@kal77 If a pro is scheduling a booking with you and then just not responding anymore, there would be a record of it that CC could review (assuming you are doing your scheduling on the site, not off it). So there's your proof. As for pros reporting guys, you're probably right, but in a lot of cases these guys have track records. They've been reported before or their messaging shows that they are not here for the right reasons.
I may be wrong, but I believe you cannot leave karma unless you have had a booking with the person. A moderator would know better on that.
I don't know what kind of vetting goes into making someone a pro - there must be some, because people do get rejected. There's none at all for enthusiasts, so a pro could be booking with someone wanted in four states.
No they are suggesting times on site and then never accepting the booking. Then just leave for days. I’m confident there are plenty of guys here for that but I’m saying a ton of professionals are also.
@kal77 If they are negotiating times with you and then ghosting, report them. CC can view the message chain and take action. It's possible these pros are doing this to others too, in which case they will have to have a good explanation or likely get banned (CC makes no money off pros who don't book). Without reports, the site has no way of knowing there's an issue.
That was my question. Should I be reporting them? I wasn’t sure if they just didn’t want to book with me and I don’t want to potentially get someone in trouble if it’s just a preference. Thanks for your feedback
@kal77 You're not really doing any harm because no one will know you filed a report other than the mods. The pro might have a reason she stopped responding, or she might just be someone who gets cold feet. The mods will know how to deal with it.
@kal77 Yes, please report them. Moderators are limited in what we can see in a person's profile if they haven't been reported.
@kal77 posted: "Should we be leaving karma for these profiles?"
You should only leave Karma for those you have met, or had a cuddle with (including virtual), or who was a no-show for a meet-up.
Technically, if a time wasn't officially agreed upon/booked, you shouldn't leave Karma...
On the opposite end of the spectrum, you could message back and forth for five years but never meet or cuddle in any fashion, and you aren't supposed to leave a Karma then, either. 🤔
It's rather funky, because some people go around collecting Karma from people they shook hands with for two minutes at a meet 'n greet, which is basically meaningless, yet you could know someone inside out but if it's only through messaging, you aren't supposed to share any feedback on them to help others know what kind of person they are. 🤷🏻♀️
I get that in-person is different from online, but eh...'tis funky. No one's come up with a better system, though...despite some bizarre and very complicated ideas that have been posited, over the years.
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Consider removing people who have not visited for a whole year or more. Tonight searching in Cincinnati with 100 mile radius I found at least twelve who had not visited in more than one year.
Send a notice first, they may have moved to different city and neglected to change their city of coverage.
@Oldboyscout Simple solution. When you do a search, specify last online. Then you won't get people who haven't been on for a while. It's not unusual for people to take long breaks from this site and then come back.
Send notifications to our phones as a text. Get a copy of everyone's Drivers Licenses to sign up and let cuddlers blur our faces for anonymity/security for general public/stalkers. Most cuddlers don't care what my face looks like and honestly it was better marketing. Let us keep banned reviews or opt back in to keep them. Add an interactive map where we can see cuddlers as red pinpoints. I'd like to know which city/twin/state has more cuddlers and make the professional cuddlers blue maybe?
Just random thoughts I came up in 5 minutes sipping coffee waking up. I'd like to give back more to this site.
@DitaVonCuddle I know there is a Map of Cuddlers topic in the General forum.
In the search filter, the "Last online" drop-down really needs to have options in between "Less than a month ago" and "Less than a year ago". The current options make it hard to filter for currently active users. A year shows way too many inactive users, but 1 month is too short.
I would add options for "Less than 3 months ago" and "Less than 6 months ago".
@caladan If they weren't on at all in the last month, odds are they're not active.
I agree with keeping the smoking and drinking section there. I'm extremely sensitive to both. I know a lot of people think religion should go, but I appreciate it. Being Christian myself, it's not a deciding factor, but it's nice to know its something to potentially talk about. I know i haven't added a picture yet, but I will soon.
It would be awesome if we had a search option on our messages so that we can look through our messages without having to scroll and scroll and scroll. It would be much appreciated!
I do love to see an ability where people who wanna cuddle could show their availability so then cuddlers could find us.
@DallasTraveller What did you have in mind?
I wish they had an easier way to set up services. I don’t know how to use the whole discount thing.
I think making it clear that non platonic relations are not allowed. Almost all of the messages I’ve received made me uncomfortable and people keep immediately trying to make the messages off the site. I’ve gotten messages about fetishes or talking too much about my appearance. I think a lot of people are under the impression this site is for non platonic relations and a lot of people are sending really uncomfortable messages.
@VirtualCuddler it is already quite clear on the website that non-platonic activities are against the terms of service. It is on us to report ne'er-do-wells and also be the type of person to attract the right kind of attention. With your scintillating poses and pictures, plus being a "virtual cuddler" charging $125 an hour will definitely draw in a more 'esoteric' clientele, to put it nicely.
@fluffy_gamer You are treading on thin ice with your comments about her pictures and price. If you truly have a concern, file a report. Your opinion about them says more about you than it does about her, and it sounds a lot like victim blaming. It is also entirely off-topic for this thread. -JoyfulHeart (Moderator)
I have had multiple people try to make things non-platonic, or untagged pros trying to bilk money out of me or others. Every time I report them, they get banned. The mods on this site are great for the most part and do a lot of hard work to keep the community what it should be. But it's on us to report the offenders as mods cannot be everywhere pre-screening all our chats.
@VirtualCuddler A lot of people are looking to see how many boundaries they can push or get a charge out of breaking the rules. You can beat them over the head with the fact the place is platonic and it will make no difference. All you can do is report and get them banned.
@fluffy_gamer 125 is for in person public cuddling. My rates for virtual are much less.
@VirtualCuddler
There is nothing wrong with your pics or your poses, they are benign and nothing that most people would consider to be scandalous. I have no idea how that conclusion was made.
I'm sorry you're having issues with men wanting more than cuddles. It's not just you, and is the fault of both the creepy weirdos who run rampant, as well as women who offer more than cuddles, which has the compounded effect of making some folks who don't know better assume that it's the norm.
It's not just you, and is the fault of both the creepy weirdos who run rampant, as well as women who offer more than cuddles, which has the compounded effect of making some folks who don't know better assume that it's the norm.
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I would love to see pros messages be able to be sorted into sub folders like cities, as a travelling pro it would really help to be able to click a city and message the people I’ve already met there, to let them know I’m headed back, or the people who where interested but our schedules did align
@wanacuddle85 oh yea. As someone who is obsessed with being organized, I would love that!
I thought that was someone replying to themselves lol
@cool_dude_ I did a double take. 😎
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I'd like to be able to sort my favorites by last online.