I sent a message to a pro a month ago signifying a desire to possibly set up a session. No reply, because she seemed t be offline for a bit. I see she is back on, so ask about her availability. She responded asking for a photo. I provided her with a photo. Then she tells me that she doesn't cuddle with married men. I have always been upfront that I am married, putting such information in my public profile. I used to live on the west coast, and had several pleasant buddies. I have found a different vibe on the east coast (with one or two exceptions - you know who you are ). I mean no disrespect, but this site seems to have changed since I first joined 3 years ago (including the number of "non pros" who expect some kind of payment). Is anyone else finding such confusing frustrations?