Real amazing friendships can come from this

MausHausMausHaus
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Ive met so many amazing people and some just hit ur life in the best most positive way. Friends for life! In today's world we are so isolated yet so connected. Cuddle comfort is such a great platform to meet people and if u are a loving caring person u meet them here, because here is where we gather. No sexual garbage, just closeness. U get to learn their stories and expand ur mind, with appreciation. Im so glad this exists cheers to the mods and the think tank that made it all possible!

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  • SuperManCuddlesSuperManCuddles

    @MausHaus I am very happy to hear and can relate to your experience!

  • NatsWarmEmbraceNatsWarmEmbrace

    Yesss!!! Same here ! It’s beautiful when you find the right people !

  • OhioMikeOhioMike

    It really is an amazing site. I’d never would have guessed someone could meet so many people using this.

    This is a conversation some of us have often : “You know without CC , we would have never met !”

    @MausHaus I agree ! Thank you to the mods over the years who are really the guardians of the site. Of course thanks to @Mark and gang for their vision. I would like to see Mark someday go into more depth with us , explaining how he decided to create this platform. It’s gotta be an interesting story 👍😊.

  • great_pillow08great_pillow08
    edited October 2025

    @MausHaus How in the free world are you sayin' "no sexual garbage"!?! It may not be on the message boards, but it's SURE in my inbox. I can send you screen shots!! 😮‍💨

    Edit: You joined 2 months ago- Give it "a minute"!

  • CuddlesofcuddleCuddlesofcuddle

    I've created wonderful bonds and have had some great experiences. This site has been life changing for me and I'm forever grateful.

    @MausHaus such a great thread to read. Thanks for sharing!

    @great_pillow08 you're the biggest killjoy. I can be pretty negative in the brain sometimes but your responses in threads meant to express gratitude, concern, respect or even grief have been so yuck. Can you please simmer down, report folks as needed and refrain from using the site if it's not something you're actually happy doing.

  • foreverforloveforeverforlove

    @MausHaus I wholeheartedly agree 🥹 there may be a few bad apples but they fall far from the tree 😌💖 I love it here

  • Moonchild80Moonchild80

    @MausHaus Yes! I have met and connected with some genuinly amazing folks on here, a few who have become real friends, knowing that I would have never have crossed paths with them otherwise. I love when the universe conspires with us along our journey ✨️

  • disneysamuraidisneysamurai

    I feel like the site does attract the best type of people overall.

  • MeltWithMilesMeltWithMiles

    New here, but I keep hearing these wonderful testimonials. This sounds like an amazing community and I am so delighted to have discovered this wholesome little corner of the Internet. Happy cuddling, all 😁

  • FeynmanFeynman

    @great_pillow08 This concerns me a lot. I hope this is at the top of the mods list to make some system to deal with this. I wonder how they would be approaching this?

  • MausHausMausHaus

    @great_pillow08 oh no I have experienced sexual garbage but I screen people well and end sessions when boundries are crossed. I choose to focus on the 98% of amazing people here, not the rotting fruit. I try to be positive because the good definitely out weighs the bad by a huge margin

  • SuperManCuddlesSuperManCuddles

    @MausHaus Awesome perspective 💯

  • MausHausMausHaus

    @foreverforlove absolutely we all have experienced bad apples in all facets of life, be it family, friends, coworkers or on this site but the good outweighs the bad so let's keep positive and dont let 1 or 2 spoil the bunch ^_^ cuddlers are a different breed, we care

  • RadiantHugsRadiantHugs Mod
    edited October 2025

    @MausHaus thank you for sharing your experience. Mine has been the same, I’ve made wonderful friends!

    @great_pillow08 I haven’t seen any legit reports from you lately reporting any of the “sexual garbage” you proclaim to have in your inbox. Yes there are people asking for more than cuddles every day - and there are several reports every day about this which result in prompt action from the mods.

  • SoosonSooson

    And I thought "sexual garbage" was the dumpster behind Lovers Lane 🤔

  • PurpleAppleszPurpleApplesz

    It really cant. Odd paying someone to be your friend

  • BlueIrisBlueIris Mod

    @PurpleApplesz You're making two wrong assumptions. (1) not everyone on here is a professional cuddler, and (2) professional cuddlers are not in the business of forming friendships. They're in the business of providing platonic cuddles only.

  • great_pillow08great_pillow08
    edited October 2025

    @RadiantHugs- Uh, you haven't seen any "legitimate" reports from me lately? I made one just this past week and I haven't EVER made an illegitimate report (what in the free world are you implying?)! I honestly don't know who gets what on this site, but it's not at all unusual for someone to be reported by someone else before I have the chance to. I wish said persons messages automatically disappeared when they're banned because it's one of the biggest reasons why women don't check their messages on this site- No one wants to see that, even after the person's been banned.

    @Cuddlesofcuddle- I have SO MANY cuddle buddies from being on this site who'd completely disagree with that judgement- Although you're absolutely entitled to it! I mean NO ONE ANY harm E-V-E-R, but I can't control others perceptions of me. I can't control how others think and feel and if you (or anyone else) chooses to "see" me in a negative way, that speaks to more of who you are as a person than it does to me. I was raised to give the benefit of a doubt and to communicate (going directly to the source) when there's a disagreement. That concept seems to be lost on "so many" these days. I've spoken with countless female enthusiasts who've expressed all the same concerns and had all the same experiences I have. The only difference is I'm calling it out in a way more than just the moderators can see it, and you seem to be one of the ones who doesn't like it. It's not going to stop if we keep it between "us" and the moderators. Banning someone doesn't do anything but force them to create a new profile with a different email address. There should be absolutely nothing wrong with "warning" other members with potentially unrealistic expectations. I've been a "member of this community" for several years now and passing words of wisdom on to those who're new should be viewed as a blessing, not a "killjoy".

  • great_pillow08great_pillow08
    edited October 2025

    @Feynman Oh, I'm VERY sure it could be made into a full time job. There's pretty much nothing anyone can do about it because anyone is free to go create a new email address, generate a new profile, and be "back at it" within minutes. I didn't mean to be discouraging. I have several cuddle buddies from this site and they're VERY MUCH "protected" in my world, but several of them are no longer on this site because issues were brought up and not addressed or they just accepted that there was no solution and left. The problem is there's no open communication allowed after someone gets offended. The moderators just shut one side up and the problem never gets solved. It's why the cuddling "community" has the bad rep it does! Problems can't be addressed, so solutions are never found, and the problems just fester. It probably should be stated that these issues aren't unique to THIS cuddle site either. There are others and the same issues exist there as well.

  • SoosonSooson

    AI can easily be utilized to automatically flag messages for review that contain inappropriate language. It can also tell if a picture attached to a message is inappropriate. And it can also rate the severity of the offense and take action autimatically such as a warning or a ban.

  • great_pillow08great_pillow08

    @Sooson- The only problem with that is people like me who don't use "politically correct" terms will get flagged A LOT unjustly and the mods will get more annoyed with me than they already are (which was never my intention, but I have NO say in how others perceive my words). I'm not even a little bit afraid to say "sex" or SCIENTIFICALLY correct terms for body parts. I'm educated, but I GUARANTEE it'll be flagged EVERY time. If this site starts using AI- You guys did this to yourselves!!

  • SoosonSooson
    edited October 2025

    @great_pillow08 OK so thats a good point, but it also gives me the opportuinity to further explain. There is a difference between AI and and an algorithm that just searches for keywords. AI should be able to understand the conversation regardless of words used. It should know to not flag you for telling someone about your recent visit to the OBGYN no matter what words you use , and at the same time to flag a non platonic proposition even if it doesn't use explicit language. It can be tweaked to meet the specific needs of a business and the more data it processes the better it gets.

  • MausHausMausHaus
    edited October 2025

    @great_pillow08 im sorry uve had such a bad experience. I cant imagine ur pain and I dont wish it on anyone. I made this post to showcase the happiness that can result from cuddling wonderful honest caring people. Uve hijacked this to spew venom. If ur so unhappy being a cuddler, I suggest u stop and get off this platform, all the best to u!

  • MeltWithMilesMeltWithMiles

    @MausHaus I wish I could "like" posts! Safety concerns need to be recognized but this thread is not the place to do it.

  • JessieKittiesJessieKitties

    I can totally agree with that statement, since I started all Ive met are awesome people from different path of life. I hope it continues to be that way ^^

  • UREverythingUREverything

    To keep it 💯 im thankful to just meet people. Also thankful some appreciate me for who I am. Too share a warm hug with people like that makes me feel wonderful. Ive shared very meaningful conversations that lets me know we are still more alike then different.
    Humanness lol humanness is a lovely thing

  • AuroradreamAuroradream

    Being a cuddle provider—and participating in CC meet-and-greets, the occasional cuddle social or party, and professional cuddle panels and seminars—has made a huge impact on emotional well-being and social connection. I've always been a sensitive and caring person, especially when it comes to others’ feelings and comfort. That’s why much of my life has been spent as a teacher, caregiver, mom, and social worker.

    In recent years, sharing cuddles has been especially meaningful. The friendships and warmth exchanged through this work continue to make me kinder, stronger, and more grounded in the goodness we strive to live by and share. It’s also a quiet confidence booster. Coming from a big family where it was hard to shine, it’s empowering to step into spaces where softness is celebrated.

    And honestly—some hearts are just made of sparkly pink fairy dust. It’s lovely to know there are more of them out there, shining bright 💖

  • MausHausMausHaus

    Much love to you @Auroradream !! You are inspirational! Keep shining and spreading the positivity!

  • VitaminJVitaminJ

    @Auroradream I resonate so much with what you’ve so eloquently stated! As a pro, I spend quality time and develop meaningful relationships with my clients but through the meet and greets, these forms, and other off site cuddle groups have made a network of folks throughout the USA that I am so incredibly grateful for and call friends. It’s so amazing to me that anywhere I go there is this platform that can be used to connect with sweet and copacetic folks on multiple levels.

    @MausHaus i assume your intention for this post is to express how you are bubbling over with good vibes about some experiences here and I just wanted to echo them! Sometimes I just want to shout from the rooftops about how life changing this whole concept can be and I feel like I am a privileged member of a secret underground cuddle cabal…yes it has the aforementioned downsides but I am a look at the bright side kind of gal☀️I just LOVE the friends I have made here.

  • BearBear

    @MausHaus thank you for starting such a positive post. I can agree wholeheartedly. I’ve been here a long time and met some beautiful people. People that I talk to daily. I even gained my precious pupster due to a beautiful person I met here and talk to daily. I talk to more than a few people here who have become good friends.

    The other reason I really enjoy this thread is that it’s positive. I read a lot of negative reviews on different sites in general. A few years ago I made it a point to leave more positive ones. It seems it’s easy to say something when we are displeased and not always say something when we are treated nice. I try to spread the positive karma anywhere I go.

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