I've received some helpful feedback from other pros about how they handle hosting at hotels, including hosting fees, deposits, and other arrangements.
Now I'd love to hear from clients and cuddle enthusiasts, especially longtime users who have experienced different hosting arrangements!
I'm considering offering sessions where I host at a day hotel, but before working out all the kinks, I'd like to better understand what people actually appreciate and expect.
Some of my own clients have mentioned that one of the stressful parts of booking a mobile cuddler is figuring out the logistics of hosting themselves. I'd like to explore ways to make that process easier and more convenient for them.
To respect this forum's rules regarding professional self promotion, I want to clarify that this is strictly a discussion to gather feedback, not an advertisement for my services or an attempt to solicit bookings.
What Makes a Great Host?
What are some things you've really appreciated when someone hosted you?
Are there certain accommodations, thoughtful touches, or little details that made you feel more comfortable and welcomed?
What would you like to see more hosts offer?
Hosting Fees, Deposits & Pricing
How do you generally feel about hosting fees when a professional arranges the hotel?
Would you be comfortable splitting the hotel cost with the professional, or would you prefer everything to be included in the session price?
How do you feel about deposits, especially when the professional is reserving a hotel specifically for your appointment?
Are there certain pricing arrangements or payment expectations that would make you more or less comfortable booking?
Cancellations & Booking Expectations
What do you consider a reasonable cancellation notice when someone has reserved a hotel for your session?
How would you feel about a nonrefundable deposit or cancellation fee if the professional has already paid for the room?
What kind of communication or booking policies would help you feel comfortable committing to an appointment?
What Makes You Hesitant to Book?
Have you experienced anything that made you uncomfortable or discouraged you from booking with someone who hosts?
Whether it's pricing, the environment, communication, expectations, or something else, I'd love to hear what didn't work for you and why.
Best Practices & Suggestions
What are some hosting practices you've experienced that worked really well?
Is there anything you wish hosts would do differently?
I'm especially interested in hearing from longtime cuddle enthusiasts and clients who have experienced different hosting arrangements and can share what made certain experiences stand out, positively or negatively.
A Quick Note About This Discussion
Please consider this a judgment free discussion!
I genuinely welcome different perspectives, whether positive or negative. While I can't control how others respond, I appreciate any feedback as long as everyone remains respectful.
My goal is to learn from your experiences before figuring out the logistics of hosting myself, rather than making assumptions about what clients actually want or find accommodating.