@RedFox16 I enjoy cooking anyway, but with a cuddle partner it was a delightfully elevated mundane task. Wholesome and nourishing to the mind and body.
Someone has been teaching me about love languages and it can be an enhanced connection via “acts of service”.
Yes, cooking is one of my favorite "acts of service"! Food is a beautiful thing to share with someone!!!
You know what would be really cool is a cuddle while tandem paragliding! That would be really awesome! I would totally do that.
@GuyverGordon can you add a gif for this please?
@MTex Sure thing 😁
Share stories about the awful music we listened to as Teenagers lol
@GuyverGordon Thank you!
@lovingspoonfull would you ever want to try tandem paragliding?
@MTex I want to say yes… but ask me when it’s time to jump. 😇
@lovingspoonfull @MTex You can always try it at least once .... you can do it more than once if you remember the parachute 🤪
Another vote for cooking over here. I’m also still holding out for a stargazing cuddle, but I’m thinking I’m going to have to travel for that one. Too much humidity in the atmosphere here to get a really good look! Great topic @lovingspoonfull!
Paragliding would be so peaceful with a cuddle partner.
@GuyverGordon I'll try to remember the parachute 😄
@pmvines ~ Hadn't thought of that!! lol
@Homesteader that’s a great reminder. i enjoy reading a lot but it’s always been a solitary activity for me.
I think I should try your idea, at least once. I’m thinking there’s at three three options? Quietly bask in each others warmth and read your own stuff; read to your partner, or be read to. They’ve each got their appeal.
@1sBitten thank you. And stargazing is on my list now. I’ve spent too much of my life with eyes on the ground or the horizon, not enough with eyes lifted above.
I’ll leave it to the reader to decide how figurative my words are… 😎
@lovingspoonfull "If your eye falls on a bargain, please pick it up."
@IronLemon you’re right. Wouldn’t want to be accused of a roving eye.
Ugh, and the hygiene. No one likes the stink-eye.
I am wondering if soft wrestling sort of stuff could be wired into a session in a maybe slow and enjoyable way.
Like I'm seeing it as pushing against each other in places, trying to get a leg under theirs to roll or lightly pinning arms/legs (followed my a nuzzle into their biceps, of course) x)
@Schuttebear Not impossible, I guess, but I could see female cuddlers being leery of a suggestion like that.
Yeah, the wrestling stuff has been talked about several times before and I think the consensus is that if that's on your top list of things you wanna do then it can be seen as a kink/fetish and and is gonna throw up some red flags. But it doesn't matter what I think, that's between you and your cuddle friend just realize it may be a red flag and if it is indeed a kink/fetish for you that it's against TOS and not what this site is about.
@lovingspoonfull ~ ALL 3 OF 'EM!! YES. Amen. lol
@pmvines ~ Thanks for the gentle reminder. I haven't seen the wrestling threads, so I appreciate the nuanced response you shared (as I quietly tuck away my WWF shorts! lol)...
@MTex - Agree!! Dance cuddles are my absolute favourite!! I miss them so much.
I've enjoyed making food while cuddling with one cuddler.
@CuddleSquid Yes, for me dancing is synonymous with cuddling. It's the perfect activity for a cuddle session!
Cooking ~ Cuddling ~ Bliss 😋
Not sure this would be a good hobby to do while cuddling, but I was entertained so I thought in would share the story and seek opinions.
While traveling the other day a woman sat down a couple seats from me at the gate. I didn’t take much notice until I saw her surreptitiously and repeatedly glancing at other people at the gate.
She had pulled out a small book and started sketching people she found interesting. 😎 she was really good.
I chuckled, leaned over and asked her “ have any of your subjects ever caught you sketching them”. She blushed deep red and said, “not before today. “ then kept going as if she had a drive to finish her sketches.
I didn’t initially realize it, but I looked closer and hadn’t noticed she was on her third subject; apparently while obliviously doing email I was her first… 🤣
Silly story aside, it made me wonder if art would be a good shared activity? Jointly sketching, painting a landscape scene, sculpting…
I personally have never developed whatever talents I might have had and would probably be very entertained to participate with someone who knew their craft.
Have we considered building legos?
@Specialist_Log i personally have not, but liking it 👍
As long as no fugitive Legos make their way into the bed and bite later!
@lovingspoonfull Yeeeikes I just had the mental image of rolling over onto a Lego piece. Maybe couch cuddles with legos would be better, less chance of a rogue piece
Cuddling up watching nature 😌 ☺️
@MissAdventurous That's beautiful 😍 I would love to cuddle in a gorgeous place like that!
@MissAdventurous sigh. I would rather call that “lifestyle cuddling” 😎
Thank you for sharing!
This thread is a GOLDMINE of new cuddle goals!!! Thanks, @lovingspoonfull !!
@MissAdventurous ~ Oooohhh... Beautiful pic! It's definitely getting to be THAT season... What a lovely reminder!!!
You’re welcome @Homesteader 😎
Here’s a thought I’d like feedback on: escape rooms. I enjoy a good puzzle. How about collaboratively hugging your way through an escape room? Brainstorming with each other, chatting, having a laugh?
Worst case you don’t enjoy the cuddle and are under pressure to figure it out quickly (😇), best case you don’t want to escape at all!
@lovingspoonfull that would be a really fun cuddle!