Heya, Just getting started here and have had a lot of inquiries regarding virtual cuddles. If anyone has any tips or tricks for what works or doesn’t work for them it would be greatly appreciated. Also if you are someone that enjoys virtual cuddles I would love to hear what your are looking for and what you enjoy! If there is already a discussion started please just attach the link and I’ll read up on it. Thank you to everyone for their guidance and nights of wisdom.
This should be asked in the Pros Only forum. Have you read through all the pinned topics at the top of each discussion board? It’s really helpful for new pros. In fact it’s at the very top of this forum. That’s a good place to start. Best of luck.
Recently a prospective client indirectly insulted me for offering virtuals. He basically said they’re stupid and there is no such thing as virtual cuddles, but if I was interested in a virtual session with him I could modify the price to zero so we could FaceTime to “shoot the shit” because I’m so awesome and he really enjoy talking to me. Since he clearly doesn’t possess the emotional intelligence to understand how two people can connect with physical connect, I just said no thank you. I think when you inquire about the need/intention for the virtual you can set clear expectations for the experience you’re delivering. Often times a judgement-free conversation can feel like a warm hug.
Wow, @TattooSqueeze , that guy could have just moved on and not make an insult to you.
It’s like going into a store and talking to a salesperson, and offered a product that he dislikes and does not believe in its value.
Instead of saying no thanks and walking away, the guy confronts the salesperson and berates her for trying to run her business.
Buddy, you walked into the store, lol. No one forced you to like what’s inside.
@ProfHermes when someone doesn’t see the value in my work, that is their problem not mine. I’m well aware I’m not the right provider for everyone seeking cuddles, but insults are truly not necessary. I’m all for disagreeing respectfully and using tact when doing so. Honestly, I think he just didn’t want to compensate me for my time. I had a lovely virtual with a client a few days after. So to each their own.