I think its time we got some positive forums going on in this place!
There are all these debates forums and talking about strict rules, regulations and security cameras, contracts, jeans and a lot of other important topics people on here but some seem to keep looping back to same issues in new forums to just talk more negativity on pros or clients about issues that have been dealt with or at least that seem to have been dealt with and its a tad overwhelming to keep up with. Plus its all just so negative to read! This should really be a place of love and acceptance, I think everyone agrees
And while I agree there should definitely be guide lines and clients/pros should have their preferences, maybe it would be better to keep some of those thoughts to the client/pro you are specifically interested in having a session with through messaging since so much is so subjective or a preference. (And it would be nice if we could be civil in future Debates.)
I notice its usually one pro against about 3 clients at a time trashing on her, or trying to make her feel bad by making subtle hostile remarks for something she does or doesnt do...And I don't think its very fair... Pros try to be very respectful and accommodate all of a client's needs, while sticking to their self respect and safety.... but if client's needs happen to cross a pro's boundaries, just accept that a pro has a right to do things their way (it is the service
they provide after all) and move on to find a different pro, rather than get so upset over their choices...which I notice a lot of around here. Just continue with your way if you are seeking something they cannot provide to you, or if they do something you are not comfortable with. Of course we provide this service for you and your needs should be met to a certain extent that we're comfortable providing, but I feel a lot of clients are beginning to demand certain things and really take offense when things are done otherwise by pros.
But overall I just wanted to get that out of the way, and start a beautiful new forum for anyone that would like to share the kind of positive change that this site deserves.. to kind of change the mood around here
Respect is needed around here. Pros to clients, and visa versa.
What is one of your favorite topics to discuss while cuddling? or what was one of your favorite cuddle moments you've had in the past and why? what made it so great?
One of my personal favoritest favorite moments was when a client asked me to make eye contact with him for 5 minutes at the end of a session. It totally broke me out of my shell that I didn't even know I was hiding in, and I think it was just such a surreal beautiful moment of two people looking each other in the eyes and just existing, and accepting one another for who they are. It changed me and now I can make eye contact with anyone without feeling awkward or uncomfortable, and I felt a sense of awareness. I'd love to hear your guys' experiences! and I look forward to hopefully seeing a positive chain reaction in the responses.
xoxo
brandi
