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I've had as much luck sending an booking request as my first message as with sending a proper greeting and introduction (not much, in either case). I've even had a Pro ghost me after a brief introduction, then reply immediately to a booking proposal. That was confusing.
For me, @shecuddless , it makes it completely different. A pro is there to purchaee those moments as a transaction. For an enthusiast, as it's called here, i see it as a genuine connection to that person and i do see it as potentially fostering a friendship. Whether and acquaintanceship that exists through occasional chatting and meeting up to hang out and get some physical touch and quality time, or if you can actually make a genuine friend.
But when it comes into the realm of payment for services rendered, to me it is a whole different ballgame. Instead of two people mutually getting together for intimacy, someone is hiring another person for Concierge service. In that realm, the client and service provider have specific expectations and regulations, and it is about the business of it. It is why i won't work with pros. I don't want the person I'm connecting with to only be there because I'm giving them money.
For me, it feels gross. But that is my personal take. I am a capitalist, and it is great this service exists for those who want it. I would just never do it.
I've had genuine connection with pros during sessions that I've paid for. It's possible for that to remain intact even with the exchange of money. It's possible for it to go the other way too. I think it depends on the individuals involved.
For sure @JoyfulHeart , they are not mutually exclusive. However, with the exchange of money being entered, it still ultimately is a business transaction.
Sometimes
Ubiquitously. You can have a Therapist, where you share other forms of intimacy, and you could even have a type of platonic relationship or comfortship with them, but it is still a business transaction if the impetus and prerequisite is me paying you to get the cuddles/therapy/etc.
Can you still be a capitalist if capitalism in action grosses you out? 😂
A man booking with no "foreplay" and the women feel icky about a cuddle request without it. The men who understand don't need to pay for intimacy. 😂
A real pro should understand the demographic of men she is dealing with. Casanova is not on this site. Boorish behavior does not need to be tolerated but you are not screening for dates. Discover your personal boundaries that allow you to make a guy feel special. If you need to talk beforehand, don't accept the booking until he talks beforehand. Maybe he's a creep or just saw a pretty profile picture and wanted to cuddle.
I have always assumed it’s because the site only has an option on pro accounts for book a session which of course they can message through but it would make sense they assume that to be the first step
I've made friends with some pros and kept in contact with some that retired from being pros, so sometimes a cuddle with a pro can turn into a genuine friendship. 😊The only thing keeping from cuddling or hanging out is the distance really.