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@Catfursonmyshir
Nope, nobody here hates men nor has that been expressed here. That's your own personal can of worms that you insist in pushing into every thread where somebody doesn't really agree with your point of view. It's a pattern with you.
@Briiyan read the entire thread from the beginning. This thread is about people who have non platonic intentions . If a cuddler brings oil and says to me he brought it “ just in case” … I find that very disrespectful . Read the whole thread from the beginning . Goodnight
Quite a few people who join the site end up breaking the rules and then are quickly banned. Many who have been members for a while have unfortunate experience with that behavior.
"This thread is about people who have non platonic intentions"
that's not what the thread is about, perhaps reread the original post
@Catfursonmyshir You're right, it's about someone who appears to have non-platonic intentions. When asked not to sign messages a certain way, he chose to block the OP rather than do that, which makes it likely that he did in fact have non-platonic intentions.
If he had agreed not to sign messages with xxx, we wouldn't think he has non-platonic intentions. But instead, he blocked the OP, which makes it likely he had non-platonic intentions.
It was his blocking of OP rather than simply not including xxx in his messages that make us think he had non-platonic intentions.
Funny how blocking means whatever suits the mood in the room,
twirling like a weather vane depending on what is the correct prevailing groupthink that moment.
A woman (rightfully) blocks a creeper? You go girl! A man blocks a pro for being rude? What a creep!!
Btw the guy doesn't even have to be creep. He could just be rude like the op, and the minions here will cheer and high five his being blocked.
[Reported, reviewed, and already placed in timeout. You are in no way helping your own cause, @Catfursonmyshir . -Sid]
@IronLemon thank you
I tried.
@SweetCuddler33
I DID read the entire thread. Revenge is never justified. No matter how disrespected you feel. (I can't believe I have to explain this to an adult)
"See how he likes being disrespected and feeling disgusted"
Your verbiage clearly states that you want someone else to feel unpleasant emotions that you experienced.
What was your motivation for that? What does it accomplish? How are you going to claim any moral superiority? Does the suffering of others bring you joy? 😳
[Already timed out for personal attacks. This is yet another exhibit of the same. Did it ever cross your mind that maybe she was darkly joking, for one, and for two, her comment wasn't directed at you in the first place. -Sid]
"Does the suffering of others bring you joy? 😳"
The answer is yes for a startling number here
I am an empath, very sensitive and caring I can't stand seeing the kind lonely men of cc being dragged through the mud in thread after thread, sooo much mean spiritedness being cheered on by the established clique here 😥
I never knew and X meant kiss lol
@Morpheus I remember that from when I was young. x's and o's meant hugs and kisses.
Okay, now I don't remember which is which. Either way, it's disconcerting at best from someone you don't know.
@SweetCuddler33 if a cuddle partner says no to massage and the other party brings oil and says just in case, I can see how you or anyone would be offended but, asking for and or offering a massage with or without oil, doesn’t equate to non platonic.
Did you catch the advice from @muddlemand ?
"yes - men have to understand they're presumed guilty until proven (over time) innocent."
Basically: Have external genitalia? You're a piece of shit until you prove that you're not.
They'll be the ones to proudly support feminism, while never knowing that feminism has always been about EQUALITY. Yet, they themselves don't possess the mindfulness to hear their own prejudice. They'll respond and try to justify their behavior instead of pausing to ponder from an outside perspective.
[Offtopic, attacking feminists, just no, @Briiyan. -Sid]
what about being propositioned for a paid cuddle
(Complete with unprompted sweet talk btw, got it a lot here over the months)
simply for glancing at a profile, that one did not even realize is a pro cuddler?
Can that be considered disconcerting at best too?
How about the aforementioned "hun, sweetheart, dearie etc" that women often do call male cuddlers? Is that all totes ok cause of the gender difference? Just asking cause I am freaking baffled by this hypocritical craziness
[You have choices in how you respond. Or not. @Catfursonmyshir -Sid]
I am an empath, very sensitive and caring I can't stand seeing the kind lonely men of cc being dragged through the mud in thread after thread
I don’t see any kind men being dragged through the mud. Only the ones who use non-platonic emojis and signs. If you are an empath you would understand the woman’s need to feel safe.
@Briiyan I couldn't not see that. Wish I could unsee it
This whole place giving me the ick fr now
what about being propositioned for a paid cuddle simply for glancing at a profile, that one did not even realize is a pro cuddler?
Pros are allowed to communicate with people who visit their profiles.
How about the aforementioned "hun, sweetheart, dearie etc" that women often do call male cuddlers?
If it makes you uncomfortable, tell them to stop. If they don't, block them. If they block you, then you know they had bad intentions.
I really don't see what's so complicated about that.
@TheFunCartel
"yes - men have to understand they're presumed guilty until proven (over time) innocent." @muddlemand
Nuff said.
The almost total silence from the community, regarding the recurring male bashing in thread after thread here speaks volumes.
Don't think I have ever seen a pro sticking up for their clients on this board, which tells me either the lot all agree or some agree and the rest are scared to speak up.
[Completely off-topic and solely stirring-the-pot here. You earned your timeout. -Sid]
@Briiyan one thing you hear over and over again is men overstepping boundaries, not paying pros if they don’t get sex, and there have been documented incidents of assault in the past. That’s just on this site. I understand the distrust. If you are not guilty of this behavior then the statement shouldn’t bother you. Your actions will show and the trust will come. You are not entitled to their trust if they don’t immediately give it to you.
@Briiyan @Catfursonmyshir
Be mad at the centuries of misogyny and countless creepy weirdos who make women feel uncomfortable and untrusting and unsafe, and not at those who express having reasons to feel uncomfortable and untrusting and unsafe.
A couple of you are just very upset and it’s possible that others just want you to vent and get it out of your system. I hope it helps! 🤗
Have fun scapegoating and vilifying an entire gender y'all. I'm out, enjoy the echo chamber
Why don’t you start a thread on that instead of hijacking this thread with unsubstantiated accusations about this thread?
"If you are not guilty of this behavior the. The statement shouldn’t bother you"
I'm not entitled to trust? I never said I was. Why would you even say that? I'm talking about the demonization of an entire gender.
I have one simple point you're having trouble grasping:
NO HUMAN DESERVES PREJUDICE
Understand? If not, I'd love to hear you attempt to justify prejudice and stereotypes 😊👍
[ @TheFunCartel spoke clearly and eloquently on this, @Briiyan - that it comes down to personal safety and comfort, no prejudice. Men are not demonized on CC because they are men, but women here have a laundry list, and the moderator team can back them up with the thousands of tickets created because SOME men 1) don't understand consent,, 2) feel entitled to break boundaries, 3) and do not understand the concept of "no." Are all men like this? No. But women and us moderators have the receipts. -Sid]
Being turned off by behavior that makes a person feel uncomfortable is about safety, not prejudice. I hope you can understand that. Prejudice would be a claim if women never had bad experiences with men before and they just disliked men for no reason.
I think you understand the difference.
If not, I'd love to hear you attempt to justify prejudice and stereotypes 😊👍
No need to when the situation discussed is not a prejudice or a stereotype.
@pmvines
ABSOLUTELY NOT
You're attempting to justify revenge, silly 😊
@Briiyan
Seriously have no idea what you're talking about. The OP said nothing nor implied nothing of the sort.