The dudes lie about their age because they think a much younger gal won’t meet with them otherwise.
Yep! 😊👍
@sunnysideup And it's funnier, when they say "I'm XYZ yrs old, BUT I look (or "feel") younger" because they think that will "impress" said younger women to. 😆
Lol. Unfortunately for myself, I fell for that baloney back in my 20s when I married a man in his 40s. Never again! 😏☺️
For some it may be a lie and for others, some people just do not look their age. People can never guess my age in person. lol
IMO
Share whatever you are comfortable with, your boundaries also include your most personal safety information.
I'm a people person. Get to know me first, I may open up and tell you all of those things.
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I have a theory on this. I believe some will fib about their age in order to get into a more preferred age filter range so they still get bookings.
Don't know but really I don't care either. I don't pay much attention to the age part in the profile I'm more concerned with how we get along and getting to know them to see how we vibe before I ever think about hanging out.
Hell I was taking to someone the other day who I've chatted both here and offsite with for quite sometime and had in my head that I was several yrs older than them, meanwhile they tell me they are like 4 yrs my senior. Did I ask for proof ? No, because again, I don't care !
@pmvines remember when you thought i was i my 30s and i just laughed and laughed and laughed. 😁
@mauvefox
Was that why we were laughing ? I thought it was the codeine cough syrup
@pmvines well.... we laughed about so many things. who's to say what was what. 😬 🤣
I cuddled a guy recently who was absolutely not 34, and it gave me the ick he lied - I won’t be seeing him again. Honesty or GTFO. ❤️
I would cuddle a 100 year old.
Sister Skinny just turned 3 but she keeps telling everyone she's 2.
As someone who has been chewed out for even saying hello to a lady on here, because I looked like an older person, (I started getting gray hair at 20) I can see why some would do it. I just dye my beard now so I wont get treated poorly again.
@Bromygoodness one of my friends was salt and pepper in high school so I get it.
I look like a white bearded wizard and I don't care
Because I look 19. 🤣 jk 😜
@Bromygoodness I wouldn’t let one weirdo make you change your hair color. ❤️
We can’t please everyone, and if someone had that reaction - it’s their issue. Not yours.
@sunnysideup Do your comments address people who increase their age? Really, all the judging here could make people feel more uncomfortable and self conscious and maybe more likely to change their age.
Nearly all my cuddle requests are from much younger men, many decades younger as in late 20s and 30s. It feels like a fetish to me. I rarely get a request from anyone close to my age. Ive shown my real age in past and it was even worse. Will someone please give me a legit and non-creepy reason why a 23 yr old guy wants to cuddle a 75 yr old woman? 🙏🏻😊 Maybe changing my age to 30 would fix that?
Also, fun fact: Some cultures calculate age differently (though certainly not to the degree maybe that is being discussed here). For example, in South Korea, they measure age based on the lunar new year (where everyone gets a year older, no matter the date of your biological birthday). In that culture you could be a day old and a year old at the same time.
(I don't know ... seems like a fun fact based on topic 🙂)
@GuyverGordon You made me think of Korean age! My DIL explained - if I remember correctly - at birth you’re already 1 yr old and then add another year on Korean New Year? Then add a year at your own birthday. (Not sure if I’m remembering correctly and didn’t google). Almost an extra couple of years I wouldn’t want!
I don’t lie about my age but I sometimes forget how old I am 🤣
I know some professional female cuddlers on here who are in very saturated (competitive) markets, and who felt like they were losing out on views because they were the "oldest" ones in their area, so they've lowered their age....just an fyi
@g_w_t_w
My comments don’t address people who lie about their age to increase it, since it’s much more rare, but I can take a stab at it.
An obvious lie like they are 105 years old tells me either they A): Genuinely do not factor age in a cuddle buddy, or B:) Are no longer looking for a cuddle buddy
Some younger folks may lie about their age in an effort to be taken more seriously, perhaps (I’ve heard from pros that men in their 30s are much less likely to hassle them about prices for example)
The patriarchy, next question
Woman toldSome do it for marketing reasons, men seek to cuddle younger
I never lie about my age. I just refuse to say it when I meet people in public for the first time.
This site shows the age to cuddler though so can't run from that. Luckily most usually think I am younger so it works out.
One pro told me she kept getting guys fetishizing her age and trying to book her for mommy issues and whatnot so she actually lowered her age to get away from those guys. Thats one aspect that Ive heard.
I only lie about it to myself
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