Idk that's a lil weird tbh, I've had someone tickle me without asking but that's cool with me. But asking for it is weird to me
My best friend tickles my back when we cuddle and it's very calming and comforting. if someone asked for that i would be inclined to do so but if they mean like constant tickling i would probably assume it to be a fetish and even if it wasn't i would be exhausted trying to tickle someone for an hour
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Chiming in here, but I do enjoy tickling in a playful way. I think it can create stronger bonds and a great form of laughing. I feel it allows myself to show some vulnerability in the moment. That being said, I am hyper aware of the damage bad faith folks has caused. I do tread lightly and never want to scare away any Cuddlers, I generally wont't bring it up at all.
That being said, it almost brings a happy tear to my eye that there a few who will allow it in their session. I do hope to come across you Pro's who allow it and equally enjoy it in a playful way.
Was recently asked about tickling and wrestling from a potential cuddle client. I told them it was a no because I grew up in a big family and older brothers and sisters used to do that too much... it was quite an unequivocal no. He replied-- if you'd ever like to relive your childhood hit me up! true story
When I was a pro I offered tickling and cuddling only during virtual sessions.
I like tickle fights.
But if I'm laughing too hard I might toot.
@Julia watch it!! It's insane.
I'm very ticklish and love to be tickled! As long as there is no touching inappropriate areas and everyone is on board and respects consent and it's not sexual in nature I don't see the issue... I see tickling like massage, 95% of the time it's basic therapeutic but 5% of the time someone may be looking for something inappropriate.
Moderator here: in response to the side comment of wrestling during a cuddle - wrestling is a no go. It’s against the rules and can result in banning. So fyi to whoever needs to hear it keep wrestling out of CC interactions.
Personally hate tickling, to answer Deleted OP’s question. But I do think it is slightly more of a personal boundary issue.
I could kind of see why OP would ask, though.
Consent should be foundational.
(Wrestlin, I can understand why wouldn’t be allowed, but I have to admit, maybe 5-6 years ago, a female enthusiast, who no longer has an account here afaik, had spontaneously initiated what she called “Cuddle-Jitsu” on me, it was consenting, Platonic, and no one was hurt.
…But now, I can also understand why “Cuddle-jitsu” wouldn’t be allowed either by the way! Sorry for veering so off-topic
Safety first!)
on second thought this thread should be closed since tickling and wrestling can be fetishized. Also, let’s stay away from zombie threads especially on sensitive topics . This is a conversation from five years ago.
Many accounts have been closed for those seeking tickling, wrestling, or piggy back rides. While some of these may seem harmless, if they're being asked about in messages directly it's probably very high on the person's list of interests -- If not already a fetish, it's bordering on it.
Tickling and wrestling specifically are used as ways for lots of "uncontrolled touching" to happen where a bikini zone may "accidentally" be touched or grabbed or an erection could be rubbed against the other person - which gets uncomfortable real quick for the receiving party, and could even be triggering for abuse survivors.
If someone is asking about these things, they're a bit too driven by it and it should be reported. I can almost guarantee that you're not the first person they've asked about it on the site.