I randomly saw this video on Facebook featuring @xandriarain . Hopefully more people will get interested in platonic cuddling.
https://www.facebook.com/share/r/18afnaXWGF/
More people interested in platonic cuddling? Read the comments below the video, tells you everything you need to know 🤮
@Krisha I don't have Facebook, so I can't read the comments. The video played, though...
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I've come across some @xandriarain vids on I think Tik Tok and such. She is one of the few that puts herself out there to share the cuddleverse.
@SunsetSnuggles Disgusting non-platonic comments, showing what majority of men are after.
@Krisha Disgusting. Thanks for pointing out.
Yeah I’ve seen xandria’s tik toks and instagrams in the past. I don’t know if they are all linked now, but we’re in the past. The TikTok’s were interestjng, I’ll warn you though her instagrams do get political, don’t go there if you’re not into strong opinions and rants lol there’s definitely a lot of passion there.
Unfortunately, this YouTuber exploited me for views. We had done another video a year or so before and it went pretty well. But then he wanted to do another video and this time he blatantly went against the parameters we discussed and edited the video to further stigmatize and sensationalize this work.
The videos he did with me got way more views than the rest of his content so he continuously posts clips of them from time to time. I tried to get him to take it down initially but he refused. I didn’t have the bandwidth to take legal action at the time.
I deeply regret working with him and sincerely apologize to everyone in the Cuddle community who has been hurt by this content. I now require anyone wanting to make videos with me to sign a contract that says I must sign off on anything before it gets posted.
@xandriarain I'm so sorry you were manipulated and used.
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Just watched, that was so short and strange the framing of the video. Yep best to get final sign-off!
It's best if we all STOP watching his videos and report them as exploitation. If enough of us do, maybe we can get them taken down. The more people click on the link, the more views the videos get, the more the algorithm will promote the unethical creator and his followers, and the more income he'll get as a result. Stop paying someone who is knowingly and intentionally exploiting our beloved cuddle community.
I am reminded I have Minestrone soup in the cupboard but I don't know that person, sorry . I have not seen the video nor wil I try after reading comments
@xandriarain I’m so sorry you were exploited. Shame on that guy! But kudos to you for learning from the experience and using your business savvy by enforcing ppl to sign a disclosure! I am on the fence about going public due to societal stigmas that might affect other employment opportunities. It’s a delicate dance.
Im trying to create my own cuddle parties/ wellness workshops in NYC but just in the gathering stages. I have so many ideas and want to spread the positivity of touch! It’s a shame ppl automatically interpret touch as only sexual.
Sorry that happened. Some people in the comments did show genuine interest in cuddling.
@trysdet Im gonna let you finish, but minestrone is the best soup in the world. 🍲
@xandriarain that sucks that he did that to you. I’m sorry. I’ve tried to defend you in a couple comments… if I were you I’d report the video(s) and get meta to take it or all of them down. Maybe stitch a video of your own as a response? Really disappointing when people exploit others, truly I’m sorry. If you want to go the route of reporting the vids get as many people as possible to also report. I’ll do it too if you want.
@xandriarain Wow damn. That is terrible. I've seen some.of your Tik Toks on the more community education side of things.
I wish there wasn't so many clout chasers and bad actors on the internet.