What is the policy about setting up a appointment with a nonprofess
*nonprofessional
Pretty much, that's between you and the other enthusiast (i.e. "nonprofessional").
So exchanging phone numbers isn't a problem as long as both of aren't pros
*you
Whatever enthusiast, and that’s what they’re referred to. Treat them like a regular person and not a professional. Don’t ask them to make an appointment or book a session. I’ve read where a lot of them mention that in their bio. They are not a professional and they do not book sessions.
Right, I usually chat on here for a while to make sure they are on the up & up before exchanging phone numbers. Use your best judgment because they are a "stranger."
Thank you
No real policy just be a good human and follow the TOS. If you connect with somebody and decide to meet up then that is between the two of you
As an enthusiast I would suggest not asking to book an appointment/session or if they are “available this weekend”. Don’t just say “hi”. Don’t just haunt visiting their profile.
Say hello. Say something about yourself. Ask them questions and get to know them. Talk about why you’re here. Ask them the same.
Most of the enthusiasts are here to build connections with people. It’s not just an opportunity for you to get something for free.
If you want something quick, hire a pro. And even then it usually helps if you are a good and friendly. human being.
Most important thing though about cuddling "non-pro's" is that no money should exchange hands. So if someone is asking for money and they aren't a "Pro" then report them.
As another enthusiast, I agree with @mauvefox's advice.
The best "policy" is to read the person's profile, and follow any reasonable requests therein, when PMing them. Some will have requests like, "send a photo with first message if no profile picture", "no out of staters", "use this keyword to show you read my profile", etc.
I don't have any such requests or "tricks" to ensure my profile is read...mine is very long-winded, but that's only for those who have the desire to read such things and get a feel for someone's personality before contacting them, and to answer frequently-asked questions. I never expect anyone to read even half of my profile, it's just there for anyone who shares my penchant for thoroughness. 😄
When someone contacts me, I'm happy if they tell me about themselves and show interest in genuine friendship.
Pictures are never important to me; I'm not here looking for people I'm attracted to. 📷
I like to spend some time connecting on the site, and it's fine if people offer their contact info, but I rarely reciprocate unless a cuddle is imminent.
Our messages don't have to be long, or carry on for weeks...it's all about the vibe. Sometimes someone's very first message really appeals to me and we instantly click and schedule a cuddle. Other times we enjoy writing novels back and forth across the country. Other times, conversation drags and I can tell it will never go anywhere because we simply don't click. And that's all okay.
Just have good intentions, and remember that no response doesn't always mean "no"...it may just mean, "My inbox is full".
Best of luck! 😊
~ Sunset Snuggles
P.S. @KamikaziNinja86 100%!!! Never, ever give an enthusiast money, no matter what sob story they give you. 🤑
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