@Mark, sorry, didn't mean to be so dramatic. Was on my phone at a stoplight being terse. I get it. Sorry if that sounded insulting. Didn't intend that.
Thanks for the clarification
I distinguish favorites and friends as ... I will add as friend or request them or send them or grant their request , as anyone on the site that I would want to know , and it goes public . Male or female . In the male , I don’t cuddle men.
Favorite , I would only favorite a cuddle target , and save them to a list , and I do t mind them knowing it , also it is not a public display . Right now I use it as .. a new member, signs up , their profile is displayed and I will try to message , only to get a window that says they are getting too many messages , try again later . Favoriting them secures their profile in a favorite bank that I can use to message them in case they go mute and their profile is hidden . Now , since they don’t know I favorited them .. I send them a message and it gets buried in line behind 49 other messages , they will Probably respond to what ? 10 messages , and then quit . Now if they were notified that “x” number of cuddlers favorited them , they will stop responding to the message inbox , and review who favorited them , and Hmmmm , they might check out the dudes , and I think they might reach out to the favoritors. So ,@mark , don’t you think just a little bit more love will be spread around if you adjusted to the majority vote ? After all , isn’t that what we are here for ? Instead of spying or keeping a cuddler under secret surveillance? Besides , you might get wealthier too .. imagine , pro cuddlers favoriting prospective clients and the client is informed , that kind of favorite ... says .. “ I like YOU ! Not just your money !” You might even save the world ! There could be two opposing nuclear powers , ready for war , then the King of one and the Queen or the other , discover one of them favorited them on cuddle comfort . So they plan a cuddle date instead of world destruction .
@cuddlerforu24 i had never before considered the potential geopolitical significance of the Favorites list. I may have to change my vote to stave off nuclear winter. LOL
@quietman775 A good nuclear winter would promote survival cuddling, and anyone already trained up would be in high demand. 😀
Imagine Darth Vader informed the he was favorited by Princess Leah.....
I got a barbecue invite from Darth Vader, but I didn't go. I know he likes his sausages on the dark side.