Bra and pantie cuddling....

December 2016

@750000 One person sees brown-nosing and a bunch of people see a psycho. Good luck.

December 2016

Was I the only one honored with an inbox cameo? lol

December 2016

I'm not quite sure how my profile pic was sexual lmao I was wearing shorts. I grew up in Las Vegas and live in LA where it's hot so people wear shorts lol I changed my pic since it was so offensive though. Also, I haven't charged for cuddles in over a year so how am I an example of using my female goods to get money?

CarlosHunt · December 2016

Brandi - this is a reality check - every cuddler, pro or not, is different. That's what I love about cuddling. Some cuddle fully clothed, some in at t-shirt / braless / panties,

CarlosHunt · December 2016

sorry - continued .. and some topless or even fully nude - I'm in the whatever is comfortable between two consenting adults camp. It's ALL good. Why do you care what someone else cuddles in?

December 2016

I see cuddling as a form of therapy. If someone is nude or in bra/panties and cuddling with me it would make me feel uncomfortable. When I cuddle I want to feel comfort.

December 2016

@carloshunt the contract does say that body parts covered by undergarments can't be exposed so nude cuddling would be breaking contract if you're pro cuddling. If your cuddling with a non pro, different story. I know what @Brandi is trying to say and I respect and agree with her. She feels that there should be some moral guidelines for professional cuddlers. I personally think some official standards should be set. I'm sure that wouldn't work though because people can do whatever they want behind closed doors.

docgatorb · December 2016

@Aiko: Your picture wasn't sexual, but you are sexy and apparently you are supposed to hide that, perhaps by wearing a full-body costume. Your new pic isn't sexy either but you do expose your bare shoulder which might excite someone perverted like me.

Brandi · December 2016

Thanks morpheous, glad you understand the point I was trying to make.
@Aiko wear a hotdog suit lol

December 2016

I'd pay to see Aiko in a hot dog suit.

December 2016

I feel like taking a break from CC, it's gotten a little too crazy around these parts lately.

December 2016

Sorry I'm trolling and not adding anything new in my long-winded way to the thread... but I agree with @Brandi and her point as well, there should be some sort of standard because I agree that charging more for underwear cuddling (guy or girl) is sexualizing for profit. If you're cuddling and clothes come off because you're that comfortable, fine. But premeditating it and charging extra for it is targeting and sexualizing and almost inviting of further situations (be it nude cuddling, sex, grinding, etc) which could end badly for the Pro. Unionize!

See I can write short replies too!

CarlosHunt · December 2016

Brandi - Interesting - I just took a look at your profile page .. First I want to say that you're a good looking lady, and I'd love to cuddle with you some day! But I also feel that some of your pics could definitely be considered "sexual" by some and "infer" that maybe you are in fact a rule breaker yourself. I'd love to share that candy cane with you anytime. Smile.

December 2016

The inference would be in the eye of the beholder. I've had a couple of sessions with @Brandi and she's definitely NOT a rule breaker. She's an awesome human, as well.

December 2016

@Morpheus hahah I hear ya! ^_^

December 2016

I asked the founder and "bra and panties sessions" are covered under our contract as clothes.:)

Thanks for the thread though, unless there is someone offering this other them me.

Im personally very comfortable with my body and if I want I wouldn't offer it, whatever your reason for not offering it as a option is your own business. The founder is very nice btw!:)

December 2016

Boom.

I agree. Whatever two consulting adults agree upon is what it is.

December 2016

Thanks chococuddles!

December 2016

I don't think it was ever questioned in that thread that bra and panties were acceptable or unacceptable per the contract. It clearly says that areas covered by undergarments can't be exposed but never states specifics such as you must wear shorts and a t shirt.

December 2016

'What seems to be most in question is the different rates for less clothing. Different rates tend to imply in peoples' minds different ...services it would seem.

December 2016

I don't wear colored bras or even underwear... ever except when I'm in a session.... bras are not cheap especially at my size.. I'm boarding having to get custom ones.. those will personally cost me over 80 dollars for one bra with that being said...

when you go to subway it cost 1 dollar or more for a spoonful of avacodo. When you buy the avacodo at home your going to pay about 1 dollar most of the yr here in az... there is no difference, of course it's going to cost more, because my overhead is more...

To buy one bra, you need to schedule time to go to the store: drive time is a minimum of one hr from the store to home.

Oops they don't have my size..

Come back next week on a specific day and time when the shipment comes in... one more hour drive time

Last time I went bra shopping two weeks ago it took one hour to find... literally one pair of underwear and one and a half hours for a bra with fabric that wouldnt have a reaction too...

So for a one hour session I'm going to dedicate 4 and a half hours or more, most if the time I go they don't have my size

When I've called they have said, yes we have your size... I go in and it's a fabric that I react too..

So yes I will charge more because I have to... idk about anyone else, but this is what I go thru every time... I go...

I believe that my time is worth something and if you don't believe that also. Please don't book with me. I love myself to much to cut myself short and neither should anyone else!

CarlosHunt · December 2016

Cuddlesofcurves- simple solution .... don't wear a bra ,,,, a nice large t-shirt shou

CarlosHunt · December 2016

opps again .... a nice large t shirt should work just fine

December 2016

@carloshunt

That works for me!

I'm just trying to give options, if that's what they need.

You don't want that option go with the other option. No big deal. I have two options for cuddling lol

My options are easier to decide then In-N-Out Burger lol

December 2016

Am I missing something? Why are people telling others what to wear? To protect the dignity of cuddling?

From what I read it didn't seem like CuddlesofCurves wasn't asking for solutions.

In the past I've always made suggestions with my cuddle buddy about what we'll wear. We agree and that's that.

As I've stated before I like the variety of what cuddlers offer. Some wear different things. Some give massages some don't.

The founder has already stated B&P are ok sewwwww............a needle pulling thread?

December 2016

@chococuddles

Thank you! My mom and dad do let me pick out my own clothes now hahahaha...

December 2016

I want to say again that in the thread in question, I believe it was made clear that it was acceptable per the contract to wear bra and panties while cuddling with a pro. The questions that arose were the moral issues surrounding cuddling in underwear and charging additional money for that service. It's okay for us to have discussions concerning things like this. However, what's in the contract is what's in the contract and it is okay per the contract to cuddle in bra and panties.

December 2016

@Morpheus thanks for the clarification. I still think it's fine and even more so now that my big mouth has the full picture.

I pay for upgrades on food, websites, airplanes, heck I even paid for an upgrade for an iPhone game today(the weapon was SUPER cool tho ^_^).

While I do see the point of those against it I, personally, enjoy having extra options.

jacobbur · January 2017

Extra options rock. Honestly the warmth of the body, especially the stomach is soothing. It's well worth the upgrade.

January 2017

come on guys and girls ...bra and panty fine as long as they remain on ... it all about skin to skin ... don't get so anal about contract .

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