Really, we're all here for squeezes and hugs, not squabbles and slugs.
Yeah I often don't know I'm blocked unless I click on someone's profile to learn I'm blocked.
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@pmvines It's the same with me too. 😄
Thank you for blocking me 💌
I had found such a cute gif! No soup for me lol It doesn't post
I got blocked tonight LOL
A pro reached out to me for the second time asking me to cuddle unsolicited.
The first time he reached out to me and said he wanted to cuddle but he didn't know what I looked like. I didn't respond.
The second time he just asked if I wanted to cuddle.
I advised that I don't pay for cuddles.
He reached back out and said he wasn't going to charge me.
I told him that I wasn't interested and I shared with him why his two previous messages were offensive.
"You present as a man who doesn't value women and who treats women like a commodity.
In your first message to me, back in Nov., you said you wanted to cuddle but you didn't know what I looked like. I didn't seek you out for a cuddle. You sought me out. I understand wanting to know what someone looks like before you cuddle with them but you came into my space requesting something of me but in essence saying you were not sure because you could not gauge how I looked. I'm sure you don't realize how disrespectful that is, but it was.
You came back this week asking if I was interested in a cuddle. Your profile is that of a professional. I understand that you've now removed that - however you're still coming into a space requesting something of me without even the small dignity of kindness. "Hello. how are you doing?" You can't treat women like a commodity and expect us to oblige."
He sent a smart alec remark and then blocked me. 🙄🙄🙄
Whoopty doo. I was never going to cuddle with him anyway.
Your communication is muah, chefs kiss. 👩🍳 It's amazing how clear communication can be dismissed so easily.
@Cuddlesofcuddle So creepy, lucky you to be blocked! I hope you reported his name to the Mods if he’s a Pro soliciting!, even if blocked if you have his name. Good riddance lol!
@BR123
I block when communication gets spotty. The rule is this: when I say something, you say something. Don’t ever put me in position to double text/message. Yea, I’m a brat when it comes to that, but I don’t care.
You do realize people have lives outside this site, right? And that typed messages do not convey the natural back-and-forth rhythm of an in-person, extemporaneous conversation? But, please tell us more about your impatience and dismissive-avoidant attachment style. 😂
@CaramelNotes I had one of those a while back. A male who I'm pretty sure signed up to be a pro only to trick women into giving him free cuddles. Of course he says he was going to pay me, right before he blocks me, but as a supposed pro he should know that's still allowed.
But it fits the pattern of men testing the waters, so to speak, and getting angry when the women they contact aren't meek, submissive, and gullible.
I’ve been blocked and had no problem because she was the one that needed money and I have enough to change her life. She blocked me because I wouldn’t do 7 hours lol
she was the one that needed money and I have enough to change her life
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@Lovezone 7 hours is wild. I mean overnights are a thing but to request or push that is out there. Life Changing money you say? Lol When i read your comment I thought of the tiger in the movie Aladin 😅🤣
"Touch nothing but the lamp!" 🐯
If it’s life changing money then why not donate to the American Cancer Society or something like that?
I'll block em back lol
You are wasting your time that goes to pros and enthusiasts
@Mrmars688 you're coming in quite hot for having an account made just last month. I hope the community is good to you 🙏 if not then I hope you feel it's best to no longer waste your time and exit. I read a quote on someone's page today that read ” I don’t go where I’m tolerated, I go where I’m celebrated“
I deactivated for a bit and came across a very nice warm and welcoming message from a cuddle pro apparently was sent and I didn't see it before deactivating. I then attempted to send a message back and found that I had been blocked, so perhaps she thought I was ignoring her and got offended, not sure what happened there lol
I find it weird to block somebody because they “looked at my profile too much”. Specifically if you keep changing pics and look like a different person so you click on the profile again and realize it was the same person with new pics. Then they block you lol.
I don’t know if I’ve ever been blocked 🤷🏽♀️ In Other News 🗞️ I keep my Blocked section at 200 !! Then skim to see who got banned and delete them by the dozen. If it feels sketch I don’t hesitate. Not worth finding out in person.
I always smile when I see my blockers or those I've blocked in the forums. Laughter keeps you young. 🤣🤣🤣🤗
I enjoy your insight and experience @Cuddlesofcuddle.
@Goonie4life laughter definitely keeps you young indeed, I promise 🤗
Blocking can be addicting 🤣 I find myself doing it even more now and quickly.
To my last Pro Virtual Cuddler (from "out west-ish"), I naively wondered why you blocked me without giving any reason for doing so after our virtual cuddle ended. Now, I thank you for blocking me. Having received zero feedback on what I did wrong, I realize I did nothing wrong and I was not the problem. You may have taught me a valuable lesson: that the best cuddles happen in person, and those are the ones worth waiting for. All my best to you, and may our paths never cross again. Mwah!
I had an extremely pleasant DM exchange with a pro recently. After chatting for a bit, she finally asked if I was interested in a session. I told her that I would be working in her area next week but couldn’t get away with disappearing from work for 2 hours and asked her if she can do an hour. She had listed a 2 hour minimum on her profile and but also listed she would do an hour under certain circumstances. Within 30 seconds of me sending that message, she blocked me. I know what you’re all gonna say, people can block whoever they want blah blah blah. Really thorough, she could have been pleasant and kind and said, sorry but let me know when you can do 2 hours or something like that. Despite everyone wanting to jump to her defense and tell me I’m wrong, I think what she did displayed absolutely no kindness.
@Morpheus true, it does However it's just how it goes.. Sending hugs from here though!!! 🤗 No worries
I was once blocked by someone who told me I was rude for being kind… 🤨 Block away 😃 It’s not the real world… but, it is, at the same time… how do you block someone in person? “ Hi 👋, I don’t like what you just said , I think I will Block you now “ , then, hold up a little sign that says “ you are Blocked” and just walk away ….. ? 😃
I don’t block anyone btw I think it’s immature and childish. I leave lines of communication open for anyone and everyone.
He unblocked me recently… maybe his way of admitting he was being childish and immature… 😃