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  • To answer the question, yes, noticed the same here. About 50-50 for me, but I don't really care that a guy looks at my profile. Maybe they just read a forum comment and wanted to see who it came from. It's a public profile, so.....

  • I have alot of men view my profile. Most of the time the correlation is that they are viewing someone I'm friends with or have cuddled and left karma or from the forums. I dont mind. The only time I mind is they copy my profile info, it's happened before lol.

  • Maybe they like you lol cuddle with them lol

  • I find that I get a lot of visitors after I’ve left Karma. I’m guessing males want to see if my interest matches theirs.

  • @pmvines I can see users pics on my phone...

  • @phenom_xm i can't . It may depend on what phone or carrier you use.

  • [Deleted User]nerdish (deleted user)

    Yes, I have experienced more men than women viewing my profile but, usually after I comment on a post.

  • @SJSpooner I block people just to clean up my visitors list. If someone visits and gets banned, paused, deactivated, or deleted, you can then no longer block them. They then remain in your visitors list until they rotate out, so in that regard it is as you said, preemptive. However once someone rotates out of Visitors (or New Members) I unblock them. This keeps my visitors list and new members lists local or in my state. Also, when I travel I collect alot of visitors from wherever I'm traveling. If I block them when I return home, my visitors list returns home as well. When the out-of-towners rotate out of view, I unblock them. This keeps all my activity on CC focused on people I would be most likely to cuddle.

  • [Deleted User]creedhands (deleted user)

    To answer the question yes. To expand on why I visit men's profiles. Sometimes I read things in the Forum and I wonder what the background is of the person posting them. Another reason I visit men's profiles is if I am talking with a potential cuddle partner, I check out their karma and Friends. I am curious to know the type of people they are cuddling with. Sometimes I contact those men to get their opinion on the person I am looking to cuddle or to see what the true expectations of that woman are.

    To answer the other question. The combination of colon block and building block. When you get up in the middle of the night because you have to use the bathroom, but you step on a Lego. But then you get to your destination and realize then nothing's happening.

  • I am guilty of this so I should probably weigh in here. For me it’s a way of screening. I will only make quick arrangements with cuddlers who have good karma from people with good karma. Otherwise, I really have to take the time to get to know someone.

    Viewing the profiles of the people who have left Karma gives more info about whether we are likely to match. I don’t know if this is against the spirit of cc. But I know my success rate in finding amazing people here is higher since I started doing more digging. If it’s wrong I’ll stop.

    Sometimes I’ll also notice (in the Karma) that someone has cuddled some of the same people as I have. Then I want to see who else they cuddled because that’s likely to be a good place to find more amazing people to cuddle with.

    The other thing I’ll sometimes check to see is the Karma a potential cuddler has left. It’s a window into their style. I find that the cuddlers who leave kind, thoughtful and appreciative karma are usually the ones who are... well.... kind, thoughtful and appreciative. :)

    Maybe the visitor list should be private and replaced with some kind of “let the person know I peeked” button. I think screening is more important than anything else. We are all better off if we make safety priority #1.

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