I actually personally don't do well with anything involving more than two people cuddles. Disorganized cuddle puddles and two-on-one cuddles with pro cuddlers are things I've done before, and I think it might just be that I have such an extreme dopamine drop afterwards but I feel like absolute crap afterwards. I actually left an unofficial cuddle party that I really enjoyed while I was there, and five minutes into getting home I found myself sobbing uncontrollably. To me, there's something more jarring to group cuddles than one-on-ones for some reason and it really depresses me. One-on-ones go verrrrry differently and are more satisfying for me.
I've not experienced cuddling with more than one person yet, but I'm willing to try it once, more if I like it.
@SnugglewithSam , that’s very insightful to know and I think I can correlate why would that be..
Sorry!!! But the curiosity was killing me, I needed to see the results. I am very curious to try all of the styles, I haven't done any but 1 on 1 as yet but I am very anxious to try different types.
I agree with @mickcuddle as usual, cuddle parties would have to be well structured and with outlined rules and pre-cuddle guidance.
But I can definitely see the energy aspect of it being a turn off precisely because of the over abundance of good vibes unresolved awkwardness, or any other emotions being brought forward and not dealt with by the whole group. Much along the lines of @ubergigglefritz's crash post party. I'd have to imagine there is an obscene wealth of emotions floating around cuddle parties if not well regulated by the moderators that would be felt after by susceptible individuals.
So @choicesvital did you ever attend one? It's been half a year since this was first posted? @happybear did you?
@stellarosass I'm a huge fan of cuddles and horror. Any of the Grudge's in the dark especially!! In fact I'm one of those who will spend a half hour just slowly creeping toward the watcher in the dark for that series just to get a good scream out of them. Yeah, I'm one of those jerks. hahaha!!!
I'm still giggling about the concept of a cuddle puddle.
I dunno, I already have issues of cuddling with a complete stranger as it is so I'd have to really be comfortable with the group already to have a cuddle party to begin with. 1 on 1 is about all I can handle really.
@PaulaDahla I haven't partake in the elusive cuddle puddle. As soon as one crosses my way and my schedule coincides i"ll be there. but I did indulge in a double cuddle. I have to go to the adage twos company and three's a crowd. Everyone needs to be present. One was a really good cuddler and the other didnt really want to be there. It was very interesting though and just reinforced the connectivity of being in the moment wrapped in someones arms present and relaxed, hyper focused on breathing, feeling, and all the senses tied to comfort.
I think I can only be a one on one cuddler because I get to know that person better and her business is my business at the time.
I think i prefer one on one but tandem may be fun if you have a great chemistry. I think for me a cuddle puddle would be too much. So many conversations and personalities. I think it’s something i could get use to after I’m aquanted with folks there.