How long have you been on Cuddlecomfort and how many non-professional cuddlers have you been able to meet and cuddle during that time? My numbers are: Two months , no cuddles yet.
Three years, eleven months—three cuddles.
I joined August 2017. I have met one person I am compatible with for cuddles.
6 months. 6 cuddlers. 3 long term on going cuddle relationships
2 and a half yrs. Not too sure the number, somewhere around 20?
1 yr 2 cuddlers...Leaving the site next month
Met 1 person right off the bat in 2017, and that lasted a while. But I have tried extremely hard for 12 months and folks either don't reply, or say they don't want to meet.
Two months. One great pro cuddle free (won giveaway). One amazing cuddle penpal relationship. At least five diverse "Forum friends". Definitely not complaining.
Thank you all for your input. I believe this is good to know.. it gives me, and I hope all of us, a sense of what to expect, realistically. I hope others input their info. too. The more the better. ?
Over two months, no enthusiasts, but one great pro. The area doesn't help - I'm at least an hour's travel away from any women on the site!
One year next month. 24 cuddlers but I have a nagging feeling I am missing some. Half pro and half were enthusiasts. 80% were fantastic, 10% were ok but forgettable and 10% banished from touching me again.
Just thought of 5 more—make that 29.
Since early December 2018 (so a little over 5 months), met with 10 enthusiasts - most of which I've had multiple cuddle sessions with (probably in the ball park of 35 or so actual cuddle sessions). Only one of which I would choose to never see again, the rest were good to great and it's been more about timing and schedules than anything else. A couple have moved along and left the site, in relationships now, etc.
Almost two years, and over a dozen cuddles. Note, almost all of them were in their home town and not local where I live, except for one cuddler who is not on this site. I travel a lot for my job.
I've recently met a local guy for coffee, but our schedules haven't aligned to cuddle yet.
Good luck to you, @CeVnte !
Two months, a bunch of good conversations, two excellent pen pals (both of whom would likely be cuddle buddies if we lived near each other), twenty-eight rejections, six professionals that made it clear I was a paycheck first/human last, one hired professional session that was such a negative experience that I can’t imagine hiring a professional again, and no “enthusiast” cuddle sessions.
A little over a year this time, plus 7 or 8 months prior to that when I took a break. one cuddle, a friend I stay in touch with, but is too far away to meet more than once in a great while. (1000 miles)
4 months, 6 cuddle friends
I'd guess 4 years, no non pro cuddles.
This thread may seem at but prosaic and like its all only a numbers game...but I actually find it one of THE most informative threads - in relation to actual cuddling - that I have ever read here. Thanks for your sharing AND your honesty everybodz. I bet you newbies would otherwise have no realistic idea of how small a number of actual cuddles they might expect to achieve. And that with out these crucial stats they might very well feel inadequate.
I have a few more than average for folks who dont hire paid cuddlers but keep in mind that i some are not in my town so may see if out somewhere, or they may come see me. I have been to maryland to stay with a friend i had met here, and also a friend from here drove from south florida to visit me while in transit for an out of state move. And of its only a few hr drive for me and its a location i would visit on my own anyway, then why not arrange to hang out with somebody? So the more creativity you allow for the better really.
@pmvines Exactly. I am fortunate in that I am one of the ones that travels for work AND I control my schedule. As a result I am scheduling cuddles weeks out in advance which also allows time to chat up potential cuddlers. I am working on a couple of non-pros in Phoenix and Albuquerque in June. My schedule is already set for Boston next week. But even then I may have to travel a little to meet the cuddler that I find as a good match.
@FunCartel yep, flexibility does help! Also being in alabama , i have several bordering states, all fairly small in size, and easily accessible . Sometimes the larger the state and more dense the population the more locked in you are for options, as ironic as it may seem.
I have been on this site going on two months, and have had 10 cuddles, made a dozen friends a few of whom I speak to daily, and my best cuddle penpal whom I cherish. My schedule is a little harder to work around.
Since this January, many rejections but have had 1 pro 1 enthusiast. Really don’t want to seek pros any more since money doesn’t grow on trees, but i may . The options are thin with active within 100 miles, but a lot within 200 and several months of inactivity. I reach out and rarely get response. But i guess is aa virtue as they say.
1 yr 5 months. Only with pros; non-pros almost never reply. But I'm mid-50s, in a relationship, overweght, and as I'm often told, unattractive. So, it's no different than what I expect, but maybe someday.
@Myrddyn I am in my mid-50s and I do get both non-pros and pros. However, some start to take it to another level which is a different problem. A couple of non-pros wanted to see me outside of the Cuddle parameters—dating—which I am not necessarily opposed to but it absolutely must be the right fit because I travel constantly. I did not find that right fit in those that wanted more and it did not end well as if it was their right to date me and I had no say. In short, if they did not want to see you you are better off for it.
Maybe 2 years half a dozen? Most don’t reply, or if they do they just want to text for months and never meet up. I don’t have time for that
First, I want to say that this thread was intended for non-professional cuddlers. No offense meant to professional cuddlers, but IMO the exchange of money makes a great deal of difference for the intent of my question. Thank you all for your contributions - I had only asked for times & numbers, but am delighted to see that so many have explained their personal experiences also. With that in mind, I have found that approximately fifteen female non-professional cuddlers live within 50 miles of my home. I have introduced (texted) myself and three replied. 1st) Spoke a language that I do not. 2nd) Has only replied once. 3rd) Is currently not speaking to me because I would not disclose my real name when she asked (I was overly cautious). I still hope to find someone. Thanks again to you all for sharing your experiences. Keep them coming so that we all understand that we share the same path. Many hugs to all of you.
been on since August 2017! I'm a pro though.
Really interesting thread, and thank you to @CeVnte for coming up with the question! I’ve honestly been curious of this myself (for Pro and non-Pro)
Professional Male: 2 months, 2 paid sessions. (Both amazing
Dear @Myrddyn Who "often tells you you are unattractive"??? If it is one person in particular, you should kick them to the curb. And, if it is your mom, should she still be with us - she is a bad mom. And if it is lots of people then that one person has obviously orchestrated a conspiracy!
I am no final arbiter of beauty but...I reckon we look more than a little alike. And I am...apparently...rocking it, according to my best female friends at least.
My advice to you is too be a bit more loud and proud. That tie dye tee is "fire" for a start. And, if I were female I would be all over you like the proverbial rash.