@rheaah Photoshop clusters of bumps onto a full body pic with the subtitle “Greetings From the Phoenix Leper Colony.”
Yes. I don't see the issue with it. Cuddling is about compatibility, and if you're not going to be compatible with that person's height or size then it's not going to work.
If you think it's a red flag and you're the person that poses in positions and angles that give you the best look, then maybe you're the one with the ulterior motive.
People want you to send over your i.d and do a background check but you can't even get a full body pic lol
Love the low energy trolling @Chocolatetreat, I ask for ID only in situations where the person won't send me a picture.
@Chocolatetreat. LOL Some already told the reason that being a good fit is key for a good or regular cuddles. Size does matter to some. Also, some people lie about their size so this man wants to know up front to consider to actually booking a session.
I dont mind being asked for a full body picture if I didnt have one on my profile but this is why I make sure to have a few pictures, so I won't be asked. Everyone has preferences and I might not be everyone's choice. I understand both sides. If you have pictures, then I wouldn't send any. They are being pushy and can go somewhere else.
@SouthFlorida4U my thoughts exactly if your only showing headshots somebody might be curious about your full body size but if you have pics and they are asking for extra can be weird
@pmvines I can understand the need to laugh. Even when sometimes it’s the last thing you want to do.
I am not sure if I've the right imagery of that. Though, I think you are a natural photography. lol. Keep up the good work!
Thanks @Lovelight ! As a guy I don't get women clamoring more inappropriate pics of myself . I can see how as a lady it would become quite tiresome
I understand the request but it's annoying.
I've been asked before and I just dismiss and move on.
@Chocolatetreat Exactly! I try to make sure that I have enough pictures and enough information on my profile to avoid extra questions that I could have answered once for everyone. I'm extremely busy and I want to make sure that a client can understand how I run my relationships with my clients and what to expect. I think its a great way to see if they would be a fit with me.
I guess it would depend on how much I wanted to cuddle with them.
Absolutely not! I NEVER show below the ankles!
Choose your personal boundaries and maintain them unapologetically. I personally refuse to give in to any requests or demands that make me uncomfortable. My rules are my rules and if someone refuses to respect them before cuddling, then I can't expect them to be respected during a session. Since I am a professional, I may be losing out on possible new clients this way, BUT, I can say that this approach has kept me safe and I have never had a poor cuddling experience. Ask them why they are requesting a full body pic...have they been deceived by a previous cuddler or are they just collecting photos? You'll be able to tell a lot about a person by how they respond.
If you're a Professional Cuddler, your body shape and size does matter. If I were inclined to pay for professional cuddling, there are body heights and sizes I would be uncomfortable dealing with (platonically or by choice).
Where I have not problem rejecting or with rejection. Some people do have this challenge.
Not a logical red flag in my opinion.
Professional Cuddling is a Service.
Sexy body pillow * excuse me but I have to LOL . It's actually sad to see that, coming from "Pros". why would you have to stereotype an attractive woman who equally charges for the same service you provide?? Me personally ; i will have no problem cuddling for free , any size ,shape or appearance on a woman , if it is for the sole, genuine and honest purpose of helping someone in need !! and believe me that I will do it !! On a second note , you're 1000% right , that I will pick and choose when it comes to paying a " professional " for a SERVICE!. Somebody said " it's my rules and I have to reinforce them * well.... it's my money and I will spend it where I want , with the person of my choosing!!.
There's nothing wrong with asking for a full body picture, as long as they are not asking for a nude picture or asking you to show more than you're comfortable showing.
I think if we took a survey of how many men on here would ask for a full picture vs how many women, I'm sure the men's count would be higher. But I'd like to ask the ladies here (pro or not): Do you ever cuddle men without seeing a picture first? Even if they have a Pulitzer-prize winning written profile? Even if you only want to see a face, you are sharing that some aspect of their appearance is important to you. I do want to know how many ladies do or would cuddle if you did not see at least a face picture. I actually suggest that, if you are going to be touching more than the man's face during cuddling, you should see what you are expected to touch in clothed picture. If you've really corresponded enough to feel comfortable not seeing a picture and have gone ahead and met, please share that too.
I've cuddled with many people who have never asked for a pic and I have done the same, it's not a variable for me. I would provide a pic after some dialogue and furthering with a phone call. I would not cuddle with someone though without having a phone call. I need to validate they're real, and and get a jist of their character and personality and how the communicate. Communication is the most important thing, cuddling, massaging is the easy part. Spending 2-6 hours will be painful if communication is difficult or contrived in a 5 min call.
As s professional cuddler, if you look at my profile, I have a significant amount of pictures but I still get guys asking for more. I understand that if you’re paying for a service, you want to make sure the “package” is worth while so I agree that if you only have a couple head shots in your profile, and they ask for a body shot then go ahead and send one full photo of yourself. I see no harm. However, my profile is jam packed with photos so there’s no surprise. You see what you get, so when I get men asking for more pictures, I’m sorry but that’s just men wanting to see how far I’m willing to go and they collect pictures. They don’t need more than I’ve already provided.
I honestly think women who go to meet a stranger to cuddle without getting a picture of them are playing a dangerous game. (Same with men truthfully) I always believe that if you are going to meet a stranger, you should have some security in place. I refuse to meet until I see a picture. It’s a simple request and if you can’t abide by it, then our booking is cancelled because the client obviously doesn’t see the importance in my safety. I totally understand why some don’t have a pic in their profile for privacy, but when you get to the point where you are about to meet a stranger and get incredibly intimate and personal with them, you should have that knowledge sent to someone to protect you. Send the photo, address and name of the person to someone you trust will have your back if something goes sideways.
For the OPs question, I didn’t see any body pics. So yes, there is no harm in sending a body pic. If they keep asking for more, they are either admiring you but ignoring your discomfort or they are flat out creeps. Don’t do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable but sending a normal looking full body pic shouldn’t feel invasive until they push you for something more or something scandalous. Does this make sense?
@Sheena123 i agree somebody like you has full body pics so somebody really shouldn't ask for more the most is a video call to make sure your not catfish lol. Also meeting up without a pic is a no no
i personally dont see anything wrong with a full body photo, anything waist up especially. i think it gets tricky when they ask in specific outfits. like we don't need bathing suit type body shots lol
while body type shouldn't matter, i think people have their reasons to ask sometimes. personally i think a lot of times its superficial reasons but maybe that's just me coming from being a pro - i would like for folks to be happy with their cuddling choice. regardless of their reasons, as long as it doesn't break TOS or goes against code of conduct.
What’s wrong with asking for picture of full body?
I think body shape and size really does matter, and I would send enough of a picture to make my body type clear. There are certainly body types that I prefer to cuddle and types I prefer not to...
I always demand a full body photo and a recent one. I've been lied to so many times. Body type listed as average when the woman really weighs 400lbs. Also had an appt to cuddle with a woman whose profile photo was 20-30 years old.
If a cuddler refuses to provide, I always pass. Of course, quid pro quo.
And when I say full body, I mean a normal and decent photo.
Every cuddle partner is entitled to know what the partner looks like.
I have even asked the cuddler to send a photo of their cuddle space so that I know it is private, clean, and safe. Again, everyone should be entitled to know this.
Why do people get mad that people want to cuddle with those they are comfy with? I do not get this at all.
@hertouch: Because way too often "I just wanna know what your whole body looks like" is code for "I just wanna know if I'd like to bang you." That's why.
Nothing wrong with the request itself, it just gets used wrong too much.
"I have even asked the cuddler to send a photo of their cuddle space so that I know it is private, clean, and safe." - @pilson
Here's a full-body picture of me in my cuddle space. It has a privacy curtain, its obviously clean, and has safety rails. Meets all your requirements.
@DonLonG ah , cozy !!
@pmvines we gonna cuddle in the tub next time?? lol