Why would men visit my profile?

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  • There's that word again. 'heavy' why are things so heavy in the future? Is there some kind of problem with the earths gravitational pull??

  • Just curious. So I've noticed a lot of guys visiting my profile and just wondered what it is there searching for? I realize they'd have to visit to see that I'm only interested in cuddling ladies, but what are they looking for. Are they reading the karma I've posted for ladies that I've seen, or am I missing something? Nothing earth shattering I'm sure, just curious....

  • I think they were interested in your " About Me" summary. :)

  • Ah, since I haven't filled that out, lolol...

  • Normally it’s because you started a thread on the subject. Or to see if you are a Chiefs fan.

  • I think they may have looked at a female that they wanted to cuddle with and saw that you met with her and wanted to see what you experienced?

  • I think nothing of it. Humans by nature are curious creatures. I did feel a bit self conscious over the aspect that profile visits are taken note of as a whole, but it didn't take me long to feel indifferent about it.

  • All great points, thanks..

  • I think the better question is why are you uncomfortable with a man looking at your profile. Why is it any different from a woman looking at your profile? It’s not a proposition. It’s just a profile view.

  • This question popped back up and I decided to look at it not realizing I didn’t post this before. It was still here also why I couldn’t find it in the previous five pages, lol.

    This has been fun reading, since I didn’t previously. For multiple reasons.
    The OP deactivated his account.
    I stated seeing people address bear65 who posted similarly. Who possibly has the same things I had happening.

    I didn’t know this originally, Bear is also a LGBTQ+ term for a larger hairy gay dude. Otters are smaller hairy gay dudes.

    I sympathize with women and laugh at being the recipient of obnoxious male behavior. I’ve been propositioned on this site. Even though I have said and stated in profile stats that I’m straight. My name was not derived from my sexual orientation.
    I’m on the forums a lot. So I get checked out from that I imagine.

    I’ve noticed an up tick in visits after I give a good karma rating to an attractive and/or inexpensive pro.

    I’ve gotten message requests from men asking innuendo questions about said pros. Which I don’t reply to.

    @lovingspoonfull gave the best answer ever.
    I actually came to give this answer this time and had to make sure I posted the previous answer as well, lol

    Been said before, in many ways, but … ahem. Here’s my take.

    Profiles are for viewing.

  • @MelNYC ??? Good Lord. I never said I was"uncomfortable" with it. it was a question. I think you're the one making assumptions

  • @CraigKCeast She is frequently quick to judge. No reflection on you. :/

  • @CraigKCeast I was just checking to see how buff you are. Not that there is anything wrong with that. Just an advocate for physical fitness.

    Me I have six pack abs but I returned five because they were past the best by date.

  • @CraigKCeast Ya know what? You’re totally right and I apologize. It came across as discomfort with people of the same gender visiting your profile but I must have taken it the wrong way. Sorry about that!

  • @MelNYC . Its cool. I'm still fairly new here and learning the forum, and how things work. Obviously I didn't go through and see there was already a long thread here on this topic. Do appreciate the conversation though and several good points from other folks.

  • I didn't read this whole thread, I think one reason on it you left a karma on a Pros profile and they want to check out your profile because of that. I visit profiles sometimes it they leave a interesting or cool or fun comment on the forum, and just want to learn more.