Hey I’m relatively new here and have found it’s not super easy to promote your self except for the forums. My question is, are there any other ways to put my self out there? I imagine it’s harder for men to find people also?
All I can say is good luck. Men have a harder road being a professional. Try the lottery scratcher tickets.
Lol that’s funny @FunCartel , well worse comes to worse I’d be out $20 this month and what ever I lost in scratchers
I'm very new to this site and interested in knowing if anyone knows the success of plus size women being chosen for cuddles. Definitely not asking for a friend. Asking for me lol
Women typically have more luck then us guys, I have come across plus size women on this site who have a lot of good reviews! Remember your comforting someone not trying to impress them .
@fattypatty I'm definitely plus sized and I've had plenty of cuddle success.
@FattyPatty I consider myself “curvy”, but have had really great encounters (More than I honestly expected). Just remember to always be comfortable and confident in yourself- that’s the most important thing. It’s not about size or shape here, it’s about connecting with the other person.
@FattyPatty Plus Size women tend to do fairly well. I am one, and have been told often that we’re more comfortable to cuddle.
First I do need to correct Kleen even though I will get flack for it. Curvy is NOT plus size, overweight, plump or whatever else you choose to call yourself. Curvy implies curves, not overweight but having well defined curves both top AND bottom. Apple or Pear would be better used for a woman that doesn't have curves both top and bottom. Yes I am entitled to speak of this considering I used to be 350 pounds, 346 to be exact. I've earned the right to speak out about it. I was a fat girl growing up and a plus size woman most of my life. I am and was Pear shaped. I was a size 32 pant in 2012 before I started my journey, the largest size available in retail at the time, if I had gotten any larger I would have needed special order only. I'm currently a 12 about to drop into a 10. Besides, there are size 2 and zero's on here that men will only cuddle once and never go back even though outwardly she's a knockout. Personality is what counts, that's where your beauty really lies. This is also why I don't pay any attention to the billy goat's on here always spewing their negativity. I was 10 to 12 years old, an extreme introvert and getting called thunder thighs and fatty fatty 2 by 4. I cried in the hallways. So a few negative Ned's here doesn't bother me any more than a gnat buzzing my hair.
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@daniel_cuddle welcome as well as @FattyPatty, it's good to have both of you here. Trust me there is a market for any shape here, as long as you are female you're desirable here. Like Daniel states, cuddling is about comfort not nudity or even if you're properly shaved under your pits. Here is a good option to look through for suggestions but there are also many threads about how to find and succeed at cuddling. This just happens to be my favorite. https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/2711/cuddling-discussions-and-resources
@daniel_cuddle Well I will send you the $20–will that help?
At any rate, i think you would have a better chance if you were in NYC or LA where you might snag a lady or two out of sheer numbers. Just my two cents based off what other male pros have said.
@kleen Perfectly said. Nothing to add.
Op deleted account fyi
Wow. The road for a male pro is tougher than we thought!
I think it's sad that there isn't more of a market for male cuddlers. I would (and have) paid for good cuddling before I knew it was a thing.
I'm with you there @DaForceofNature
Our “culture” being what it is, I have trouble imagining men being able to earn a living as a cuddling pro.
Which is completely understandable.
I don’t trust men I don’t know, and I am one.
@CharlesTwisted You would be a fool to totally trust anyone immediately, but I have trusted other men before in different social situations upon meeting them, but I have to size up people pretty quick for work so my intuition is pretty well-honed as are my listening skills. After all, the best business people do not talk; they let everyone else talk because information is king.
@PaulaDahla please know I meant no disrespect in anyway. According to your sizing I’m definitely in plus size category as I wear an 18 But in your terms curvy as well ???? I just choose to see myself as beautiful inside and out regardless of labels clothing stores give us. I’m sorry you had/have a tough time with people being rude to you. I hope you find a positive community here and congrats on your journey sounds truly awesome.
@FattyPatty I'm also new to this site and have found great success, it's not about size it's more about finding a good fit, openness and respect of boundaries