change clothing this will be done in private and out of sight of the other party. If a Client shows off areas normally covered by undergarments purposely, the Cuddler has the right to end the session immediately. 3. No touching in areas covered by undergarments is permitted. If this occurs, the Cuddler has the right to end the session immediately. No kissing is allowed. 4. Cleanliness and adequate hygiene is required by both parties. This specifically includes showering/teeth brushed within 12 hours of the appointment, wearing freshly laundered clothing, and no (or minimal) perfume/cologne be worn by both parties unless requested.
There are many Pro cuddlers that offer a variety of options for public dates. Hiking date in the city to a look out and hold hands Beach dates Public park dates There are movie dates in the vip theatres Visit restaurant with beautiful view I think it’s important that to define your definition of cuddling and how conducive is it a public cuddle versus a cuddle at a pro who hosts or you who host in a private setting .
I swim in shorts and a tank top usually, so being in a pool/hot tub for cuddles would be the same for me. I imagine the potential concern here is many men don’t wear shirts when in the pool/hot tub, which would essentially violate the site’s TOS. That would be the biggest issue I’d see for this type of cuddling.
A hot tub cuddle actually sounds pretty freaking cool! There are modest swimsuits women can wear. You can actually find them on TikTok. It’s a one piece that zips and the bottom is skort like. There’s others with no sleeves.
I’d like the spa sooo much better. In Atlanta, there’s this huge spa facility called Jeju. It has different temperature huts inside for you to mediate and relax in. There’s also a swimming pool house. Everyone outside of the pool house can see you so being on your best behavior would be highly recommended. There’s also couple massages. Just an overall great place!
@SnuggleSky
Jeju is a Korean bath house that is separated by gender, and is nude. Not exactly the location for platonic public cuddles
@pmvines not negating that. However, IN ATLANTA, there’s a community area. Everyone is together and CLOTHED. ONLY IN ATLANTA. This not to be confused with anything else.
I've been to Jeju in Atlanta. But I suppose there are other areas to it I didn't know about. When I went it was just a small lobby, paid, they directed me to the mens side, gave me a locker with instructions to strip and gave me a small towel to sit on for sanitary reasons. Perhaps there is more to it than I was aware of.
In a restaurant, in a back booth, is perfect for cuddling.
gave me a locker with instructions to strip and gave me a small towel to sit on for sanitary reasons.
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@pmvines That's it?!😯
Lol! Friend, when Mama and I went there last time (and other times before 😊) we were ALWAYS given a whole outfit basically.😄👕👖
Well, we were given a T-shirt and capris so yeah an outfit. 😄👍
How long ago since your last Jeju visit? 😁🤔
Mama was funny on her first visit, even though I told her 'Mama they gonna provide clothes for ya, you don't...."
"Hush, I'm bringing my robe!" 🙄
Fine, bring your bathrobe Mama. 😆
Lol. She didn't even use it, poor bathrobe stayed in her locker the whole time we were there. Poor robe was neglected and "forgotten" at Jeju's for about 3 to 4 hours.😆
Perhaps there is more to it than I was aware of.
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@pmvines Perhaps so, if you like we can visit Jeju together one day and I can bring Mama along. 😊
Lol! You can finally meet her. 😁
She loves going there, IF ever I mention "going to Jeju's" her response is always "I'm going wit ya". Lol 😆
We'll make cuddling optional for this, no pressure to cuddle at Jeju's with Mama around friend! 😁🫂🚫
Yeah we can just hang out in the various eloquently decorative temperature huts, while wearing our T-shirts and capris! 👕😎👖😎👕👖
Can anybody suggest a library in Manhattan that has an area for cuddling? Someone mentioned “ study rooms”.. any in Manhattan? Or a nook that we can cuddle in on floor? Or has a couch? Any Manhattan bookstores that have a couch or seating conducive to cuddling? Not just a table. Ty all!
@Katota
I only went once and nobody on the mens side were given anything from what I saw. Saw so many penises that day I thought I was a Game of Thrones extra