Hey everone,
So I guess im the new guy...actually don't even know how I got here, but after reading some Karmas and reading sone Bio's this cuddling therapy might be whats up... anyways How is everyone
Welcome!
Thanks. How do u like being here
Welcome to CC 🫂
See thats cool i love to converse and love gettinginput on all kinds of things. I guess i am a natural listener. Lol
Hello Timelapse143! I just made an account too loll, is 143 cuz of the number of letters in the phrase I love you?
Also! How was your day?
Good yeah i used to use 143 back in the day lol. Yeah this cuddle for hire takes some time to get used too lol
How do i wrap my head around paying to cuddle. Its hard and a blow to my ego..kinda feel that way anyone else ever feel that way
There have been several forum threads about the philosophy behind paid cuddling and different people's perspectives on why they pay or get paid to cuddle. In general, reading through the sticky threads in each forum can answer most questions. You can also use the search bar to look up keywords related to topics you have questions on.
Thanks
Howdy! Welcome to CC ya'll. Happy you joined the community! Whether you pay or not, you're already kool with a k for joining 😎 Take your time reaching out or responding to others. It's about your comfort. Sometimes it doesn't seem like it but trust me, we were all new here at one time. You found the forum! I dig the vibes ✨️ sending hugs from here 🫂
Welcome to the community. I use to have issues paying for pros. I can be cheap about myself. Yeah when I went through some heavy times of grief and depression I would definitely call it like a life-saving mood.
Try not to think of it in regards to your ego because it’s not a relationship. Think of it similarly as if you went to a therapist to talk to somebody or to a massage therapist or any other mind-body-soul helping event.
@Timelapse143 I like it well enough. I hope you find what you're looking for.
It's not all about paying to cuddle. There are lots of people on Herrera who just want to cuddle for the pleasure i brings. In my experience hosr are he best cuddlers, people who wan it for the physical and emotional benefits instead of the money.
Hey, everyone! I got accepted yesterday and I’m looking forward to being a cuddled very soon
How did you guys feel during your first ever session?
I am new to all of this. Didn't even know this is a thing until my wife told me about, who just recently learned about it herself. I cannot afford to pay for a pro, so I try reaching out to those who do not charge. Unfortunately nobody has replied to any of my messages. I guess that's just the way it is. I am just a guy. Good luck to everyone here. Peace, happiness and much love to all of you. I hope you find what you need, and feel what you need to feel.
I can see how you feel it’s a blow to the ego, but after being here for a while, I feel it’s genius and I can see why a person would prefer to use this as a service. For one, it’s NSA. When you feel lonely or get bored, you can just book your cuddle buddy. You get to develop a relationship with them like any other “therapist.” You can talk about what you want in confidentiality. Dating is complex. Half the time people don’t even want all that so this gives an in between option. I’ve gone away so many times and come right back. When I’ve gone into the dating world, I always leave thinking it’s too much obligation and expectation. Cuddle is perfect. It’s naturally set with boundaries. I can spend platonic time with cool people, good conversation, and no expectations. Then there’s variety. Try that in the dating world and it’s called cheating. Each person here brings different energy, environments, and experience. You ultimately learn alot about self and others.
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