Cuddle Session is starting but then your worst fear comes true...

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Hypothetically speaking, care to share what that worst fear would be (excluding situations involving violence)? Furthermore, what’s your course of action from that point and on?

In my story, we’ve just started to cuddle and she’s now in front with her back pressed up against my chest. Her cuddle attire consists of a tank top and shorts. She raises her free arm and exposes an armpit that’s not been shaved in years. (Now, I know I’m very far from being perfect, but I have a difficult time with this. Yes, I know cuddling is platonic, yada yada yada, and this shouldn’t matter. However, if it shouldn’t matter, then it makes sense to remove everyone’s photos, gender, height, body type, and ethnicity from all profiles. If I receive backlash from hippies and feminists, so be it.) Okay, back to the story.... Her arm is now up, bent back and placed on my side. Therefore, my biggest fear is 6” from my face.

At this point, I’d probably be extremely nauseous and anxious at the same time. However, I’m not good at lying to get out of a situation or speaking up when unsatisfied. Therefore, I’d take multiple deep breaths and shut my eyes for the remainder of session. With any luck, I won’t feel stubble from her legs on mine and the next 55 minutes would go by quickly.

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  • PandaBunPandaBun
    edited July 2019

    lol

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel
    edited July 2019

    Edited by Me Inc.

  • EmpathJEmpathJ

    That’s why you FaceTime or Skype then prior to meeting. You’ll have a better sense of whether or not they have good hygiene. Natural deodorants do not deodorize.

  • wrenchwrench

    id say violence then hygiene are the 2 biggest fears, then most likely after that would be getting robbed.

  • RaindropSweetieRaindropSweetie

    @EmpathJ They are just talking about body hair not being shaved. It wasn't about hygiene.

    As for natural deodorants... depends on how stinky you are naturally, how hot it is, what your activities planned are, which natural deodorant you pick, how often you shower, etc. I wear natural deodorant that works great. I also know it has limitations and to get into the shower after a sweaty workout, haha.

  • [Deleted User]ISpeaktouch (deleted user)

    I appreciate hearing your honesty. For me, I feel vulnerable cuddling.

    I'm brand new to the group. Please tell me how it's decided how long cuddling will happen? What do people do before cuddling?

  • 2cute2cuddle2cute2cuddle

    @luv2cudl2 Sorry for your experience... What a bummer.😣

  • softlyembracesoftlyembrace

    I always take my own drink with a lid. Don’t want to be roofied.

    One guy was super “grunty”. We’re laying there and in little spoon and I was gently stroking his arm (no other movement) and every breath he made was like a grunt. Little grunts and big grunts. I was like “this session is not going to go over”. It was awkward cause he had neither a tv or radio playing. He also gave me the wrong house number, so I kept going in circles. Altogether the worst cuddling experience thus far.

  • JasonCuddlesJasonCuddles

    Eh that would be fine with me /shrug. I honestly don't see why that's a big deal.

    Anyways I guess my biggest fear would be some sort of violence as well. I am not too concerned about it(though I don't even meet people who push and don't listen) but I am somewhat cautious.

  • hirickyhiricky

    Till now all the people I met on the site are awesome , all of them are very cautious of the hygiene.
    I usually verbalize it ahead of time to make sure we are on the same page.
    Open communication is key.

  • hogboblinhogboblin
    edited July 2019

    “I’m going to change into something more comfortable,” my cuddle partner says, before disappearing into another room.

    When they return, it’s revealed that they’re actually an immense spider-like creature.

    The session would be ruined for me at that point.

  • AceCuddlerMikeAceCuddlerMike

    I'd be out of there if they were even an average sized spider-like creature.

  • [Deleted User]DarrenWalker (deleted user)

    @hogboblin, @Fairbutfirm: Well, there goes our cuddling future.

  • BiblioromanticBiblioromantic

    Biggest fear? Locked in, can't get out, never seen or heard from again.

    2nd biggest fear? Stalkers.

  • MiaSeshMiaSesh

    At this moment my biggest fear is being abducted or assaulted... I know that sounds ridiculous but still. Aside from that? Hmm... Bad breath? Them Also the spider thing for sure.... Like, a lot.

  • SashamcgeeSashamcgee

    Armpit hair is a fear? Whoa.

    Anyways one of the worst situations for me is a smoker. I'm highly sensitive to the smell and am asthmatic so breathing becomes difficult.

  • [Deleted User]2dogmom (deleted user)
    edited August 2019

    Besides the safety fears of women, body odor/bad breath. Hygiene is your friend people. 🚿🛁🧼

    But my absolute worst fear would be they meet me in full clown costume. 🤡😳

  • MiabearMiabear

    My biggest fear is that the client would start trying to sneak their hands in places they don't belong, which would irritate me deeply and I'd give them a last warning without seeming like an irritated b*ch

  • CardiacKidCardiacKid

    My fear is a woman who just sweats and sweats a lot, and is then sexually aggressive.

  • Parad0xParad0x

    If a client is putting their hands anywhere you're not comfortable with, you have every right to be an irritated b*tch.

    I suppose the only thing that would trouble me is if she started talking like a genuine crazy person.

  • [Deleted User]DarrenWalker (deleted user)

    @Sashamcgee: The one good thing about cuddling someone who fears armpit hair—they obviously have no armpit hair. Nice!

    'Course, with long sleeves you'd never know.

  • [Deleted User]creedhands (deleted user)

    My cuddle partner has a last minute change and is substituted by... RICHARD SIMMONS!! AAAAHH!! He cuddles but can't stay still. He pushes you out of bed every five minutes to do jumping jacks. And everything he says in his scratchy, nasally voice is really loud even though you are right there. Worst- at the end of an hour he is dripping with sweat from 'fro to toe!

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    Smoking, bad breath and BO. All preventable and all that say a lot about the person you are cuddling if they have them. Pretty standard fare really that I would hope everyone would fear unless standards have been lowered that far.

  • Haks86Haks86

    I'm not even sure if arm pit hair would annoy me now that I think about it. My worst fear would be an argument breaking out for whatever reason. I hate confrontations. Still haven't had a cuddle session yet but got one lined up for next week.

  • mickcuddlemickcuddle

    We cuddle up and it feels nice but as I look over my cuddle partner’s shoulder I see their MAGA hat hanging on a hook by the door.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    @mickcuddle I am there with you on that one.

  • RaindropSweetieRaindropSweetie

    @mickcuddle I once showed up to find my client was a neonazi. That was a shock. He was a great cuddler though... Respected the rules. Then, he texted me later to ask if I was single. That put a wrench in the works.

    My greatest fears are a client high on something like meth (had this happen) and a client with stinky gas.

  • quietman775quietman775

    If your "worst fear" about a cuddle session is that your cuddle partner belongs to the roughly 50% of the country that didn't vote like you did, I say that's not much to fear. I'm all about the cuddles. Whether someone has Bernie bumper stickers, a closet full of "I'm with Her" t-shirts, or a house full of MAGA hats, I feel no need to inject my political beliefs into an entirely nonpolitical interaction.

    I once (unknowingly) cuddled with a wanted fugitive. That's just one of several real-life horror stories. Hats on hooks? If James Carville and Mary Matalin can stay married, I think we all can happily spend an hour or three cuddling someone with different political views.

  • AceCuddlerMikeAceCuddlerMike

    Well said QM775

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    @quietman775 I would normally agree and I am not going to split political hairs or get into political debates, but @mickcuddle is a gay man and I have a daughter and we currently have a leader who demonstrates a massive disdain for those people so I choose, which is my right as an American, not to cuddle with someone based on principle. I respect that you may disagree, but that is my view. It really has nothing to do with political affiliation and more to do with the person currently “leading” the country.

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