Suits for cuddling sounds like a terrible idea. Softness and comfort is what you should be aiming for.
@cfdanny I agree with you. Neat and tidy is fine. I wouldn’t want to go walking around a strange neighborhood in pajama pants either. (I’ll save that for my own neighbors 😉)
But there’s a big difference between taking care and pride in your appearance and wearing a suit to intentionally impress someone.
I think the OP should suit himself.
@7gem 😂😂😂😂
So i read a man ask a question and it didn't take 3 posts until he started getting ridiculed. You even shut on him for having a different experience than you all. O hope it got better but geesh. I'm surprised any of you are welcoming people
@Rndm i do believe that people are impressed by the silliest things. They act differently when they see whatever it is and they do give you better treatment. It's how life works. Maybe it's a suit maybe it's a watch, maybe it's physique . Or maybe it could be that you talking down at people in the forums but whatever that thing is what you're saying is valid in all walks of life. The answer is probably yes.... or it could be whatever they said.
So i read a man ask a question and it didn't take 3 posts until he started getting ridiculed
The third comment was the OP.
I don't see any ridicule, just a lot of people pointing out that wearing a suit to a cuddle session doesn't have the positive impression that the OP hoped it would. And a couple of jokes which did not look in any way malicious to me.
Or maybe it could be that you talking down at people in the forums
Yeah, I noticed that was what you did in your first post. Does it work? Is everyone impressed?
Ask ridiculous questions and you might receive ridiculous answers
A bunch of people either answering the question posed, or being sillygooses in a public forum is hardly casting ridicule. 🙄
Im guessing you may be a fan of reviewbrah which is cool because I am as well. That guy is very entertaining
@mauvefox SO MUCH BULLYING LOL
Wow, this thread backfired fast. That said, I agree that there was a lot of unnecessary derision in the first page.
@Nature_Lover_ is one of few who came at this with a kind, well-formulated response, with no intention to degrade.
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I always turn up in business attire to my sessions, and feel that pros tend to give more attention due to my attire.
What is your point of comparison? How would you know if they “give more attention”?
Sounds like something from the 1950s and prior.
@disneysamurai Exactly. When I first started in my current career about 25 years ago we wore suits and some of my clients did as well. Then about ten years in all pretensions were dropped. Most business is conducted in business casual attire. Yes, lawyers in court, banking and financing executives, and of course the religious leaders may dress in suits, but for the most part with exceptions, the suit is reserved for special occasions now. Always keep a black one at the ready though as funerals are a guarantee in life.
I always arrive in a nice suit-usually John Phillips from London. Hans Gruber has 2 himself. Rumor has it, Araf buys his there.
@CaptainChaos Only you could pull that off with panache!
@Briblossom i always introduce free use of the bathroom at anytime for any reason including freshening up or showering if necessary.
I'd prefer a client come in comfy clothes freshly showered clean and neat.
Uhmmm no! Wear whatever comfortable for ya. All is welcome!
This is just trolling you guys.
@escapevelocity 💯 my first reaction lol. Not all attention is good attention.
@Rndm So, I'm curious, what does "more attention" look like in your experience?
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What is a suit? I only have jeans and band t-shirts. Am I missing out?
@cuddlyDavid ABSOLUTELY NOT. And definitely not at today’s prices. And I have quite a few suits although I have been gifting many of them to colleges and nonprofit employment agencies that help those who have job interviews and can’t afford suits.
No. People are people. Being in a suit doesn’t mean anything. It doesn’t mean more money, more respect, more connection. It’s just a costume.
If someone shows up in a suit I’m more worried about him being stinky because clearly he just came from work and didn’t shower before arriving.
Nope!