Ears when I cuddle

SoneroSonero
edited August 2025 in General

Greetings,

New member here. Still have not had a cuddle session yet. I am on the fence about it even though it does interest me very much. One of my concerns is I love to snuggle with my nose in a girl's ear. It's totally non sexual but I guess can be construed as odd. I feel some cuddlers may not like this. That would put a major constraint on me if I was really digging the cuddle session,. Enough for it not to be worth it.
Thoughts ?
To me ears are cute and smell nice which relaxes me.... :)

Comments

  • pmvinespmvines

    Asking interwebs strangers on a public forum for their opinion on things is not a substitute for just asking the person who you are actually cuddling

  • AlyLaurenAlyLauren

    Agree with @pmvines on this one. Definitely something you would need to just communicate directly about and get clear consent on.

    Some people might find it odd, some people may be totally cool with this. Personally, this would tickle me so much I wouldn't be able to sit still. 😂

    Especially if this is so important to you that it would ruin the session if it didn't happen, I would say ask in the early messages before you schedule anything.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    If it sounds like a fetish,
    And smells like a fetish…

  • SoosonSooson

    I rest my arm pits case.

  • pmvinespmvines

    Perhaps you can work an ear wax removal kit into your cuddle

  • pmvinespmvines

    And I agree with @TheFunCartel on this one. You sound a bit obsessed like this is a deal breaker for you, which does teeter into fetish territory.
    .

  • MorpheusMorpheus

    The intent of a cuddle session should be to cuddle. I don’t think you should go into a session with something like that specifically in mind. Different pros have different levels of comfort, some may be fine with that and some not. Everyone has their own personalities and sessions can be fluid, I generally just go with the flow. I do always ask pros where they don’t want to be touched and have had a pro say, her ears. All of that being said, sorry but I have to agree with some of the others, it sounds like a fetish.

  • Carrie_AnneCarrie_Anne
    edited August 2025

    Personally I couldn’t tolerate having someone breathing in my ear. In fact it gives me an ick feeling but that’s just me. I don’t want anyone’s warm breath on my face either.
    Definitely, as others have said, you need to ask first before ever meeting in person.
    Do Not just start doing it during a session!!!
    And yes it sounds like a fetish to me.
    Cuddlers with bad breath in my face is awful.

  • [Deleted User]gem7 (deleted user)

    I guess that's one way to come to your senses.

  • Sunrise_SnuggleSunrise_Snuggle

    Yeah, I'd steer clear of that one tbh. Is it an acceptable request to make during a session? Probably. But it shouldn't be the focus.

    With that being said, I do have some deal breakers myself, and some things that I generally discuss prior to a session. My favorite cuddle position is having my head in their lap while they caress my face. Would I book a pro that wouldn't do that? Probably not, tbh.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    I love to snuggle with my nose in a girl's ear

    Snorting ear wax is a gateway to harder drugs.

  • TxTomTxTom

    The Earwax Candle Kit is a fun, cuddle-friendly project...

  • [Deleted User]LadyLapCat (deleted user)

    Well, guess today is a fast day!!!!🤢🤢🤢🤢

  • tacpmurgtacpmurg

  • Matt2358Matt2358

    Snorting ear wax is a gateway to harder drugs.

    I hear that!

  • BearBear

    @TheFunCartel

    Snorting ear wax is a gateway to harder drugs.

    Too late. Now you tell me. Sigh.

  • ladybug7ladybug7

    Don't think it's a fetish... Something that provides comfort is NOT a fetish if it provides sexual stimulation then it's a fetish. I agree that this is a good thing to discuss with the person you find. 1. Is it odd? Nope, because everyone has their thing I assure you... Don't let others make you feel abnormal because maybe your thing isn't something they are familiar with. 2. Putting it out as a question out here isn't a bad thing. You can potentially fish for someone who you know it's not going to bother. I like other have mentioned, depending on how much you got in there would probably get ticklish. Several of my cuddles have gotten right up in my neck nook. I know the smell you are talking about...I've just stopped and composed myself and tried to go back to the spot. I've had lots of people who wanted to squish my fat and I thought that was weird at first... Until, my four year old godson was doing it. 😆 Comfort comes from a primal part of who we were in our most vulnerable times in life. We aren't doing judgements here.. just ask your person. Don't be shy.

  • pmvinespmvines

    @ladybug7

    Lots of folks satisfy their fetish by masking it as something more acceptable, such as being for comfort. People will find a way to compensate and justify if it's a big enough need.

  • Carrie_AnneCarrie_Anne

    @pmvines
    Well said. I have had a good amount of experience here, including what you describe.

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod

    To mention this before the first session is an immediate Block and Report in my book.

    To discuss it with somebody you know well, perhaps after ten or twenty sessions, is a different thing.

    If this makes a difference as to whether you'd book a cuddle session, or whether you'd book it with a particular person ..... than you are searching in the wrong industry.

  • stormydaycuddlestormydaycuddle Mod

    Since it is very ambiguous as to the nature of this post, I am going to lock this thread. I hope I hit this one on the nose. 😂 all jokes aside I want to take this post in good faith however it’s a little off to me.

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