I have a question do younger people have an issue with people 20-30 year age difference?
Age is just a number, as they say, but also attitude is everything. I've had no issues cuddling with large age gaps unless they made it weird. Some men treat it almost like a fetish, which gets just as uncomfortable as being fetishized for my height/size/etc. Just treat the other person as a complete, complex being who is more than just one trait they possess.
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/24775/will-females-cuddle-with-an-older-gentleman
Your username, your profile verbiage about skilled hands and pampering, and this question, do not paint a platonic image.
Age means nothing to me. Intention, on the other hand, makes or breaks.
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Yes, I don't wanna feel like cuddling my dad, nor my son.
100% agree with @SunsetSnuggles
I would consider the OP’s username an orange flag (at best) by itself. Couple that with this question and that flag turns crimson.
I've seen it both ways. People uncomfortable with age gaps like what @Krisha is saying. And also people who will not cuddle their age range in the 20s because they feel those might not have as much self-control.
Whatever the reason is people can refuse a cuddle partner for a variety of reasons. Even though the site has people not discrimminate based on anything other than politics, none of that matters because people don't need a reason to deny cuddling. And I think that is fair!
Do you all think that age also plays a role in receiving cuddle requests?
Im gonna kill another thread with this one I think buuuuut:
I wont message people who are obviously lying about their age with filters and stuff. Like come on... if you are being so dishonest at the get go about something im gonna find out on our first visit, what else should I be concerned you are misleading about
"Mam.. you are not in your late 20s.. neither am I.. thats ok.."
@KiyomiComfort I think age and looks can play a part but things like how their profile is written, quality Karma and genuine communication can take precedence. Some people may have a strict age range preferences though.
Yes. It absolutely does. I personally will not respond to anyone under the age of 25. Just a personal preference. 🥰🥰
It matters, I always look at the age when considering a request.
[writing as a member not a mod]
Some people have individual preferences (not prejudices) and that's fine.
Women enthusiasts of all ages normally receive plenty of attention. Men enthusiasts contacting other men enthusiasts, I don't know if age makes any difference.
When it comes to clients contacting professionals it absolutely does make a difference. The older a professional woman, the fewer enquiries she will receive (other things being equal). As far as I can tell from my anecdotal data-gathering over the years, the effect is broadly noticeable but not decisive. It is of course only one effect amongst many.
Lying too much about your age can attract suspicions that the account is fake. However, listing a slightly younger age so as to appear in a certain group of search results, and declaring the act either in the profile or the first message or two, does seem to be acceptable to the community.
In other words claiming to be 30 when you're 60 just looks weird. But listing as 49 then admitting to being 51 in the profile doesn't seem to raise many eyebrows.
I have cuddled with professionals across the entire age range and I can promise you it doesn't make the slightest difference to the quality of the experience. Of course somebody of 65 isn't the same as one of 25, but age isn't one of the factors that affects whether you have a good cuddle session or not.
I’m a 78 year old guy that loves to cuddle. I’m into age gap because everyone is younger.😂
Yeah, I dont think people put the same initial level of trust in someone thats younger compared to people that are older when it comes to your intentions/why your here, or at least thats what it feels like.
Edit: made this answer to a different question about age that used to be a different forum question but it got merged with this one so now this answer makes no sense
Age is just a number for me.
I personally cuddle all ages. However I favor the older age group as they tend to respect my boundaries better.
Personally I do mind an age gap. Im not comfortable with cuddling people 5 years older or younger than me. But that is my preference. A 10 year gap is already a big yikes for me, let alone a 20+ year one.
Personally I don't enjoy cuddling with people much older or younger than me. Max difference i prefer is 5 years each direction
Age is but a number. In the cuddling world, it really shouldn't matter. Hopefully the cuddler is mature enough
I like to meet 100 year old but haven't found any so far
It depends on how large she gap and the person. P people closer to my age are more relatable as we grew up in similar times
There aren't many professional cuddlers my age in this area; what I appreciate about younger people cuddling with me is learning about newer music, hearing their perspectives, and if asked, sharing mine.
Helps make me feel connected beyond just my own experiences/generational biases.
I've got a cuddle scheduled with someone 50 years younger than me. I guess it may not make a difference. As I told her, if our conversation is unrelatable then our visit can be cut short...not a problem for me. She's 100% ok with it though, she said.
There are now 2 posts on this same subject. Merging them.
Age is nothing but a NUMBER!!!!
Age is just a number is the most used phrase said just prior to meeting Chris Hansen
This thread is full of defense witnesses for Jared from Subway.
pmvines hope the meeting with Chris went well....
@AntiqueWpatina
Best damn brownies ever
Damn @pmvines. Brownies are younger than Girl Scouts. Did Chris tell you about the optics of saying that?