Insert Michael Jackson with his popcorn here. I love you guys. ?
Impressive @Jade25 you truly has the lowest rate I've ever seen so far, however, Just to share my thoughts on this, I normally will jump olympically all those Pros that has a rate over 80, for me that's insane, because as a cuddles buddy I'll also provide a good environment, because I've give something from me beside money, that's why I look for a balance, a fair trade on this. I've been testing some of those hight fares with a bunch of titles and training that seriously is not required nor necessary for a simple and nice cuddle session, at the end is the same amount of serotonin, one do not need all that fancy stuff to reach happiness, some of them want to impress to have those higher rates, so let me tell you that I'm glad you have a reasonable rate.
but anyway... there is people of any kind here, some clients will pay that crazy rates, and some others will not. Some of them will try to pass the boundaries and some others will not.
It's so sad that @Andderss have all this bad encounters, but as soon as she report them or anyone who experience this, as soon as you all people report them, all this people will be banned from the community.
And if they have your personal number, well, block them, and if they insist in some other way... next step... report them to the POLICE, because that will be harassment.
Or do someone here know some other way to fix those individuals? No, right?, yeah that's what I thought.
Let's try Stephen Colbert instead ha ha ha ha !! @Catloaf
@Catloaf OMG you too, have a low rate too... even lowest because those are Canadian Dollars, right? That's a fair rate from my personal point of view, I would definitive booked with you if I could!
I read a lot about the positive effects on health and mood cuddling can have. I believe they are real and shouldn’t be disputed. But I think it is less positive when one pays for a session. Maybe it is just me, but there have been some sessions with a pro, usually first sessions, where I have left more depressed than when the session began. And even pros that I had good experiences with there still is a damper because it isn’t a real human connection. I would imagine it is similar to what someone who uses a prostitute feels afterward. A mixture of shame and sadness. At least I need not worry about contracting herpes type 2 after a cuddle session though ?
@denveromelette could you please explain, what was the main reason you end up feeling more depressed after the session?, and please be the most objective possible as you can, this helps to understand you better.
By the way... if you only imagine what would it be the feeling afterward to be with a prostitute... is very possible that you will be wrong in that, normally we are so bad imagining how would be feel something we never try, we normally relate feelings with what we already experience, that's the way we judge the world.
It's seems like you share this from your personal experience, which is fine, no condemn here... this is a free country!
But back to the pays for the session, I agree it would be ideal to have those for free and I am wishing we could have more of those here in CC, but when one need more cuddles than the other one, well, I don't see why not to pay a fair rate for their time, no matter that at the end one will also give them love and caress to make them feel good, is fair, because the took their time to give you that nice moment.
don't you think?
@pmvines Yes, I have had many say they "tip well" or are generous at the very beginning as a way of trying to encourage me to do more.
I will just give one example of a session I left more depressed than coming in Garrablanca. The professional was extremely late and bad at communicating that. I think the appointment was at 8 and she arrived after 10. She was actually easy to talk to but the session was bad. She never cuddled really. She was married even though the filters showed she was single. I guess that is why she didn’t cuddle. She talked about her husband, who was some unemployed loser a lot. She sipped a big gulp and ate candy most of the time. She was actually a nice person and Felt sympathy for her. But when she left I felt very depressed it was such a bad 2 hours.
@denveromelette well I think you allow this bad sessions to happen.
1.- If a Pro can not be on time, you must ask them to CANCEL the appointment, that's a clear sign that it's not going to be a nice session, no matter what, anyone needs to respect others time. 2.- avoid to pay in advance by an app, and if you do that is money that you probably will lose. Pay them when they show up and after have a small conversation about how is going to be the session, if you don't like something then cancel and only pay for the travel expenses, not for the whole session. 3.- Give them a very low Karma evaluation, and explain the reasons of the low punctuation, in that way you'll help the community to get rid of those bad pros.
You see you allow this situation to happen.
Now for your comment about coming over me, I think you are the kind of immature that desperately tries to offend others when you feels injured and that also explains why you are been having all this bad sessions.
Chill out man, we all here are trying to have nice cuddles here.
And if you want to complaint to fix something you also need to provide proof of that in order to fix it and improve this place.
What are you taking about? Coming over you? Not sure what that is about... In reference to your advice blaming me for the situation- you are wrong on all 3 accounts. I didn’t pay in advance. She said she was on the way and showed up 2hours later. I wasn’t going to not answer the door. And lastly- maybe you do not mind writing a negative review trashing someone. That is not my style
Ok @denveromelette you said
I will just give one example of a session I left more depressed than coming in Garrablanca. <
So, I don't know now why you are not remembering, if it's in your previous post.
Well if you are so nice guy to allow this kind of behavior, it doesn't make sense that now you are complaining about.
If you allow this to happen because you are a gentleman then this should make you feel good, but not depressed.
Don't you see is kind of contradictory?
And is not about who's blame is this, is about be responsible of the decisions taken.
But again if you want something to improve, you need to take some actions instead of just putting some hollow complains.
I don’t mean to be rude but I simply do not understand what you are talking about. Good luck to you.
Well, good luck to you too @denveromelette !
I've never been paid to cuddle, but I can fully relate to your post anyway, unfortunately. It happens SO often. So sorry you've experienced this and so often. I hope you can find more genuine, respectful clients. Stay strong with your boundaries.