I’ve been on this site for six years and had my first pro cuddling session scheduled for this morning, but I feel like I got played. Sorry if this type of post isn’t allowed, but I’m curious if this sort of game happens often?
The pro kept asking to meet (we’ve been talking steadily since January and initiated conversations over two years ago) and last night we agreed on an 11 AM session for this morning. I used this site to request the 11 AM time, but she didn’t respond for a while and suggested that we move conversation to texting. After I confirmed last night on here and via text, she stopped responding, so that made me a little nervous. But I get it, things come up.
This morning at 10:32, out of the blue, she asks if we’re still on and I was a little surprised, because she’s about 25 minutes from here and I never gave directions or my address. And since she didn’t respond to my messages asking to confirm, I assumed she just bailed out.
We go back and forth a bit, but the communication isn’t clear and I sense that something isn’t right. She eventually says she’s coming, but then a few minutes later she says she doesn’t have cuddling clothes. I suggest that it’s okay, but we can reschedule if she’d rather. We agree that it’s okay and we’ll still meet. She randomly says she’s waiting at a location 10 minutes from here at 11:00. I ask for an ETA and to for her to please confirm if we’re still on, and I gave her my address, that was at 11:01. She doesn’t respond.
At 11:14 she just texts me “ready (:”. I look outside, just in case, but no one’s here. I figure, maybe she’s ready to leave her last location and come here. I tell her that I’m also ready and I wait outside just in case.
At 11:25 she sends the following message
Been sitting here for a minute, I feel like another day would be better for ya! Maybe even if it’s just a massage when you get back into town ❤️ I am professionally licensed and have a spa room but also travel to the client as well.
I was really confused, because I was waiting outside and no one even drove by and there’s no one nearby.
Did I just get played?
She also has four 5-star karma and we’ve been talking for over two years, so it’s not like it was a new or suspicious looking profile.
UPDATE:
In the process of typing this up, I got some even stranger messages that further lead me to believe that I got played.
After she sent that last message above, I responded with
I've been outside looking for the past 10 minutes but didn't see anyone. I think I'll pass and good luck with everything!
She says “alright, have a good one.”
I thought it was over, but she just sent this message:
Hun, you never gave me an address.. lol I've been waiting at Walmart.
This was 12 minutes after she said to have a good one. I don’t feel like going back and forth any further.
I like to give the benefit of the doubt, but it feels like she never fully intended on showing up, and that all of the odd conversation patterns since last night were her way of trying to get me to cancel the session, or to drop a hint that she wasn’t serious.
I was extremely hesitant to book a pro in the first place because I’m not rich and the whole ghosting and flaking game gives me anxiety. Now I may never try booking a pro again.
What do you think? 😕
P.S. Most of the pros who I’ve talked to on here initiated the conversation, unsolicited. Is that okay? I’ve heard mixed things about that sort of activity, whether it’s against the rules or not. Can someone clarify?